April 9th 201907:31:56 AM

Name:

jackie

Comments:

happy birthday Steph! thinking about you on your day. miss you cutie. all my love, mother j

April 9th 201907:17:19 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Florida

Comments:

Happy Birthday in Heaven Sweetheart.. I cannot believe how much time has gone by since you were home with your beautiful mom and dad and your two beautiful brothers.. for them to watch you blow out your candles and make a wish first of course... Its been a long time.. too long.. Im shedding tears now because you cannot be here for your birthday and I know how much your family friends and loved ones want you here if only for today.. to celebrate your birth.. the day you were gifted into the arms and hearts of your family.. Im so sorry for us. .. The missing. But Ive heard that greater things await us up there in Heaven and only you and others who have gone on before us know all about those answers... We can only have faith we will be at your side and all our loved ones side again.. Faith.. Today a candle will be lit for you honey.. And you will never be forgotten by me. You sit in my heart next to Danny... and always will. I love you Princess in pink.. that is how I think of you... We have never met but boy do I know you from your pushy mom... you know the lady xox... lol.. We will all be together soon honey... be patient I know your smiling down from Heaven today watching and holding anyone who sheds a tear with a smile and a twinkle in your eye.. Because you know the secrets and we dont. Love you so much. Happy Birthday xox

April 8th 201908:02:52 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My sweet baby girl, tomorrow you will be 32 yrs old on earth. But forever 18. April 9, 1987 was one of my most beautiful gifts . It’s just not right that all our life’s changed for ever. Living with out you in our life’s is the hardest thing we will ever do. Living in this reality every day is painful and knowing you never got to live your life with us. What would you be doing today?
One more painful thing is never thinking that Marybeth little girl would be with you. I know you are with Maisie and telling her all the fun stories about her mommy. Make sure you help Maisie send her mommy signs from her. My heart hurts so much for us and Marybeth’s family. I know you both are in a very happy place. But it doesn’t feel that way for us here without either of you.
Love and Missing you every second of my life.
“ALWAYS AND FOREVER “
Moochie

April 8th 201907:53:56 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffins House

Comments:

I miss you soooooo much my GEEL😔❤️

April 8th 201907:36:39 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffins's House

Comments:

Tomorrow is your birthday. 32😔I miss you so much my Geek❤️

November 4th 201810:26:28 AM

Name:

Jackie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

🌹 thinking of you today. All my love, mother j

October 31st 201807:17:11 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffins House

Comments:

Thirteen YEARS without you are looming! Today is Halloween. Halloween brings back many memories of you and your brothers dressing up and me going out with you and usually freezing or getting soaked. Twenty-four years (1994) we took you and your brothers to visit Grandma’s after Trick or Treating, as was our custom. When we arrived you could tell she had been crying and was very sad. You were the only one who could make her laugh and smile. Especially with your old lady mask and kerchief. She passed away that night but your special gift was finding ways to make people smile.

April 9th 201801:27:27 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph! You are in my thoughts, always. Miss you every day!
 

Love, MaryBeth

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April 9th 201811:17:58 AM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 31st birthday stephanie! gosh, how we miss you  sending all my love and hugs to you on your day
 

mother j

Reply:

Nick and Cindy replied 2 years ago

Thank you Mary Jackie we really appreciate you remember and keeping her memory in your heart. We have very fond memories of you and Steph that we will cherish forever.ies:

April 9th 201805:16:35 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's House

Comments:

Another birthday without you is here. This one is the 13th. . My baby girl would be 31!! I can’t believe it, as you are always my baby girl. 

April 4th 201806:41:52 AM

Name:

DAd

Location:

Muffins House

Comments:

150 months today

February 27th 201805:26:40 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece,NY

Comments:

My Sweet Baby Girl,
Their is never a morning I wake up with out you in my thoughts. I see your glorious beautiful smile, your beautiful face. When I look at a special picture of you about a year 1/2 yrs old. I see and say, I could have never imagined losing this little sweet baby girl. NEVER! HOW COULD THIS EVER BE?????
Never thought you would be taken at 18 yrs old. How?????? I now look at other little kids and say to my self, will anything happen to this beautiful child? It's still so hard to imagine this really happened. But You are not here and it did. My heart hurts so much and will for ever.
 

No matter how I spend my day, no matter what I do, I will never spend a single day without you in my heart or
my thoughts. It could never happen. You are my person, you live in my heart and soul.
Missing you every second of my life.
Love You Sweet Girl
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER"MOOCHIE XoXoXo

November 3rd 201712:54:46 PM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Time keeps marching on but the pain never goes away. I miss you so much and can’t help wondering how our lives would be different if we still had you here with us. I know I am not saying anything new or profound it’s like an endless loop of sadness.

May 13th 201708:51:36 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's House

Comments:

600 weeks today. They keep piling up. I miss you soooooo much Geel

April 9th 201704:22:22 PM

Name:

Kathie Sheridan

Location:

Living in Maryland

Comments:

Dear Oliva Family, My heart and thoughts are with you...HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEPHANIE. Cindy, Thank you so much for all your support when my John died. I hope that Johnny and Stephanie have crossed paths in eternity. The pain is never-ending. Love, Peace and Hope, Kathie

April 9th 201708:42:04 AM

Name:

Marian Schrader

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday beautiful angel Stephanie!! Always in my thoughts and heart!!

April 9th 201706:58:38 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Another birthday without you is here. This one is the 12th. . However, this one stings a little more as it would be your Big 3 0. I can only imagine what your life would have been like at 30. Would you be married with kids of your own? Would you still be a hairdresser? If not what would you be doing, perhaps makeup artist to the stars???

April 8th 201711:12:50 PM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

Cindyo

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Stephanie, My Daughter, My Person
I see you in my thoughts and I do not see passage of time.
I see my little girl playing dress up, running through the yard, playing on the swings. I see you sitting with your brothers while daddy reads you all a book. I see you on TGIF nights tucked in with one of your brothers and their sleeping blanket. I see you at your recitals, I see you be a cheerleader, I watched you walk across the stage for your high school diploma. I seen you start your dream at 18 at Sheer Ego.Then Tears
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER
Love,
Mooch

December 31st 201607:42:58 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's house

Comments:

About to begin 12th New Year without my Geel. New years since and going forward can never be Happy but OK at best.

November 4th 201601:06:20 PM

Name:

Moochie

Aim Screen Name

cindyo

Location:

muffins house

Comments:

!! years has gone by me. November 4th 2005 has been at a stand still and always will. As we all know here that the missing gets more painful as when your birthday comes as well. I know how old you would be and think what your life would have been.????? "tears"I LOVE YOU" their is no pain that could ever touch this pain,
"I LOVE YOU, ALWAYS AND FOREVER"

November 4th 201606:55:20 AM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

we miss you steph. 11 years  you'll forever be 18 and young and beautiful and funny and a clean freak with your windex and all your abrev's which are now part of our regular vocab! big hugs and all my love,
 

mother j

November 4th 201606:08:46 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

New Port Richey Florida

Comments:

My heart is with your Mom, dad, and brothers today and all your friends and family. Such a sweet girl you are...I dont understand and can never wrap my brain around the why? Only when we are all together will we find out until then Enjoy your glory young lady... always in my heart xox

April 9th 2013

01:04:05 PM

Name:Michael Parker

Location:Greece

Comments:Hi Steph! Wanted to stop by and say happy birthday and that we all miss you a lot. There are a lot of memories I have of you, your brothers, and your parents and those times were some of the best times growing up for me.

I actually just drove by Bronze Leaf the other day and it was a trip down memory lane! I say a prayer every week at church for you and your parents.

Love and miss you!

-Michael "Snot"

April 9th 2013

01:02:29 PM

Name:Linda Wichmann

Location:St. Louis , MO.

Comments:Sending Birthday wishes up to heaven for you beautiful Stephanie ♥ Celebrate big with all our angels ♥ Stay close to your mom as she misses you so. Send her butterfly kisses sweetheart ♥ Love from Brian's mom , my angel in heaven ♥ ~~ ♥Stephanie ♥ ~~

April 9th 2013

10:20:58 AM

Name:Barbara Lanieri

Location:florida

Comments:HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN ANGEL STEPHANIE.. I CELEBRATE THE DAY YOU WERE BORN INTO A MOST LOVING FAMILY...I KEEP YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS IN MY PRAYERS ALL THE TIME. I KNOW YOU ARE DOING WELL AND SHINE SO BRIGHT.. I CAN FEEL YOU RADIATE ... YOU ARE A PRECIOUS ANGEL TO ME.. KEEP SHINING STEPHANIE.. A CANDLE IS LIT.. 

April 9th 2013

10:10:30 AM

Name:Meg

Comments:Stephy,

I thought it would eventually get easier, but it seems like lately it only gets harder. I wish you were here to experience life and growing older with me.

I know you are always watching and it is comforting to know. Thank you for coming into my dream the other night but I wish you did that more often so I could talk to you some more.

I miss our friendship and the way we could go months without talking and then pick up right where we left off. I came across old notes from you in 5th and 6th grade. They were hilarious and I will hold onto them forever.

Wishing you a happy birthday from down here. Hope you are singing and dancing with the rest of the angels.

I love you BFF

Chap

April 9th 2013

08:45:34 AM

Name:Laura Harris ~Katie's~ Mom

Comments:Happy Birthday in Heaven Stephanie, I can imagine you dancing in the streets of gold.

Send your Mom some Angel kisses...

April 9th 201307:47:29 AM

Name:

Sharon Lee Hoover

Location:

Ohio

Comments:

Happy Birthday Sweet Stephanie,
I hope you are Dancing and singing and having a Great time with Kimmy and all your new friends. Much love, Kimmys mom.

April 9th 201305:32:12 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 26th birthday steph! sending all my love and hugs to you 

April 9th 201312:45:05 AM

Name:

Judy Lujan

Location:

China, right now

Comments:

Happy birthday Stephanie! Many hugs and happy birthday wishes sent from earth to heaven for you! 

April 8th 201311:35:36 PM

Name:

Londa

Location:

California

Comments:

Stephanie, I just wanted to wish you a wonderful birthday in heaven. You are so very much missed by all that loved you. You are so lucky to be able to have such a glorious birthday with all Gods special angels. Not a day goes by that I don't see your beautiful face, your mom keeps you so alive on facebook, and on your special website that your brothers put together. Your smile just brightens up a gloomy day, please continue to send your family your special little gift signs. Happy 26th birthday sweetheart, sending hugs and butterfly kisses to you! Love Aunt Londa

April 8th 201309:01:33 PM

Name:

Cheryl Roy

Aim Screen Name

cheshall@aol.com

Location:

Swansea, Mass.

Comments:

Sending you lots of hugs and kisses Stephanie on your heavenly birthday, thinking of your family and how much they miss you so.

