Archives of Original Guestbook from Feb 2006 to Nov 2019

  


April 9th 201907:31:56 AM

Name:

jackie

Comments:

happy birthday Steph! thinking about you on your day. miss you cutie. all my love, mother j

  

April 9th 201907:17:19 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Florida

Comments:

Happy Birthday in Heaven Sweetheart.. I cannot believe how much time has gone by since you were home with your beautiful mom and dad and your two beautiful brothers.. for them to watch you blow out your candles and make a wish first of course... Its been a long time.. too long.. Im shedding tears now because you cannot be here for your birthday and I know how much your family friends and loved ones want you here if only for today.. to celebrate your birth.. the day you were gifted into the arms and hearts of your family.. Im so sorry for us. .. The missing. But Ive heard that greater things await us up there in Heaven and only you and others who have gone on before us know all about those answers... We can only have faith we will be at your side and all our loved ones side again.. Faith.. Today a candle will be lit for you honey.. And you will never be forgotten by me. You sit in my heart next to Danny... and always will. I love you Princess in pink.. that is how I think of you... We have never met but boy do I know you from your pushy mom... you know the lady xox... lol.. We will all be together soon honey... be patient I know your smiling down from Heaven today watching and holding anyone who sheds a tear with a smile and a twinkle in your eye.. Because you know the secrets and we dont. Love you so much. Happy Birthday xox

  

April 8th 201908:02:52 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My sweet baby girl, tomorrow you will be 32 yrs old on earth. But forever 18. April 9, 1987 was one of my most beautiful gifts . It’s just not right that all our life’s changed for ever. Living with out you in our life’s is the hardest thing we will ever do. Living in this reality every day is painful and knowing you never got to live your life with us. What would you be doing today?
One more painful thing is never thinking that Marybeth little girl would be with you. I know you are with Maisie and telling her all the fun stories about her mommy. Make sure you help Maisie send her mommy signs from her. My heart hurts so much for us and Marybeth’s family. I know you both are in a very happy place. But it doesn’t feel that way for us here without either of you.
Love and Missing you every second of my life.
“ALWAYS AND FOREVER “
Moochie

  

April 8th 201907:53:56 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffins House

Comments:

I miss you soooooo much my GEEL😔❤️

  

April 8th 201907:36:39 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffins's House

Comments:

Tomorrow is your birthday. 32😔I miss you so much my Geek❤️

  

November 4th 201810:26:28 AM

Name:

Jackie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

🌹 thinking of you today. All my love, mother j

  

October 31st 201807:17:11 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffins House

Comments:

Thirteen YEARS without you are looming! Today is Halloween. Halloween brings back many memories of you and your brothers dressing up and me going out with you and usually freezing or getting soaked. Twenty-four years (1994) we took you and your brothers to visit Grandma’s after Trick or Treating, as was our custom. When we arrived you could tell she had been crying and was very sad. You were the only one who could make her laugh and smile. Especially with your old lady mask and kerchief. She passed away that night but your special gift was finding ways to make people smile.

  

April 9th 201801:27:27 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph! You are in my thoughts, always. Miss you every day!
 

Love, MaryBeth

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April 9th 201811:17:58 AM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 31st birthday stephanie! gosh, how we miss you  sending all my love and hugs to you on your day
 

mother j

Reply:

Nick and Cindy replied 2 years ago

Thank you Mary Jackie we really appreciate you remember and keeping her memory in your heart. We have very fond memories of you and Steph that we will cherish forever.ies:

  

April 9th 201805:16:35 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's House

Comments:

Another birthday without you is here. This one is the 13th. . My baby girl would be 31!! I can’t believe it, as you are always my baby girl. 

  

April 4th 201806:41:52 AM

Name:

DAd

Location:

Muffins House

Comments:

150 months today

  

February 27th 201805:26:40 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece,NY

Comments:

My Sweet Baby Girl,
Their is never a morning I wake up with out you in my thoughts. I see your glorious beautiful smile, your beautiful face. When I look at a special picture of you about a year 1/2 yrs old. I see and say, I could have never imagined losing this little sweet baby girl. NEVER! HOW COULD THIS EVER BE?????
Never thought you would be taken at 18 yrs old. How?????? I now look at other little kids and say to my self, will anything happen to this beautiful child? It's still so hard to imagine this really happened. But You are not here and it did. My heart hurts so much and will for ever.
 

No matter how I spend my day, no matter what I do, I will never spend a single day without you in my heart or
my thoughts. It could never happen. You are my person, you live in my heart and soul.
Missing you every second of my life.
Love You Sweet Girl
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER"MOOCHIE XoXoXo

  

November 3rd 201712:54:46 PM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Time keeps marching on but the pain never goes away. I miss you so much and can’t help wondering how our lives would be different if we still had you here with us. I know I am not saying anything new or profound it’s like an endless loop of sadness.

  

May 13th 201708:51:36 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's House

Comments:

600 weeks today. They keep piling up. I miss you soooooo much Geelhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 9th 201704:22:22 PM

Name:

Kathie Sheridan

Location:

Living in Maryland

Comments:

Dear Oliva Family, My heart and thoughts are with you...HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEPHANIE. Cindy, Thank you so much for all your support when my John died. I hope that Johnny and Stephanie have crossed paths in eternity. The pain is never-ending. Love, Peace and Hope, Kathie

  

April 9th 201708:42:04 AM

Name:

Marian Schrader

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday beautiful angel Stephanie!! Always in my thoughts and heart!!

  

April 9th 201706:58:38 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Another birthday without you is here. This one is the 12th. . However, this one stings a little more as it would be your Big 3 0. I can only imagine what your life would have been like at 30. Would you be married with kids of your own? Would you still be a hairdresser? If not what would you be doing, perhaps makeup artist to the stars???

  

April 8th 201711:12:50 PM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

Cindyo

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Stephanie, My Daughter, My Person
I see you in my thoughts and I do not see passage of time.
I see my little girl playing dress up, running through the yard, playing on the swings. I see you sitting with your brothers while daddy reads you all a book. I see you on TGIF nights tucked in with one of your brothers and their sleeping blanket. I see you at your recitals, I see you be a cheerleader, I watched you walk across the stage for your high school diploma. I seen you start your dream at 18 at Sheer Ego.Then Tears
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER
Love,
Mooch

  

December 31st 201607:42:58 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's house

Comments:

About to begin 12th New Year without my Geel. New years since and going forward can never be Happy but OK at best.

  

November 4th 201601:06:20 PM

Name:

Moochie

Aim Screen Name

cindyo

Location:

muffins house

Comments:

!! years has gone by me. November 4th 2005 has been at a stand still and always will. As we all know here that the missing gets more painful as when your birthday comes as well. I know how old you would be and think what your life would have been.????? "tears"I LOVE YOU" their is no pain that could ever touch this pain,
"I LOVE YOU, ALWAYS AND FOREVER"

  

November 4th 201606:55:20 AM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

we miss you steph. 11 years  you'll forever be 18 and young and beautiful and funny and a clean freak with your windex and all your abrev's which are now part of our regular vocab! big hugs and all my love,
 

mother j

  

November 4th 201606:08:46 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

New Port Richey Florida

Comments:

My heart is with your Mom, dad, and brothers today and all your friends and family. Such a sweet girl you are...I dont understand and can never wrap my brain around the why? Only when we are all together will we find out until then Enjoy your glory young lady... always in my heart xox

     

November 3rd 201612:04:27 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's House

Comments:

Tomorrow it will officially be eleven years. It seems like forever but at the same time it still seems like yesterday. I can’t imagine if there’s anything worse that a parent can experience. I pray to GOD that I will not have to find out whatever that might be. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif I miss your smile , your laugh, your silliness, your determination, your potential. I just miss you!!!!

  

April 9th 201608:25:11 AM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

thinking of you on your 29th birthday stephanie.
 

all my love, mother j

  

February 10th 201607:39:13 AM

Name:

Dad

Location:

muffin's house

Comments:

Like a clown I put on a show
The pain is real even if nobody knows
And I'm cryin' inside
And nobody knows it but me
 

Why?
 

Why You?
 

Why US?
 

It is not fair in any way shape or form. I know that it happens to good families, bad families, rich families and poor families. Not sure I feel any better about it though.
 

I wish your “medicine” could fix this! L
 

I love you! I WILL ALWAYS Love you! I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU!!!

  

January 24th 201606:53:49 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephanie, Remember when we were out and driving? This song would come on. "Nobody Knows" I would sing it to you, You say "Oh Mom" dont sing, you cant sing. Then I sing it louder and laughing, It annoyed you so much. You hold your ears. Little did I know that this song ends up having the words in it that I am actually feeling and living. I have this song,it was on in the car with daddy. I told him how I would sing this song to annoy you. He mentioned to me to read his last letter to you. "Again" The beginning of his letter has these words from this song "Nobody Knows".
I annoyed you singing this song and now it has come in to reality and into daddy's letter
 

"Nobody Knows" Song By Tony Rich
 

I pretend that I'm glad you went away
These four walls closing more every day
And I'm dying inside
And nobody knows it but me
Like a clown I put on a show
The pain is real even if nobody knows
And I'm crying inside
And nobody knows it but me
 

Why didn't I say the things I needed to say
How could I let my angel get away
Now my world is just a-tumblin' down
I can say it so clearly but you're nowhere around
 

The nights are so lonely the days are so sad and
I just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me
 

I carry a smile when I'm broken in two
And I'm nobody without someone like you
I'm trembling inside
And nobody knows it but me
 