April 8th 201308:16:05 PM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

Cindyo55

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

Sending you a BIG HUG, kisses and all my love up to you on your Birthday. This is all I can send to you. Missing you on your Birthday is so lonely and not able to go out to dinner then come home to sing Happy Birthday and watch the excitement on your face opening your gifts. Never just one gift, I had trouble controlling my self buying the gifts. Plus all the little ones I would leave on your bed and say no more gifts. But I never could resist when ever I went out. That what makes it special to have a little girl and turn into a beautiful young lady.I miss buying you things every time I am in a store. It breaks my heart knowing I can not buy them any more. I am so happy that I did keep buying those gifts when I would say this is the last gift on your bed. We both knew it wasn't. To me that's what made it so special to have my little girl. You were my gift, my dream and I was so lucky to have you even if it was for only 18 years. I still cry for you and my heart will never be the same again. I will always walk around with a piece of me missing. You were my person, My daughter and my most beautiful gift. Happy Birthday to you up in Heaven. Tears and loneliness here with out you. "ALWAYS AND FOREVER IN MY HEART"
Loving You Always 24/7'
Moochie

April 8th 201307:58:27 PM

Name:

Daddy

Location:

Greece, New York

Comments:

I always loved shopping for your presents and anxiously awaiting your expressions as you opened them. I also really loved each year you never being able to find your Easter basket without help from your brothers.
Although you loved all kinds of gifts. You especially loved the diamond earrings and leather coat. Those were the most fun gifts to buy for you and anticipate your excitement, I always enjoyed buying you presents. You were always so excited to get them and always showed how happy and thankful you were. Especially when your mom would hear you call your friends to tell them what you got.
Love you always my "Geel",
Daddy

April 8th 201306:43:34 PM

Name:

Renee (Dave's Mom)

Location:

Pa

Comments:

Thinking of you and your family tonight sweet Stephanie- I will have my candle glowing all day here in Pa tomorrow for you - be close to your mom and give her strength

April 8th 201304:14:34 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie I want to wish you a happy birthday. Make sure my boys help you celebrate big and send lots of love down to your Mom and Dad and brothers.

April 8th 201307:40:23 AM

Name:

Yvonne Underwood

Comments:

Fly high and free beautiful girl!

April 8th 201307:37:30 AM

Name:

Eileen

Location:

Florida

Comments:

Happy Birthday in Heaven Stephanie

March 1st 201305:39:13 AM

Name:

Donna Mom to Angie Robert

Comments:

Memories are made of love and spending time with your love ones. Memories are life's best treasures. Hugs Stephanie xo

February 10th 201306:17:55 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

thinking about you, little one. wishing you were here with us. hugs and all my love, mother j

January 1st 201311:48:20 PM

Name:

Moochie

Aim Screen Name

cindyo

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

IF I COULD VISIT HEAVEN,
EVEN FOR A DAY,
MAYBE FOR A MOMENT,
THE PAIN WOULD GO AWAY.
I'D PUT MY ARMS AROUND YOU,
AND WHISPERS WORDS SO TRUE,
THAT LIVING LIFE WITH OUT YOU,
IS THE HARDEST THING TO DO.
NO MATTER HOW I SPEND MY DAYS,
NO MATTER WHAT I DO,
NO MORNING DOWNS OR EVENING FALLS,
WHEN I DON'T THINK OF YOU.
"THINKING AND MISSING YOU 24/7"
IT NEVER ENDS AS THE MISSING GETS STRONGER
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER" LOVING YOU"

January 1st 201311:32:19 PM

Name:

Cindyo

Aim Screen Name

Cindyo

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

ಌMemories of you are lovingly kept, You are too special to ever forget. Out of my life you have gone, But in my HEART you still live on.
"LOVE YOU ALWAYS MISSING YOU 24/7"
"NEVER ENDS ONLY GETS STRONGER"

December 25th 201202:56:11 PM

Name:

DAd

Comments:

I miss you so much Geely. Eighth Christmas without my baby girl.

December 17th 201210:15:00 PM

Name:

Moochie (Mom)

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

"NEVER FORGETTING"
"STEPHANIE"
OUR LOVE WILL ALWAYS REMAIN WITH ME,
FOR OUR LOVE ITSELF LIVES ON,
OUR CHERISHED MEMORIES WILL NEVER FADE.
BECAUSE YOU ARE GONE FROM THIS EARTH,
YOU CAN NEVER BE MORE THEN A THOUGHT
AWAY OR APART FROM ME.
FOR AS LONG AS I HAVE OUR MEMORIES
YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN MY HEART.
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER 24/7"
LOVING YOU AND MISSING YOU.....
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY PERSON.....
"MINI ME"

November 6th 201212:16:15 PM

Name:

Shelly Aston

Location:

Elkhart, IN

Comments:

thinking of you and your precious stephanie, blessings, xoxo

November 5th 201203:51:19 PM

Name:

Donna Robert

Location:

Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Comments:

Stephanie you truly are a beautiful looking girl...there is nothing harder than parents losing a child...I know...my daughter died in a tragic car accident at 24 yrs of age, leaving a son who was nearly 3 yrs old...I'm sure you've met her up in Heaven...and I bet your both doing each other’s hair...
 

Your family has done a wonderful job on this site for you...may your love and memories keep them whole until they are with you again one day!
 

Sending big hugs to you and your family xo

November 5th 201208:33:27 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

Steph, we all miss you so so much. it's just not right that you are not here with us all. i still can see you with your little legs tucked under you sitting on our couch, that's my last time seeing you. what i wouldn't give for one more hug and to hear you call me mother j once more. you were the one who started calling me that. i miss you Stephanie and love you forever

November 4th 201203:33:45 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

FLORIDA USA

Comments:

PRECIOUS ANGEL STEPHANIE ... YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED ALWAYS AND FOREVER.. YOUR LIGHT SHINES ON.. BEAUTIFUL ANGEL... A CANDLE IS LIT FOR YOU FROM MY HOME.. I KNOW YOU AND DANNY HAVE MET ALREADY.. AND THIS GIVES ME COMFORT.. YOU ARE AN AMAZING YOUNG LADY AND I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT YOU FROM MOM... SO MANY MEMORIES MOM HOLDS IN HER HEART AND SHARES... YOUR MEMORY LIVES ON UNTIL WE ALL COME HOME.. GOD BLESS YOU ... THE OLIVA FAMILY

November 4th 201211:43:18 AM

Name:

Tommy

Location:

Smiths, Alabama

Comments:

I "Light This Candle" For "My Friend And Sister In Grief"
(((((((((Cindy)))))))))
"In Memory And Ho//or Of Her Beautiful Precious Daughter
(((((((((Stephanie))))))))).
Please know that you are in my heart and thoughts on this most difficult day and always
(((((((((Cindy "SAY THEIR NAMES" STEPHANIE))))))))).
 

"With Love And Memories Of My Youngest Daughter Carmelita"
"MY CARME"
"WHEN I SEE A BUTTERFLY~~I THINK OF YOU."
 

(((((((((Stephanie T E A R S Carmelita)))))))))
"SO//EO//E CARES"
"SAY THEIR NA/../.ES."
 

"Your Friend And Brother In Grief."

November 4th 201209:54:03 AM

Name:

Marian

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hi Stephanie,
I hope you are keeping everyone on there toes in heaven! I miss your spitfire attitude!! You were an amazing vibrant special young woman!! We think of you everyday sweet angel!!
Love
The Schrader's

November 4th 201206:54:40 AM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Steph, I cannot believe it has been 7 years since you were taken from us. I still think of you every day and miss you terribly. I know that you are looking down on everyone and keeping us safe. Your life on earth was way to short and I wish we had more time together, until we meet again rest in peace my angel

November 4th 201203:59:35 AM

Name:

Jo-Ann Pacenta

Location:

New York

Comments:

Sometimes tears are the only words the heart can speak; bringing peace from healing waters & a stream of hope. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time dear Stephanie.

November 3rd 201211:19:07 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw B.J., Wayne and Buck's Mama

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie I know your Mom, Dad and brothers are missing you so much. Please send them a sign that you are close to them. You'll forever be in my heart sweet girl.♥
Sending gentle hugs and prayers to your sweet Mom...my sweet friend.♥

November 3rd 201211:03:50 PM

Name:

cindy

Location:

Greece,, N.Y.

Comments:

Say her name, we need to say her name, her name "STEPHANIE" We need to say it loud to whom we talk with. Let them hear us say her name. We can say her name,It wont break us because we love to say her name. When you hear us speak her name, then you will know that is what a parent would do, no matter what. Our love for our child will never die and it's OK to to speak her name. We want to hear her name and we want to say her name. We want to talk about her. "SHE LIVED" she lives in our hearts and she will be remembered . "ALWAYS AND FOREVER" Stephanie,. your spirit lives on and your smile. Missing you will never end,
Love and miss you so, so much.

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November 3rd 201210:47:41 PM

Name:

Cindy

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

We approached the 7th year with out you. Never in my right mind would I believe that you would be taken from us, I know you were and it is so painful.Something that no parent should ever have to live in their life time.We have no choice but to do it and learn to cope each day. It is a job in its self like no other job. It is even harder then being a good parent. They say being a parent is one of the hardest thing to do. But it's not. Losing you is the hardest job. It still feels like last night you were taken but feels like forever since I have seen you or hugged you.You will never leave my heart. I have no choice but for you to remain and live in my heart.I rather have you here with me and if their was ever a way to have gotten you back , No matter what the consequences would have been, I would have done it. . Loving and missing you always and forever my sweet girl, my only girl. Tears
your Moochie XoXoXoXo

November 2nd 201201:35:59 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

This Sunday ot will be 7 years since the worst day in my life. Fot that matter our families life. Days, weeks, and months go by but the pain and emptiness is always there. I constantly find myself wondering how you’d be doing. Would you still be a hairdresser? Would you be married? Would I be a Grandpa? It seems like forever and it seems like yesterday. I long to hear your voice, your laugh, and see that smile. I even miss your witty sarcasm and complaints.

September 18th 201201:45:18 PM

Name:

Mooch

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

In every heart you touched,in every life you changed
in every thought you inspired,your love lives on.
Your voice still echoes,your life still inspires,
your light still shines and always will.
Thinking of you 24/7 I never stop ♥♥♥
Missing you so very much. It only gets
stronger as more time goes on.
Always Loving and missing you

August 6th 201208:43:57 PM

Name:

Mooch (Mom)

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LmobRnRY_1g&feature=player_embedded

June 15th 201210:38:17 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Geely,
 

This Sunday will be my 7th Fathers day without you. I know your brothers and mother will be make the day special. However it will never be the same without my baby girl there with me. The hole in my heart is always there. Miss you so much.
 

Dad

April 9th 201206:34:22 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy 25th Birthday Stephanie! I wish we could have spent more birthdays together, but I know you are smiling down on me. Rest in Peace my love I miss you very much and not a day goes by where I do not think of you. Love you Steph

April 9th 201202:15:20 PM

Name:

BARBARA LANIERI

Location:

NEW PORT RICHEY FLORIDA

Comments:

I LOVE THIS SMILEY BECAUSE I THINK YOU WOULD LOVE THIS ONE.. HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN SWEET BABY GIRL.. FOREVER 18 AND YOUNG... DANNY IS INSTRUCTED TO SQUEEZE YOU TILL YOU GIGGLE SO LOUD MAMA WILL HEAR YOU.. LOVE YOU STEPHANIE ANNE OLIVA.. XOX

April 9th 201201:58:33 PM

Name:

Cindy O

Location:

Greece, New York

Comments:

HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY MY SWEET STEPHANIE
Loved you the minute I heard you were coming. I loved you even more the minute you were born. Then I saw your face and fell in love some more. You were only a minute old, but I knew I would die for you and to this day I still would. When you choose to have a child you make a conscious decision to allow your heart to walk around outside of your body. There is no LOVE like loving your child. They are a piece of you. But now you are gone. I work to keep your memory alive and you will always live through me. Isn't this what a mother would do if she lost her child?
 

A DAUGHTER IS A MIRACLE THAT NEVER CEASES TO BE MIRACULOUS…
FULL OF BEAUTY AND FOREVER BEAUTIFUL
LOVING, CARING AND AMAZING…
“ALWAYS AND FOREVER”
MOOCHIE (MOM)

April 9th 201201:47:29 PM

Name:

denise

Location:

cumberland

Comments:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN TO A BEAUTIFUL SWEET GIRL ......

April 9th 201211:44:28 AM

Name:

Mike Parker

Aim Screen Name

mikeypebw

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph! We love and miss you very much. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

April 9th 201209:11:04 AM

Name:

Linda Wichmann

Location:

St. Louis , MO.

Comments:

Happy 25th Birthday in Heaven Stephanie ♥ You are loved & missed everyday angel ♥I am honored to light a candle for you birthday sweet Stephanie ♥

April 9th 201208:13:35 AM

Name:

MaryBeth

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph!!! Thinking of you always! Miss you each and every day my friend! Love you!

April 9th 201206:15:22 AM

Name:

amanda nusz

Comments:

Happy Birthday princess  I think of u and your family often. Always in our thoughts, Forever in our hearts. R.I.P beautiful. I'm wearing pink in your memory today!

April 9th 201205:05:09 AM

Name:

Renee (Dave's Mom)

Location:

Pennsylvania (USA)

Comments:

Happy birthday in Heaven sweet Stephanie. My candle is glowing here in Pa . for you- Fly close to your family today and give them strength especially today on your birthday

April 9th 201203:32:04 AM

Name:

Judy Lujan

Location:

USA/China

Comments:

Happy birthday Stephanie! I know that earth birthdays aren't regarded as very important in the spirit world, but they are very, very important to angel parents. Send your mama lots of signs today.

April 9th 201202:34:42 AM

Name:

Anneli

Location:

England

Comments:

Happy Heavenly Birthday Stephanie xx

April 9th 201212:03:17 AM

Name:

Shelly Aston

Location:

Elkhart, IN

Comments:

thinking of you cindy and your precious stephani, fly with the angels, rip, xoxo

April 8th 201211:04:19 PM

Name:

Carlo

Location:

Spinoso Italy)

Comments:

In memory of Stephanie's birthday
 

There was a time in America a wonderful woman who had married a man just as wonderful, with a special pair were right! Then they became the parents of 3 beautiful kids. People said "It 'a very united family! Nothing and no one will ever divide!" Unfortunately, one day of November, the youngest of three children left them, because God wanted with him in heaven, the celestial light dressing! Since then, the small family continues to live with the memory of their little daughter, but also with a great inner strength that helps them every day to fight the sadness and to address problems with energy.
The characters in this little tale on you, dear cousins, and I am sincerely proud of you!
A white rose for you, Stephanie!
 

Carlo

April 8th 201210:59:32 PM

Name:

Linda Duren Pitti

Location:

West Plains, Missouri

Comments:

Happy Heavenly Birthday Stephanie!! May you fly high today and everyday with all the angels!! Let your Mom and family know you are near with a light kiss on her cheek or a slight touch of your hand on hers!! Love, peace and light!! Linda 

April 8th 201208:00:53 AM

Name:

Lisa Vance

Location:

MS

Comments:

Happy 25th Birthday Beautiful Stephanie!! Hope you're singing with the Lord and all our Angels on this gorgeous Easter Sunday.
Send your sweet mom many signs of your presence to make her day easier!
Love and Hugs,
Lisa (Tiffany's Mom)
*~*~*~*~*
http://www.tiffanyvance.net

My Guestbook

April 6th 201205:59:18 PM

Name:

Cheryl Roy

Aim Screen Name

cheryl roy

Location:

Swansea, Mass.

Comments:

Happy Birthday In Heaven Stephanie, Fly High With The Angels !

March 23rd 201201:21:06 PM

Name:

Awilda

Aim Screen Name

Reyesawilda

Location:

New York

Comments:

Wishing you Stephanie Anne Oliva a beautiful Glory Birthday in Heaven.. With your Beauty, Smile and Golden Hair you will light up Heaven..May God make your birthday special cause you are special..

March 20th 201210:42:21 PM

Name:

Theresa Luther

Location:

Greece

Comments:

If I close my eyes I can see you sitting in my 4th period English 10 ... 2 seats away from Keel ... the row left of her and 1 seat back. Keel did that so you wouldn't tempt her to talk too much when her mom was teaching ... lol ... Keel knew she would get yelled at after school hours. Why? Because I actually did yell at my own kids. You sat behind that lazy, noodle skinny boy - the one that I could never stay mad long enough to get him to finish something- my bad ... taught his sis a few years later and she was always on her due dates. Funny, 30 plus years and I have learned that there are NO two or three sibling alike ... EVER. So Steph ... you are missed in sweet memories that bring a chuckle forth. Yes there is sadness too but I have a feeling you would like the chuckles more. So tonight when I close my eyes I am going to concentrate on that class, all the chatter mostly from the left side of the room, all the times I scolded myself for not scolding my social butterflies more often. And I will go to sleep with a big, goofy grin of my own. You would love that I KNOW.

March 14th 201211:25:28 AM

Name:

Carlo

Location:

Spinoso (Italy)

Comments:

Stephanie, you're flying in the sky so quickly, that sad November 4th! Up there, the angels will take care of you, just as did the wonderful your parents during your earthly life!
Say hello to the stars like you!
 

Carlo

February 29th 201206:43:34 PM

Name:

barbara lanieri

Location:

FLORIDA

Comments:

SWEET STEPHANIE... SENDING LOVE... TO HEAVEN ANGEL...YOU ARE STILL HERE WITH MOM AND DAD.. NEVER FAR AWAY.. I KNOW THAT ... KEEP SMILING FOR ALL OF US BEAUTIFUL

February 28th 201211:28:54 AM

Name:

Cindy oliva

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My Dear Stephanie.
I know it is important to go on and keep on coping with this new journey I live in. I do and I will always have a fall back. Because I love and miss you so much. Everyday the missing gets stronger and feels like it has been forever,It also still feels like last night when when you were taken home.
What makes it feel real, is that I have not seen you, hold you or get a hug from you. Just not seeing you and knowing your room is still here. How can I not fall back wards or have a dream of you that puts me in a bad place. I am a mother. How can a mother not feel this or just allow her feelings not to cry still. It's because I miss you so much. If I didn't I would not be your mother. So I will cry at times. I will miss and love you. I will keep your memory alive through me. You are my only daughter. You were my dream since I was a little girl and I wanted to be the mother to you that I never had. You were such a beautiful gift but then taken away. because you were my gift then taken away. I will always cry. Loving you sweet baby girl. I will miss the beautiful future you would of brought to all of us. You were our "PRINCESS" Loving and missing you 24/7.
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER"

February 15th 201206:52:27 PM

Name:

Mooch (mom)

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

Oh, How I miss you baby girls and that silly laugh and your beautiful smile.
 

“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.”
I go on for you. You are my inspiration
to always be your "HERO"
Love and Miss you till we are joined together again
in our beautiful Heaven....

January 10th 201209:44:56 PM

Name:

Linda Martin Moomey

Location:

Newport, Michigan

Comments:

Very beautiful daughter and memorial page

January 3rd 201207:39:04 PM

Name:

Mooch, (mom)

Location:

Greece, New York

Comments:

My Sweet Daughter Stephanie,Another New Year is coming, Another year with out you.. Another birthday on New Years for daddy without you here. Our birthdays will never feel the same again with out you.
Celebrating any of our birthdays will never feel the same with out you. Your chair is always empty. It will never feel the same when we have a pieace of our life missing.
. Love and miss you more then any words can ever describe or express. Our baby girl forever......

December 29th 201111:59:46 PM

Name:

Carlo

Location:

Spinoso - Italy

Comments:

Every time I see the video on "Youtube" in memory of the beloved Stephanie (her friend Gina Biondolillo me tenderly, even if i do not know personally!) and I read the letters that you, Nick, and your loved ones to have written, I feel stronger emotion from the heart!
Love!
Carlo

December 21st 201105:37:16 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Approaching my 7th Christmas w/o my Geel. I miss you so much sweetheart.
 

Love you forever
Dad

December 18th 201110:39:41 AM

Name:

Cathy Giraud~Mom of David Giraud

Location:

Clinton Twp. Mi. USA

Comments:

Nothing can ever take away the love a heart holds dear~Fond memories linger every day~Remembrance keeps them near*(((Cindy & Family)))

November 6th 201105:47:44 PM

Name:

Lisa Woerner, Mom of angel Travis 16

Location:

Indiana

Comments:

May the Lord lift you up and give you and your family His peace.
Fly high with angels and send angel hugs and kisses down to earth to your mom and dad and friends. God bless your family.

November 4th 201103:21:00 PM

Name:

Cathy Giraud

Location:

Clinton Township, MI ...USA

Comments:

What a beautiful memorial site for a, oh so beautiful soul...You Stephanie!! You are doing such a beautiful job of keeping her wonderful memory alive. I am keeping all who love and miss Stephanie, in my thoughts and prayers, today...and every day, One day you will be united again!! 

July 29th 201110:26:00 PM

Name:

Cindy Oliva

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Missing having my girl.
So lonely without you and sharing all the girl stuff even our little fights.
My DREAM was having a little girl since I was a little girl.
I had you but only for a short time.
All I believe is that God received you but he did not take you.
Father Rob even said if God took you then he must be a cruel God and God is not cruel.
God received you in his loving arms and you had no pain.
It's free will by the people who do what they do and can cause death. "FREE WILL" So sad
 

"DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL...
LOVE LEAVES A MEMORY NO ONE CAN STEAL"
 

"ALWAYS AND FOREVER EMBEDDED IN MY HEART, SOUL AND MIND"
MUAH XX OO
Love You and missing you,
Till we are together again...
Moochie XX OO

May 29th 201103:05:01 PM

Name:

Roger

Location:

Donalsonville, Ga.

Comments:

Hi Stephanie,
 

Just poped in to say hello. I met your mom on facebook and got to know about you. I guess by now you have met my Jill. She arrived on April 2, 1994. So she has been there awhile. You was a pretty young lady and everyone misses you. Say hello to Jill. You will like her with her out going personality. Got to go now sweetie. The tears are making it hard for me to see. Bye !

May 14th 201109:15:47 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Long Island NY

Comments:

STEPHANIE..WHAT A BEAUTIFUL SITE THIS IS.. I AM SO BLESSED TO BE ABLE TO COME HERE AND VISIT YOU...SO MUCH LOVE HERE.. HUGS TO MOM AND DAD AND YOUR BROTHER.. LOVE YOU ANGEL ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS XOX

April 27th 201107:37:10 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

2000 days without my Geel! I couldn't have ever imagined my life with even one day without you in it. Now it has reached 2000. It's strange because it us seems like a huge number but in regards to the loss of my baby girl it still feels like yesterday. I miss my Geel sooooo much. I miss your sense of humor, your smile, your clothes and make-up, the way you sat so close to the steering wheel. I miss everything.
Love you forever,
Daddy

April 16th 201101:03:20 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Stephanie! Happy belated birthday! Your birthday never gets easier. I miss you so much. Love you!!!

April 10th 201104:49:40 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I just wanted to wish you a happy belated Birthday beautiful angel and I lit a candle especially for you yesterday. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you all!

April 9th 201110:43:37 PM

Name:

Tommy Patrick

Location:

California

Comments:

"On Your Daughter (((((((((Stephanie's))))))))) Birthday"
 

It's the birthday of your daughter (((((((((Stephanie)))))))))
yet you cry such bitter tears.
Your daughter ((((((((Stephanie)))))))))was taken from you;
to you it feels like years.
 

She was a loving child;
you never thought would be,
that she would die before you
and leave your heart to grieve.
 

I wish that I could take away
the sorrow and the pain,
but I can only tell you now
you will see her again.
 

She's standing right beside you
She's whispering in your ear,
close your eyes and listen,
and I know you will hear;
 

The warbling of a songbird,
the wind up in the trees,
the barking of a puppy
the singing of the bees.
 

It's heaven's way of saying
please do not despair,
your daughter (((((((((Stephanie))))))))) is waiting for you
she's holding all your tears.
 

And though it seems forever
she's just a breath away,
a heartbeat in eternity,
you'll walk with her someday.
 

C- 2005 Forrest Phelps Cook
Reflections From The Heart

April 9th 201104:19:06 PM

Name:

Karen Zieres

Location:

Greece, live next door to Meghan

Comments:

The girls used to come over and visit me and I loved hearing their stories and sharing their youthful moments. She was a very sweet girl with a beautiful smile!

April 9th 201101:26:47 PM

Name:

Lisa Vance

Location:

MS

Comments:

Wishing you a Happy 24th Birthday in Heaven beautiful Stephanie! I am lighting a candle in your memory and sending prayers up for your family!
With Love,
Lisa (Tiffany's Mom)
www.tiffanyvance.com

My Guestbook

April 9th 201112:28:37 PM

Name:

Ashley Newman

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hey Stephy,
Happy 24th birthday  I know that you are celebrating in heaven and just know that even though I am not there to celebrate with you I am always thinking of you. At every birthday I can't help but think of all the memories we could have had together.. especially now with meg getting married. I wish that you were here planning and celebrating with us but I know you are looking down on us. I hope that you know that not a day goes by where I don't think of you, I miss you so much. Like Meg said we will be eating chips and dip later and do a toast to you like we do on every birthday, we will make sure not to dip the chip in but glide it across the top!!
 

Love you always Steph and miss you tons.
Rest in Peace my beautiful angel, we will see each other again sometime <3
 

Love,
Ashley

April 9th 201109:13:17 AM

Name:

meg riley

Comments:

Hey Stephalicious,
 

I was cleaning my room out last night to move stuff to my own house. I found our notebook we kept every detail about our vacations to florida and myrtle beach in! I couldn't help but cry and laugh at the same time. Some of my tears were because I was laughing too hard! I could clearly hear your voice saying some of the quotes we wrote down. We had the most fun on those vacations together. I love seeing your writing in those books. It makes me feel like you are still here...
 

Today is your 24th birthday you old fart! I lit a candle for you, it is coconut.. I know I know.. i didn't have a 'Vanil' scented one close by so deal with it!
 

Later today Ashley is coming over to help me plan Ash Js bridal shower... we will be eating chips and dip and toasting to your birthday celebration.
 

I love you, always will. I miss you, always will.
Happy Birthday bestie<3
Love, Chap.

April 9th 201109:03:07 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Long Island NY

Comments:

Happy Glorious Birthday Sweet Angel  Your candle is lit Especially for you today and Always .. 

April 8th 201108:31:45 PM

Name:

Cindy Schoeneman

Location:

Greece

Comments:

we love you guys and wish we could take away your pain, there are no words , I know, but know all of you are always in our prayers... Happy Birthday Stephanie...God bless all of you....I don't have the plant anymore but I still have the butterfly...

April 8th 201102:14:51 PM

Name:

Tricia Speight ( Murray )

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My heart goes out to the Oliva's family through this difficult time. Stephanie was an amazing, beautiful person inside and out. She will always be one of a kind in my heart. Stephanie and I were on the same cheerleading team. I was younger but Stephanie always made me feel welcome and made me feel that I fit in. I just remember laughing at practice until we barely could breathe. And it would start out that nothing was funny we just laugh just because or because steph would challenge me to a laughing contest. Sounds weird but for those who knew Steph and those who know myself its very normal  I've never met anyone filled with as much positive energy as Steph had. Everytime I picture Steph, I picture that BIG GORGEOUS SMILE of hers as she would walk through the halls of Arcadia. Steph didn't have to say anything to get your attention. She lit up the room, and I will always, always remember that about her...I'll be lighting a candle tomorrow with my family & saying a special prayer for Stephanie and her family and friends...
 

Happy 24th Birthday Dollface!! ( as steph would say)
XoXoXo Rest.In. Peace Love You Steph!!!

April 7th 201109:44:19 PM

Name:

Rachel Harlos

Aim Screen Name

trinrae

Location:

Visalia Ca

Comments:

Im so sorry for your loss., Id admire your strength. God Bless you

April 6th 201110:35:02 PM

Name:

Bobbie Roy

Location:

Metairie, LA

Comments:

My prayers are with Stephanie and all of her family. She is such a lovely lady. I know she is truly missed. God be with Stephanie and family. Hugs to you all!

April 5th 201104:58:41 PM

Name:

Brenda Davis

Location:

Houston Texas

Comments:

With loving memory of Stephanie and wishing her a very happy birthday. She and cousin Eddie will be celebrating together. Love you!

April 4th 201110:19:23 PM

Name:

MOOCH (MOM)

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

YES, STEPHANIE IS MY FAVORITE SUBJECT TO TALK ABOUT.
WHEN I LOST MY DAUGHTER STEPHANIE, SHE IS ALL I LOVE TO
TALK ABOUT. THAT IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE LOSE A CHILD.
I WILL ALWAYS WANT TO KEEP HER ALIVE IN MY HEART, SOUL AND MIND.
SO TALKING ABOUT HER DOES THAT FOR ME.
SHE WILL LIVE THROUGH ME, SHINE THROUGH ME AND I WILL KEEP HER
ALIVE THROUGH ME.
I JUST HOPE EVERY ONE UNDERSTANDS IN SOME WAY. I KNOW FOR
SOME, IT'S HARD TO UNDERSTAND.
THIS IS HOW A GRIEVING MOTHER CAN COPE AND GO ON WHEN HER CHILD
WAS TAKEN HOME TO HEAVEN BEFORE THEIR TIME.
I WOULD NEVER WANT MY ENEMY TO WALK THIS JOURNEY.
A CHILD IS A GIFT, YOUR FUTURE, YOUR JOY, YOUR LIFE AND A
PIEACE OF YOU.
WHEN YOU LOSE YOUR CHILD. PART OF YOU IS LOST ALSO.
SO MY DAUGHTER WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVORITE SUBJECT SO
I CAN KEEP HER WITH ME TILL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN.

March 30th 201106:20:00 AM

Name:

Debi and Angel Cassandra Baker

Location:

Honeoye, NY

Comments:

I wanted to stop and say hello. You are in heaven with my daughter and the two of you have a birthday that is just a day apart. I hope that the two of you will get together and send me and your mom lots of angel signs that day. You are missed so very much. I will forever hold you in my heart.

February 22nd 201111:45:20 AM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I always lose my words when I come to your page...I get caught up in memories and tears I get so overwhelmed... My heart still hurts.

February 14th 201110:29:00 AM

Name:

cindy,Mom

Location:

Rochester Greece, NY

Comments:

YOU ALWAYS SIGNED YOUR NAME WITH A HEART THIS IS VERY SPECIAL DAY. HAPPY VALENTINES TO MY SWEET STEPHANIE. DADDY, REALLY MISSES THIS DAY FOR YOU. I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU ENJOYED TO SEE WHAT HE WAS GOING TO SURPRISE YOU WITH. YOU WERE HIS LITTLE GIRL. I LOVED SHARING THIS SPECIAL DAY WITH YOU. WE WERE REALLY SPECIAL ON THIS DAY. ♥ ♥MISS YOU ALWAYS AND FOR EVER
WITH SO MUCH LOVE AND SO MUCH MISSING,
MOM

February 14th 201109:23:38 AM

Name:

elida lopez sister

Location:

beasley texas

Comments:

This is so beautiful she is a beautiful angel just like my courtney love you

January 14th 201112:02:41 PM

Name:

Robert Walters Sr.

Location:

Brooksville,Fl.

Comments:

To Honor Stephanie and her memory is Beautiful, she will live on forever in your hearts.Unfortunately I never had the pleasure of meeting her.Readin through the web site she accomplished more in her life as short as it was then some people do in a lifetime.Now she is around you everywhere.God Bless.

January 11th 201104:40:08 AM

Name:

Melanie Bourgoin

Location:

UT

Comments:

thinking of you Stephanie, and your parents. Know you are loved here on earth!

January 9th 201110:43:43 AM

Name:

kristina nolan

Location:

bessemer, Al

Comments:

Stephanie, you are the most beautiful girl...I know your mommy misses you so very much and I know you are so proud of her also. She has a heart of gold!!! I know you and Sara are throwing all night partys and dancing away....keeping all the angels awake!!!

January 6th 201110:18:46 PM

Name:

Sara

Location:

Canoga Park, CA

Comments:

Such a beautiful girl, such a beautiful angel 

January 6th 201105:02:57 PM

Name:

Claudia Ewers

Location:

King City, Oregon

Comments:

In loving memory of a beautiful young woman and eternal angel......Sending
loving thoughts to her family her, knowing they love Stephanie
forever and she's always with them in their heart.
Claudia Ewers (Mike Ewers' mom)

January 4th 201108:29:14 PM

Name:

MOM

Aim Screen Name

CindyO55

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

Hello my sweet baby girl, I just want to tell you how much I miss you and another New Year with out you, 2011, I just can't believe it's been five years. Still feels like you left me last night. I still wonder what you were thinking or feeling when you left, I was not with you. You were alone, I am your mom and I was not with you.  I can not look upon your face. But in my heart you will always have a place. But deep with in me, your seed still grows. It left my body but not my soul.Though I know you are in a better place. It's still day to day for me with Gods grace. But life has a way of catching up with time. I will be with you again, my sweet baby of mine. always and forever.
Moochie, xxoo

December 20th 201009:05:47 AM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I Miss You.

December 17th 201010:15:54 PM

Name:

CINDY,(MOOCHIE

Location:

GREECE

Comments:

MISSING YOU ON THIS COMING HOLIDAY. IT WILL NEVER FEEL THE SAME WITH OUT YOU HERE. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. MY HEART IS STILL SO BROKEN WITH OUT MY BABY, MY DAUGHTER AND BEST FRIEND. I PICK MY SELF UP EACH DAY TO GO ON AND BE STRONG FOR YOU AND YOUR DAD AND BROTHERS AND ESPECIALLY FOR ME. DAY TO DAY FOR 5 YRS. BUT I MUST HAVE THE STRENGTH. I AM STILL GOING AND I LOOK DEEP DOWN IN SIDE MY SELF TO KEEP MY STRENGTH. I KNOW IT WOULD BE IMPORTANT TO YOU. THAT IS WHY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND YOU ARE MY ANGEL. MUCH LOVE AND MISSING YOU TILL WE MEET AGAIN. BE THERE!!!!. XXOO LOVE ALWAYS MOM

November 20th 201003:26:16 PM

Name:

lorraine

Location:

greece ny

Comments:

rip stephanie

November 17th 201007:14:15 PM

Name:

barbara

Location:

Long Island New York

Comments:

Beautiful Stephanie., my candle is lit for you .. right next to my computer. i pray for your mom and family all the time. I know you are in Gods arms.. This is a difficult time for mom. stay close Angelxox

November 17th 201004:39:58 PM

Name:

Sam Augello

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

I can't believe it has been 5 years already. I think about you every day, Stephanie, and know that you watch over your loved ones. They need you most this time of year. Thank you for always being a sweetheart to me.

November 17th 201003:52:46 PM

Name:

Renee Beisswanger

Location:

Sunbury, Pa

Comments:

Such a beautiful angel you are Stephanie- sending hugs and strength to your mom and all your family and friends as they make it through each day without you- give them your strength to make it one day at a time

November 17th 201003:25:23 PM

Name:

Irene Garman.. mom to Rick White

Location:

Pennsylvania

Comments:

Thinking of you and of those who love and miss you.. stay close to them.. hugs

November 17th 201002:49:18 PM

Name:

Joanne Bailey Tinkham

Location:

Wareham (Cape Cod) Massachusetts

Comments:

What a beautiful sweet angel you are Stephanie. I know you were so loved by so many people. All anyone has to do is look at your beautiful smile to know that. I hope that you and all our other sweet angels are all friends and looking down on us watching over us. Love and prayers to you and your family. Joanne Tinkham

November 17th 201002:42:55 PM

Name:

Maz Fraser

Aim Screen Name

Maz

Location:

Queensland Australia

Comments:

Remembering this beautiful young lady, looking after our Baby Angels up there in the clouds.xoxoxo

November 17th 201012:19:52 PM

Name:

JUNE

Location:

LONDON

Comments:

SENDING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS XXX

November 17th 201011:13:39 AM

Name:

dd flynn

Location:

Woodstock, GA

Comments:

Stephanie....I don't know you personally, but I know your love through Cindy. You have touched many, including my heart. I too have an angel in heaven. She was 20. I lost her in 2005. I know that you are in heaven enjoying all of our Lord's promises. God Bless you and your family. PS: Send your family a hug from heaven! With love, dd

November 17th 201010:17:50 AM

Name:

Betty Childress"Tommy's Mom"

Location:

Eldorado,IL

Comments:

*Always Loved~Never Forgotten*

November 17th 201008:59:57 AM

Name:

Phillip Rouse

Location:

Sunbury, PA

Comments:

So sad. My son David died in a car accident also ... life will never be the same...life is just turned up side down...I am so sorry for your loss.. the heart is broken forever...

November 17th 201008:48:53 AM

Name:

Wanda Jacobs Rogers

Location:

Georgia

Comments:

Candle is lit in my home for Stephanie in Heaven:)

November 17th 201008:43:59 AM

Name:

Sheils Rodriquez Edwards

Location:

Hyannis,Ma.

Comments:

xoxoxo to heaven sweet angel Stephanie much love to your family and a candle is burning bright for you sweet angel. Bless your familys broken hearts 

November 17th 201008:37:59 AM

Name:

Deanna fernandez

Location:

phx az

Comments:

IM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER ,I PRAY GOD HOLDS EVER SO CLOSE EACH DAY AND JUST KNOW STEPHANIE SPIRIT IS WITH YOU ALWAYS .I LOSS BOTH MY SONS MY ONLY CHILDREN,MY JASON BDAY IS NOV 3 AND HIS ANGEL DATE NOV 28 ,2002 ON THANKSGIVING 18 YEARS OLD CAR ACCIDENT.DANIEL WAS MURDERED AT 17 YEARS OLD ON 4TH JULY 2007 . I PRAY GOD WILL HOLD YOUR HAND ON THIS ROAD WE HAVE WITH THE LOSS OF OUR CHILDREN . GOD BLESS ,HUGS AND PRAYERS

November 17th 201008:37:02 AM

Name:

Aldea

Location:

New York

Comments:

Praying for you and my son Dana Stephanie, May you rest in the hands of our Lord.

November 16th 201009:15:23 AM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

I GET SO SAD AT THIS TIME OF THE YEAR. I AM SAD ALL YEAR. BUT THIS PART OF THE YEAR IS AS HARD AS YOU NOT BEING HERE ON YOUR BIRTHDAY. STARTING END OF OCT. TILL THE END OF THIS YEAR INCLUDING THE FIRST DAY OF THE NEW YEAR IS SO DIFFICULT. YOU ARE SO MISSED AND THE EMPTINESS IS SO STRONG WITH OUT YOU. STILL SO HARD TO BELIEVE YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US. I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND JUST KNOWING WHAT I HAVE TO FACE AGAIN THIS HOLIDAY (HELLADAY) SEASON WITH OUT YOU. I MISS YOU SO MUCH MY SWEET STEPHANIE. MY HEART WILL NEVER HEAL AGAIN. HEARTS CAN BE BROKEN AND HEALED. BUT NOT WHEN YOU LOSE SOMETHING AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU. MY HEART WILL NEVER HEAL. I AM A MOM WITHOUT HER SPECIAL GIFT THAT WAS GIVEN TO HER AND THEN SOME ONE HAD TO TAKE YOU AWAY. MY HEART CRIES AS MY TEARS FILL UP IN MY EYES.I LOVE AND WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH "AGAIN" DURING THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.
 

YOUR ARE STILL SO PRECIOUS TO ME. LOVE YOU MORE THEN WORDS CAN EVER SAY. "YOUR MOOCHIE" ~ FOREVER~ YOU WILL LIVE IN MY HEART AND SOUL TILL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN. MY BEAUTIFUL STEPHANIE. . HOW I MISS YOUR LAUGH AND BEAUTIFUL SMILE. ~FOREVER~

November 9th 201007:32:36 AM

Name:

CINDY- MOM

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

FOR STEPHANIE'S, DADDY.
HOW HER DADDY HAS TO STAY STRONG
FOR HIS FAMILY AND KEEP US TOGETHER.
 

SHE KNOWS HOW SPECIAL SHE WAS TO HER DADDY.
SHE WAS HIS "PRINCES". SHE KNEW IT WELL!! :)
 

A Father's Grief
 

It must be very difficult
To be a man in grief,
Since "men don't cry"
and "men are strong"
No tears can bring relief.
It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test,
And field the calls and visitors
So she can get some rest.
They always ask if she's all right
And what she's going through.
But seldom take his hand and ask,
"My friend, but how are you?"
He hears her crying in the night
And thinks his heart will break.
He dries her tears and comforts her,
But "stays strong" for her sake.
It must be very difficult
To start each day anew.
And try to be so very brave-
He lost his child too.
~HIS PRINCESS~
~FOREVER~

November 5th 201002:14:36 PM

Name:

Melanie

Location:

Utah

Comments:

I am sorry that your beautiful girl was taken way to soon. What a beautiful Angel. 

November 4th 201010:02:09 PM

Name:

MOM

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

JUST COPY THE LINK WITH YOUR MOUSE JUST HOLD THE LEFT SIDE OF YOUR MOUSE DOWN OVER THE LINK TO COPY THE LINK. THEN CLICK ON YOU TUBE., BEAUTIFUL SONG.

November 4th 201009:54:03 PM

Name:

Mom

Location:

Greece. NY

Comments:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P7IbQyG9PL4&feature=player_embedded
BEAUTIFUL SONG..." I'll SEE YOU AGAIN"

November 4th 201008:06:09 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph, I can't believe that it has been five years. I wish that you were here I still miss you so much, all the things that you would have been doing and how many more memories we could have had together. I will always treasure the ones that we made and know that you are always in my thoughts & prayers  Awaiting the day that I can see your beautiful face again love you, RIP

November 4th 201006:26:25 PM

Name:

Mackie

Comments:

Steph, i cant believe its been 5 years already. We all miss you so very much. You made a impact on my life in many ways. even tho u girls picked on me all the time.I wish u were here with us, to share more memorys with but u have moved on to a better place and i hope its treating you good. I love you very much sweetie. R.I.P stephy

November 4th 201004:21:53 PM

Name:

Karen Jenkins

Location:

Navesink, NJ

Comments:

May God bless and comfort you on this Angelversary of Angel Stephanie. My prayers and blessings to you and your family.

 

November 4th 201003:28:26 PM

Name:

Lisa WOERNER

Location:

westfield indiana

Comments:

May God Bless you today of all the wonderful memories that Stephanie left behind on this earth. She is blessing thousands of people from heaven.
Hugs and prayers. Stephanie send angel kisses from heaven.
Love, Lisa

November 4th 201003:19:43 PM

Name:

Dyan Bertolone (Menges)

Location:

Greece

Comments:

There is not a single day I do not think about Stephanie!! We were in each other's chorus class and John was in the same grade as me. I will never forget how no matter what, Stephanie would always have a smile on her face as she said "Hi" to me and my sisters either in chorus, the hall, or at Keely's house. She was one of the nicest girl's I ever met and when I found out the tragic news, I was completely devastated!!! I am still to this day so incredibly SADDENED for Stephanie, for her family, and for her friends. It is SOO unfair and I am so sorry!! **Oliva's, please know we are all thinking and praying for you not only on this tragic day, but EVERYDAY!! There will never be a day that passes that I do not think of all of you!! Great job with this webpage...you all did/do such an amazing job and I know Stephanie is smiling down from heaven!!

November 4th 201012:55:10 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

Stephanie - today is a sad day but there are a lot of happy memories of you in my heart. i heard that song, i can only imagine, driving today and it made me think of you in heaven, happy and young and beautiful as you always were. Cindy, Nick, John and Nicholas - may you find peace in all your wonderful memories of your angel Stephanie. all our love to you, Mal, Kelly and Mother J.

November 4th 201007:54:48 AM

Name:

Tricia (Murray) Speight

Location:

rochester

Comments:

Five Years today... the world lost a BEAUTIFUL,LOVING,GORGEOUS,FUNNY young lady!!! Not a day goes by....Miss You*Love you Stephhhyy, the world could sure use more people like you in it!!! Rest In Peace Doll ♥

November 4th 201006:17:08 AM

Name:

Caitlin Weston

Location:

Rochester, NY / Washington, DC

Comments:

Nick, John...I love you guys! I never got to know your sister that well but what happened was and still is a tragedy. Bad things shouldn't happen to such good people. But your strength through all of this has been impressive. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

November 4th 201005:17:13 AM

Name:

Carol Betz

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Stephanie, I cannot believe that it has been 5 years since God took you from your family. I always see flowers in remembrance of you when I drive down Ridge Road. You will always be missed, but will never be forgotten. Watch over your family always... Carol Betz

November 4th 201004:57:09 AM

Name:

Jill Schlageter

Location:

greece

Comments:

I really cant believe it has been 5 years... a day none of us will ever forget. It is so sad for me to think what you would be doing now. I miss you dearly, and still think of you all the time!! You have a great family who love and miss you so much. And your brothers are the best and I am thankful I am able to still spend time with them even though you are gone. Nick makes me laugh several times a day just like you used to. You will never ever be forgotten and will always remain in my heart. Love you presh 

November 4th 201012:26:19 AM

Name:

Londa

Location:

California

Comments:

May God wrap his arms around each one of you with comfort on this day of Nov. 4, 2010. I know the pain does not and will not ever be easy for any of you, but I know God will keep his Angel right by your sides. Stephanie you will never be forgotten, may you RIP, We all love and miss you.

November 3rd 201010:48:22 PM

Name:

James M Viele

Location:

Rochester Ny

Comments:

I love yall and hope you find comfort in the days to come. God Bless Yall!

November 3rd 201007:35:28 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie no matter how much time goes by the loving and missing you never ends. Please stay close to your family as they need to feel you near. Sending gentle hugs to all of them and lifting them in prayer.
Love and hugs, Cindy~B.J., Wayne & Buck's Mama

November 3rd 201005:30:45 PM

Name:

Shannon Burke

Comments:

Every year around this time we are reminded that in one second all of our lives can change. I will never forget the beautiful little girl who I grew up next-door to. Stephanie was a breath of fresh air. Always smiling, laughing, and adding some spice to all of our lives. It is hard to drive down Ridge Road whenever I am in town and think of her every time. I think of Stephanie when I see a white Cobalt, when a pretty, petite blonde passes me on the street, and especially every time I miss my father because I know how much the entire Oliva family misses their loved one. Stephanie will never be forgotten and although she will have been gone from our sides for five years now, she will never be truly gone because she will live inside each and every one of us.

November 3rd 201005:08:19 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Stephanie! I miss you so much! I love you and am always thinking of you!

November 3rd 201010:00:44 AM

Name:

Paula

Location:

Hertfordshire

Comments:

Thinking of you all, I'm sure Sam is looking after you stephanie
. lots of love
Paula x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

November 2nd 201008:41:56 AM

Name:

CINDY-MOM

Location:

GREECE

Comments:

The years we've shared have been full of joy.The memories we've made will go on and on.
I haven't stopped crying since you went away,and I've asked God time and time why couldn't you stay?
You lit up my life, my hopes, and my dreams. You've opened my eyes to see what it all means of what I lost. So now that you're gone how can I forget?
You were the greatest daughter that any mother could ever ask for. You will never be forgotten. You were my BEST FRIEND and the SPECIAL BOND we had will for ever live in my HEART and MEMORIES
Looking at you and knowing you as my DAUGHTER was such a beautiful GIFT.
Never to be for gotten my special gift and how RICH I was.
 

ALWAYS REMEMBERED AND EMBEDDED I MY HEART AN SOUL,
LOVE AND MISS YOU 24/7

October 29th 201005:33:25 AM

Name:

Anneli

Location:

Southampton, England

Comments:

Dearest Stephanie, you are so very loved and missed. Your always in my thoughts and prayers. Love always to you and your family. xx♥xx

October 23rd 201008:47:38 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

long Island NY

Comments:

Angel Stephanie.. you are so pretty. God must have had different plans for you because the world is not a better place without you here. I love your mom.. i didnt get to meet you here. but i will surely hug you and know you when i meet you in Heaven xox

October 22nd 201006:50:54 PM

Name:

Ashley

Comments:

Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you today!!! Miss you always love*

October 20th 201009:35:32 PM

Name:

Julie Giarratano

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Just wanted to let you know that baby Julie will be lighting a candle for you on November 4th and that you are always in my heart as is your mom , dad and brothers ... I know you are watching out for all your family and friends and I will do the same for you... As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us. As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us. ~Sascha

October 20th 201008:56:03 PM

Name:

Joyce Barger

Location:

Thomasville, NC

Comments:

Stephanie,
I ran across your candle lighting on Facebook. I will be lighting my candle for your anniversery date of November 4. I am sure you are greatly missed by your family. You were a beautiful girl that was taken way too soon. May god be with your family. I know you are a special angel in heaven now. I have a son who is an angel also so I can relate to the pain your parents went through when they lost you. But to your family I hope they understand you will always be in their hearts. You are gone but never forgotten. Much love to your family. xxx

October 18th 201009:08:38 PM

Name:

MELISSA N JAY NEAL

Location:

POTTS CAMP MS

Comments:

HEAVEN IS REALLY REJOICING AND HAS BEEN FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS NOW.....ON NOV.4,2005 STEPHANIES FAMILY N FRIENDS LOST PART OF THEIR WORLD AND HEAVEN GAINED ANOTHER ANGEL....MY HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO THEM IN THEIR TIME OF NEED.....MAY GOD WRAP HIS ARMS AROUND SHELTER AND WATCH OVER THEM N KEEP THEM SAFE....

October 15th 201008:39:26 PM

Name:

Lisa Woerner

Location:

Westfield, Indiana

Comments:

I am sorry for your the loss of your beautiful daughter.
Heaven is lucky to have her.
May the Lord of the earth comfort you today and always.

October 11th 201009:41:59 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Stephanie is such a beautiful young lady. My heart goes out to her family and friends as I know you're suffering such a great loss. May the Lord comfort your hearts as only He can and may precious memories of Stephanie rest gentle in your hearts and bring their own measure of comfort. Sending gentle hugs to all who love and miss her.

October 9th 201006:56:31 AM

Name:

Mike Walker

Location:

Florida

Comments:

What a lovely young lady. What an impact.

October 6th 201008:52:48 PM

Name:

CHERYL ROY

Location:

MASS.

Comments:

STEPHANIE'S MEMORY PAGE IS REALLY BEAUTIFUL, AND ALL THE PAGES ARE VERY SPECIAL. LOVE TO THE FAMILY AND ALL THAT LOVED HER.

September 24th 201001:40:13 PM

Name:

CHERI BROOKS

Location:

FINDLAY OHIO

Comments:

JUST WANTED U TO KNOW I STOPPED BY AND IM SO SORRY I JUST LOST MY SON AUG.5TH 2010 TO MANSLAUGHTER ALL I CAN DO IS CRY WANTING MY SON PUNKY BACK ..HUGS FROM OHIO XXOO

September 17th 201010:50:31 AM

Name:

Debbie-Sarah Kasch

Aim Screen Name

Debbie- Sarah Kasch

Location:

Lake Wales, Florida

Comments:

Stephanie, Thinking of you today. Hugs, love and support being sent to your family. Love from Bobby's Mom, Debbie

September 10th 201012:56:04 PM

Name:

Mom (Cindy)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

MY SWEET ANGEL REST YOUR WINGS, SIT WITH ME A WHILE..HOW I LONG TO HOLD YOUR HAND AND SEE YOUR TENDER SMILE. MY SWEET ANGEL LOOK AT ME. I WANT THIS IMAGE SO CLEAR. I WORRY I WILL FORGET YOUR PRECIOUS FACE, THAT IS MY BIGGEST FEAR. MY SWEET ANGLE CAN YOU TELL ME WHY YOU HAVE GONE AWAY? YOU WEREN'T HERE VERY LONG, WHY IS IT, YOU COULDN'T STAY? MY SWEET ANGEL SHOOK HER HEAD,"THESE THINGS I DO NOT KNOW." BUT I DO KNOW THAT YOU LOVE ME, AND I LOVE YOU" I ALSO KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MISS ME. I MISS YOU 24/7 "ALWAYS" ON MY MIND AND LIVING IN MY HEART AND SOUL" FOREVER"
MOOCHIE (MOM)

September 7th 201002:53:10 PM

Name:

lisa rankin

Location:

reno nevada

Comments:

stopping by to send much love and respect for you stephanie RIP beautiful girl...

August 25th 201012:41:48 PM

Name:

Rhonda Bachner

Location:

Plainsboro, NJ

Comments:

Stephanie ... You don't know me, but I met your mom on Facebook. I lost my son David on 8/11/09 ... he was 18 ... Your mom was kind enough to reach out to me ... I was taken by your beauty. You have such a beautiful smile, and I can tell how much you loved life ... just as my David did ... I know that heaven is a beautiful place with all of our beautiful angels. I know that you are all together looking down on us ... You are so missed by all Stephanie. RIP

August 17th 201011:12:55 AM

Name:

lindascarpa

Location:

staten island ny

Comments:

Stephanie you are so beautiful i pray for you and your mom. my broken heart is full of pain without our child. so young so much life ahead. Just know angel i will always love you and mom. you live in my heart and mind. Bless you angel and mom. who i love so much

August 17th 201006:57:39 AM

Name:

Paula

Location:

Hertfordshire

Comments:

I never knew stephanie but by talking to her mum on GTS website, i knew she was a warm,caring & loving young lady.Gone too soon god bless you & your family.
Lot's of love
Paula x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

August 11th 201011:09:11 PM

Name:

Daniel Murray

Location:

Lancaster, California

Comments:

I didn't know until today that I had more family than I thought, and at the same time less. I was told a story today about a little girl and her two brothers who wanted to make sure their cousin had Oreo cookies and M&M's even though it was the last of their money. My memory isn't that great, and I hate that... so much. I wish I could remember her and everyone else, I'm so sorry. Stephanie, thank you and your family so much for everything you've done for me. You didn't have to but you went out of your way to make someone else happy. It's saddening to know I can't remember and because of that I can't meet her now. I love you so much.

August 6th 201008:06:32 AM

Name:

Mom

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

‎"My sweet daughter was a visitor to life that changed my path. Let her presence be fresh in my personality let the image of her smile warm my heart and yours, let the light of her soul make my soul shine and your soul shine. Let her be an imprint on my life and your life not just a picture on the wall."This I do for you Stephanie and I will continue to. ~until~... ~STEPHANIE FOR EVER IN OUR HEARTS~~
MOM

August 3rd 201011:16:54 AM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

☆.•*`★In the Morning When I Wake ☆.•*`★Dreams of You Begin To Escape ☆.•*`★I Sit on the Bed and Think of You and Continue To ☆.•*`★ The Whole Day Through. ☆.•*`★
 

•*''❀ Of All the Things •*''❀I Forget To Do .•*''❀ I Never Forget .•*''❀ To Think of You.•*''❀
 

★.•*`☀`*•.☆ A Beautiful Light ★.•*`☀`*•.☆To Shine the Night Through ★.•*`☀`*•.☆ Is What This Candle ★.•*`☀`*•.☆Is Meant To Do.
 

◡◠❤◠◡ With All My Pain ◡◠❤◠◡And All My Wear ◡◠❤◠◡ It’s Life Without You ◡◠❤◠◡ That I Cannot Bare ◡◠❤◠◡
 

☆♪♫ Please Don’t Cry ☆♪♫ Because I’m Gone ☆♪♫Just Think of Me ☆♪♫ When You Hear My Song. ☆♪♫
 

◡◠ჱ❤ჱ◠◡ Sending You All My Love ◡◠ჱ❤ჱ◠◡ Wrapped in Kisses and Sealed With Love ◡◠ჱ❤ჱ◠◡
 

☆�.•*☪In the Morning When I Rise ☆�.•*☪I Wipe the Teardrops From My Eyes ☆�.•*☪Cause I Was With You, So It Seems ☆�.•*☪But It Was Only In My Dreams.

July 26th 201001:37:24 PM

Name:

Claire Burfield

Location:

Kent, England

Comments:

I didn't have the honour of knowing Stephanie but after reading this website I just had to leave a comment to say how much her story has touched me. She was a beautiful girl with an obviously beautiful soul and was taken from you far too soon. I have two older brothers myself and am very close to them, I can only imagine the pain that you are all going through. Please know that your family are in my thoughts tonight, rest in peace Stephanie xx

July 23rd 201005:39:59 PM

Name:

Michele (Annie's Mom)

Location:

Alden, NY

Comments:

Stephanie,
There is no more fitting tribute of love than when a family comes together and creates a thing of beauty, such as this page. It is telling in the letters and poems (brought me to tears) of the love they have for you. Sweet Angel I know you know this, but It makes us (the ones who had to stay) feel better if we can say it. Kiss my Annie for me and tell her I love her and miss her so. Peace to you all Oliva family.
 

Michele (Annie's Mom)

July 15th 201009:00:46 AM

Name:

lindascarpa

Location:

staten island ny

Comments:

Stephanie you are so beautiful. gone too soon like my son . 23 forever. murdered. bet you know Joey. Love your memorial and love you angel . Your mom is an angel mom friend. i love her . I pray for all of us .lindajoeysmom

June 17th 201003:23:00 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Beautiful girl!!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!! Hugs!! 

June 16th 201010:09:51 PM

Name:

Paul Smith

Location:

Austin

Comments:

Cindy,
We hardly know one another, except for a few messages that were initiated by the circumstance we share, but everything that I have read from you about and to your daughter really touches my heart in a way that most other people will never understand.
 

As you know from our correspondence on facebook, I lost my son who was my best friend in the world two years ago next month and I know precisely what you are going through. The best way I can describe this loss is that it takes your breath away and you never get it back. The one thing that keeps me going is believing with all my heart that when my life is over my son Brad will be there to greet me, just as I'm sure Stephanie will be there for you. I also believe that as hard as it may be to understand, these things happen to us for a reason. I believe part of that is to teach us to be better people and to help us understand that there is something magnificent and so much more significant beyond this life. For me, one of those lessons is learning to be patient. I try to imagine this as being away for an extended time and that one day I will return home and my son will be there waiting for me. In the interim, I have to remain patient and go on living and doing the best I can to help others, because that is the right thing to do and what my son would expect of me.
 

I'm so sorry for what you have had to endure Cindy. I know you have some good friends like Laura to give you comfort and support, but please know that you have a friend here as well if there is ever anything that I can do.
 

Your daughter really is an angel.
 

Your friend,
Paul

June 13th 201011:50:18 PM

Name:

cindy

Location:

Greece NY

Comments:

~Stephanie~
I miss you so much. I do any thing to get you back her. The piece of me will always be with you in Heaven. I have a long road to go and I have know map to get me there? I don't know how long it will take  "hugs and squeezes" to you my sweet daughter. [So sad] Feeling very lonely tonight on our anniversary with out you. You helped make our anniversary happy and so worth while to celebrate. Now the celebrate part is a bit of a sad part now with you gone.
Much hugs and squeezes with millions of kisses. xxxooo
Moochie,

June 13th 201010:55:24 PM

Name:

cindyo1955

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My Sweet Daughter Stephanie,
Sunday night actually Monday morning at 1:40 am. Our wedding anniversary feeling sad still because of the emptiness with out you and not sharing this moment. Daddy and I got married to have a family and we did. But lost a piece of it and it hurts so much . I sit here alone and still say to my self, How can this be? It's still so hard to comprehend that you will never be back with us. It hurts so much knowing (you) my daughter will never be with me again on this earth and sharing your future with us. The tears still flow down my cheek.
Love you so my sweet Angel. ]

June 1st 201005:39:07 PM

Name:

Laura Harris

Location:

Bethany Beach, DE

Comments:

Stephanie you have become a part of my heart through your Mom... Oh how she loves you and misses you with her whole being...
I started an Angel garden and have you as a part of if. I love to imagine you, Katie and all the angels I have come to known together having the time of your lives... Send us angels kisses in the wind and we will feel the warmth of your love in the sunshine, the beauty you are in nature...
 

http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i109/lharris1026/InMemoryofStephanie.jpg

May 25th 201011:16:43 AM

Name:

Laura Harris ~Katie's~ Mom

Location:

Bethany Beach, DE

Comments:

A Hole in Our Hearts
 

There is a hole in our hearts
There is a hole in our lives.
A hole that opened when you were taken,
We go on with our lives.
But always with an emptiness, a feeling
that something is wrong and we feel scared
and something is really missing.
Something is wrong.
Others don't understand.
 

Have they lost a child?
They give advise, we don't want to hear.
It doesn't help us.
You see the hole will always be here.
 

You made us whole, Your life and ours entwined,
All our parts were whole.
We talk to you, we talk about you.
But it's not the same, it"s not what we wanted.
There is a hole in our hearts.
There is a hole in our lives.
We have memories, picture albums, and mementos.
All of these will never heal our hearts.
Our hearts skips a beat, the beat that we had,
when you were here.
That beat is now gone, gone with you,
gone to heaven.
Leaving us with this hole and empty feeling.
 

A cloud that lies over us and darkens
even the sunniest days.
The hole is the love we lost, the love we can't replace.
The hole in our hearts you had filled.
There is a hole in our hearts a hole in our lives.
 

Missing and remembering ~Stephanie~ & ~Katie~ always...

May 3rd 201002:21:36 PM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, Ny

Comments:

Today we were talking about Disney World. Your favorite place.A lady at my rehab that I go to for my shoulder brought up the Carousel Of Progress. How it's not open all the time. I had to tell her it was your favorite ride at Disney. "The Carousel Of Progress" I love that you chose that ride as your favorite. Miss you my sweet baby girl.
Hugs and love sent to you every day 24/7.
 

Your Moochie, Love you!!!! xxxoo

April 22nd 201006:31:08 PM

Name:

John- The Guy on the Bike

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

For Stephanie's mom -I'm the guy on the bike you talked to this week. I just wanted you to know I came here to see Stephanie's page after I talked to you. She is such a lovely girl - I wish I had known her. Her memorial page is so nice .I liked seeing all of her pictures....Maybe I'll run into you there again some time ....From the Guy on the Bike

April 12th 201005:13:02 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - i am late in saying happy birthday but you know you were on my mind and in my heart all day. i wish we could have celebrated it with you with a cake or whatever you would want. maybe chips and dip??? 23 - gosh, i can just imagine what a young lady you would be. kelly and mallory and cynthia were talking about u the other nite - laughing about all the fun things you guys used to do. Kelly has that little bear that Mile's mother made dressed in your shirt, and lately the shoulder of the shirt has come down off the shoulder - kelly thought that was you being stylish!!! so she left it down :)
 

we all miss you cutie and will always keep you in our hearts
 

all our love to you

April 8th 201006:07:37 PM

Name:

Location:

Greece, NyY

Comments:

Hey Girl, Who is my birthday girl today, April 9th. How I miss you for this special occasion and watching your eyes twinkle and get so big with excitement. Watching you open all your presents. Clothes and Jewelry and all that girl stuff. Boy, Do I miss buying you these things even the little surprises I would leave on your bed weekly. You are the sunshine of my life. Now I don't have that sunshine any more. Just gloomy days. but still I need to send you a Happy Birthday and to let you know to watch your burning candle that will glow sending you all our love and kisses. You are so ever missed and sadly missing this 23rd birthday with you. You live in my heart and you live in my soul. You never leave my mind and I will always love you with my whole heart and soul. For ever my special GIRL!
Love moochie xxoo

March 29th 201007:24:28 PM

Name:

Mooch (Mom)

Location:

Greece

Comments:

My Sweet Baby Girl, Another Easter going right by us again with out you. How hard it is for us not to have you for these special days and everyday. We miss that big smile and your love. I miss buying you your Easter surprises for your basket. You were always so easy to buy for. My love and missing you each and every single minute will never stop till we are together again. It seems like it will be for ever but I know for you it isn't. But for me it is. Please always be by my side and let me feel you near me. Love and miss you more then words can ever say.You are my hero! Love you for ever.
Moochie (Mom) [So sad]

March 16th 201011:36:04 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - i'm at work listening to pandora and they just played celine dion - the power of love - and it makes me think and laugh remembering how you would sing that to your chi. you were such a good friend to her - she really hasn't met a friend like you since. we were talking abt you the other nite - how you used to like to smooch with your girlfriends cause you loved them so much! what a silly girl you were, but totally cute!!!!
 

we still miss you every day, honey, and think of you all the time. love you little one!!
 

February 12th 201009:53:42 PM

Name:

Mom

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I miss you baby girl. I miss having Valentines Day, We just don't celebrate it any more since you been gone. I did leave you a few little gifts. Though it's not the same, Just sad.I miss watching you wait to see what Daddy was going to give you. I know he is missing giving you a special bouquet of flowers and jelly bellies. I still look at my Queen bear and I know You have your princess bear with you. It will always remind me of our last Valentines day. I miss you and my heart still breaks and cries each and every day for you. But I still want to say Happy Valentines Day to my special girl. You are so for ever missed more then any thing in this world. Life will never be the same with out you. It's changed for ever.I love and miss you my sweet girl.( My girl at Valentines day with you)
Love,
Mom (Moochie)xxxooo [So sad]

February 9th 201008:53:50 PM

Name:

Thom sherwood

Location:

Ga-tes

Comments:

I knew you and I am friends with your family , and wanted to share some thoughts that helped me get through the loss of a loved one years ago . We cannot see you , we cannot hear you , we cannot feel you but you are always there in our fears , our pain and in our prayers . ...always

February 6th 201009:20:02 AM

Name:

Dave

Location:

Gates-Chili class of 1973

Comments:

I'm sorry to hear about Stephanie. I found Cindy Oliva on Facebook as a class member from Gates-Chili class of 1973. I'm trying to recall, but I don't remember anyone with a last name of Oliva.
 

God bless Stephanie.
Dave Ennocenti

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January 28th 201003:04:05 PM

Name:

Jill

Comments:

Hello Hunnie, i love and miss you.  Jilly

December 25th 200901:16:28 PM

Name:

Samantha Sheridan

Comments:

Miss you Cabbage breath! merry X-mas

December 12th 200906:49:03 PM

Name:

bran pogorzelski

Location:

rochester ny

Comments:

I remember her from highschool she was a good friend

December 7th 200909:32:33 PM

Name:

Londa

Location:

California

Comments:

Hi Sweetheart, I am so sorry for not being a part of your life, life can be so short without any warnings, I realize now just what an angel you are, when your mom and dad told me your plans to become a hairdresser and how you love style, make-up, and OCD, I knew you were a twin to Tina, your cousin that you never did get to know, OMG maybe it was a good thing because between your mom and dad and us we might of had to auction off our homes to support you girls, lol. I do want you to know that on the night that John IM me of the accident you have never left my heart or mind, my prayers and love goes out to your mom, dad, john, and Nick. I feel and see the hurt, pain and the emptyness that your family have and I wish I can take it away from them to make it all better but that is not possible, but you are an ANGEL and I know you would want them to be happy. Our family got to spend 10 days with your family in October for the first time in 22 years, I miss them and can't wait for them to come back to California to visit my tiny flower doll house, haha, this time I promise not to dust it so I can keep your OCD mom busy, lol. May you RIP my love, until we meet, my prayers are with you. Love your auntie

November 28th 200908:29:46 PM

Name:

Matthew Winterkorn

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I remember Stephanie from baseball games at GCB for Nick and John. The Oliva's always came to support every game there and I'm glad to see others to now support them! Such a beautiful family and I was very saddened to hear the terrible news on that day. The fourth of november has always been a day to remember for a different reason for me (my bday), but my thoughts and prayers every yr on that day will be with the Oliva's- God Bless!

November 22nd 200910:17:57 PM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

Cindy O

Location:

Greece

Comments:

The holidays are coming and already feeling sad with out you. I wish I can sleep till Jan. 2nd But another year with out you by precious girl. You are missed so much. Nothing feels the same any more. As the years go by the missing gets stronger and just wondering what you would be doing at these times?. We miss you baby girl.

November 18th 200912:29:21 AM

Name:

Chris Schuck

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Nick, John, Mr.+Mrs. Oliva:
 

I'm sorry I didn't post here sooner. I always had a great time with you all, and I feel bad that I haven't been around in a long time. I will always miss Steph, and I hope you are all doing as best as you can.
 

In february 2005 my family was in a car accident, my grandma was killed and my mom was nearly killed, and she still has health problems from it. I know it is way different because Steph was so young, but maybe in a small way I know how you feel.
 

The best time in my life was when I was with you guys, I haven't really had a good day in the past 5 years. I hope you are still able to find some happiness in your lives.
 

Chris

November 4th 200908:46:50 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph,
I cannot believe that it has been four years since you have been taken from us. I wish that things were different and you were still here with us. I think about you every day and I hope that you here my prayers, I know you are watching over us i love you soo much and words can't describe how much I miss you, rest in peace my angel <3
*ring sisters*
*SO*MR*AN*

November 4th 200907:56:51 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Steph! I miss you so so so so so so much! It's still so unbelievable. I cant believe it's 4 years. My heart just breaks. I wish you were here! It is so unfair!!! You were always such an incredible friend to me and I am so grateful for the friendship we had! You have been an amazing angel! I love you!!!!

November 4th 200907:36:41 PM

Name:

Jamie

Comments:

hey steph-
Cant believe its been four years.. id give anything to go back to shear ego.. no matter how much we said we hated it and liked to skip it.. we could always go up n take naps haha! i miss u soo much!!! seems like just the other day we were drivin around to get sum food!
i love uu!!! miss u lotssssss!!! xoxox
Jamie

November 4th 200906:24:11 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

PRESH! we are all missing you more than ever, i wish you were here with us. But i am sure you are looking down at all the craziness, lol. only the good die young, you were really something special and used the world as your stage. that is what i love about you. always in my heart hunnie. until we meet again, jilly*

November 4th 200909:13:09 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

oh steph, we all miss you so much. today is a very hard day. i wish SO much we could all go back and things would change - i would make you break up with that loser and not let you see him. if i only could go back honey i would try so hard to get you to stay away from him. how did we know this is how things would end up? it makes me so sad. i remember how cute you were and how much fun you and kelly and mal and mike all used to have. i will never forget those times. i love you honey and miss you so very much.

October 7th 200912:06:46 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - thinking of you. your chi just had her b-day. it's still not the same w/o you around. miss you more than you know

August 28th 200905:30:00 AM

Name:

Marusca

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Just wanted to leave a note to tell you all that we think of you so often and remember Stephanie and her beautiful smile so lovingly. We're wishing you strength in light of recent events and praying for resolution. Your family is in our hears always. With love, the Gatto's

August 27th 200906:45:51 PM

Name:

Quinn

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Even after these last several years I do not think anyone has recovered from this loss. The website you have is a great means to remind all that visit here just how much you guys really love her.
Time does go by, but the memories you have and share will last forever.

August 26th 200904:09:09 PM

Name:

Mackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

Hey girl. i miss you very much.. no words will ever tell you and ur family how much you meant to all of us. sorry i havnt seen you in a couple weeks. its been alittle busy around here latley. i love you. see you soon
 

to the oliva's i hope everyone is hanging in there theses days, and your doing a great job on helping steph finally rest in peace. stay strong eveyone. love you

August 25th 200906:37:11 AM

Name:

Mike Parker

Location:

Greece

Comments:

The recent events have definitely brought Steph back to the forefront of our memories (not that she had gone far from it). We all miss her sooooo much; my mom, sisters, and myself can never forget how truly awesome Stephanie was.
 

Love ya Steph!!!!
 

-Michael Snot

August 24th 200910:58:09 PM

Name:

Karen

Location:

Webster

Comments:

I just went through your daughters web site, what a wonderful tribute to your beautiful daughter, I never knew your daughter but I sat here and cried like it was my own. I do have a daughter who was also born in 1987 and I can't imagine your pain. After going through this web site I feel like I know your family, you are all wonderful and loving people and your daughter was very special to many, May God Bless you all and know that people do care even if they never met her.

August 24th 200908:17:58 PM

Name:

Stacey Pike

Location:

Arcadia

Comments:

Cindy and Nick~ I want you to know that I think of you often. I watched YNN news tonight and saw the story about Steph. It brought tears to my eyes. I enjoyed every minute of coaching Stephanie! Those memories (and seeing the picture of her in her uniform) are priceless. Continue to stay strong...Steph wouldn't want to see you any other way! Be sure to get justice!

August 24th 200907:50:12 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

miss you love 

August 24th 200904:26:13 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I never stop thinking about you Steph, sorry I havnt written in a while. I saw your picture pop up on one of the T.V's at the gym today and after practically falling off the tredmill I started crying thinking about all this craziness. I miss you and I hope im making you proud babydoll. Almost 5 years and its still not fair

August 24th 200902:22:02 PM

Name:

Noelle

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I just heard about the story from an update on the news-I have been living out of town. I knew that name sounded familiar and I looked it up online, which brought me to this page. I recognize Stephanie because I believe I was one of her cheerleading coaches for the Greece Cardinals? I was only in 9th grade when I assisted the team and now I am almost 30 but I remember little Stephanie on the C-team. Her short blonde hair, she was quite the character to stand out in my mind all these years later. I am so sorry for your loss, I am shocked to find out that one of these "little girls" from my adorable squad is gone. Thinking of your family, Noelle

August 20th 200909:51:22 PM

Name:

Moochie, (Mom)

Location:

Greece

Comments:

My daughter, You are in my heart and soul 24/7. I miss you so much and doing our nails together and shopping and just buying you little surprise gifts left at the end of your bed that would get you so excited and thankful. We all miss your little funny personality. Always made people laugh. I also have trouble still going into the pool now you are gone. It's very lonely with out sun bathing with me in the water. Your smile and love is in-graved in my heart. I am so lonely with out my girl and the girl stuff we do and talk about stuff or argue about what eve!. Not to mention not hearing you scream every time your brothers touched you. You needed to get your little princess fix from daddy to yell at one of them. All it had to be was a finger or foot on you. (Our drama queen) Those days are now for ever gone till I see you again. Watch over your brothers. I love them very much also and your daddy, You are Daddy's little girl for ever.
Much love and prayers sent to you my beautiful daughter.
Love and miss you 24/7
 

Moochie (aka mom) Cind.. I will always remember you telling every one at Sheer Ego you were the younger version of Cind. That made me feel good as a mom to you.So much love and prayers to you.

August 12th 200912:30:02 PM

Name:

Ashley Blazina

Location:

Kissimmee, FL

Comments:

Think of you and your family...you will forever be missed.
 

Love always, Ashley (and Jojo)
from our vacations at Disney Resort Vero Beach Florida

August 2nd 200912:24:58 AM

Name:

Lauren Nicoletti

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I liked steph. she was the popular one in my homeroom. it was nice hanging with u in homeroom and i also graduated with u too..... RIP

May 6th 200904:38:28 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hey little steph - sorry i have been absent for too long - but you know i'm always thinking of you. every time i look in kelly and mall's face, you are there. lots of happy memories of you - you were always so happy and smiling. you will be proud of kelly, she actually cleaned up her room yesterday. all your hard work on getting her to be neat was not a total waste!!
 

miss you every day cutie
 

lots of love to you