I Lie awake, it's a quarter past three
I'm screaming at night if I thought you'd hear me
my heart is calling you
And nobody knows it but me
 

How blue can I get?
You could ask my heart
But like a jigsaw puzzle it's been torn all apart
Billion words couldn't say just how I feel
A million years from now you know I'll be loving you still
 

The nights are so lonely the days are so sad and
I just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me
 

My Heart is broken in two and a piece of it is gone. It went with you the night you were gone. My heart will never be whole again. the rest of my heart is where you live. My mind sees your smile and hears your laugh everyday. You will forever be my person, each day my eyes still fill
with tears , tears that will never end.
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER"http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 10th 201510:14:22 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Oh Stephanie, not sure where my message went on November 4,2015. it didn't post. why, I dont know what happened.
 

I just still cant believe it has been 10 years with out you. I have no idea how I made did these 10 years. It still feels like a bad dream. I just can not explain this feeling of losing you. Their are no such word to explain or express them. Its even harder now when I see your beautiful pictures and that big gorgeous smile. The missing of you is so strong. I still get my little punches of this horrific reality that still brings tears to my eyes. The shock still hits me when my mind says, I had a daughter and shes gone! A dark cloud covers me completely. Then hearing my self say,HOW could I lose my girl, HOW? It should never be, you were given to me and then taken away. Everything I did to be your mom, never working and able to stay home with all of you. A family, our future. Nothing will ever be the same because you are not here.
No more to say, My mind is blank, my heart is broken our full future is not complete and it will never be.
It hurts more when I look at your pictures and then know 10 YEARS.
I had you!!! Losing you is the only thing in life that can not ever be fixed. "TEARS"
 

Missing you is not about how long it has been
since I saw you and heard your laugh.
Its not about the amount of time since we talked,
Its about the very moment when we all are together
doing something and wishing you were here with us.
MISSING YOU SO, SO MUCH.
LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER,
Moochiehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 4th 201510:59:55 AM

Name:

jackie

Comments:

10 years without seeing your cute little face and hearing you laugh and clean kelly's room with windex. all that we've had to miss, seeing you grow up and who knows what you'd be doing - but i think of you every day stephanie. miss you and sending all my love
 

mother j

  

November 4th 201502:43:25 AM

Name:

Amanda

Location:

Greece NY

Comments:

10 looooong years without seeing your smile, 10 years without hearing your laugh. 10 years... I just don't understand. How can 10 years pass and it still feels like I just found out?! I miss you Steph, I think about you allll the time. It's been awhile since you have came to me in my dreams... come see me soon!!!!

  

November 3rd 201505:03:36 PM

Name:

Dawn

Location:

Charlotte NY

Comments:

I know that each anniversary is a struggle. But the love of your family has pulled them through the pain of your loss. Know how much you are loved sweet Stephanie.

  

October 27th 201509:02:00 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

TEN years looming:
 

Like a clown I put on a show
The pain is real even if nobody knows
And I'm cryin' inside
And nobody knows it but me

  

June 5th 201508:04:21 PM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

500 Weeks today without my Geel

  

April 9th 201501:57:26 PM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

wishing you a happy birthday steph. all my love, mother jhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 9th 201507:15:42 AM

Name:

chap

Comments:

Happy birthday princess! Miss you today and always.... xoxo

  

April 8th 201507:11:16 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin Deep South

Comments:

Happy Birthday Geely. I really miss that smile and crazy sense of humor. Daddy

  

December 24th 201402:33:19 PM

Name:

Dad

Location:

Muffin's House

Comments:

Tenth Christmas without my GEEL!!!!!!!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

December 12th 201403:34:29 PM

Name:

Sue R.

Aim Screen Name

atomicslr

Location:

Victor, NY

Comments:

Dear Oliva Family,
 

I just saw the news and know today must be another very difficult day for all of you. Stephanie knows you love her, so hold her close in your hearts. Hang in there and be strong - I'm thinking of Stephanie and all of you.
 

-Sue

  

November 5th 201408:58:05 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

My Precious Stephanie,
A very dear and close friend gave this to me today Nov. 4, 2014, called
"BUTTERFLIES FROM HEAVEN"
I have butterflies every where in our house and out side b/c of you. I watch for butterflies all the time. When I see one, then I know you are with me and that you want to make sure that I always know that. Even with out seeing a butterfly. I know you are. I feel your spirit with me all the time. Daddy bought me a beautiful and colorful butterfly necklace in the honor and memory of my baby girl.
Missing you so much more as time goes on each second of my day. Nine years has gone by and feels like forever since I touched you, seeing and hearing your beautiful smile and laugh. But it also feels like last night we lost you. That memory of last night never leaves. It's embedded in my mind and my heart.
Loving you and Missing you 24/7 "ALWAYS AND FOREVER"
 

BUTTER FLIES FROM HEAVEN
 

When we lose our loved ones they never die
For I know once heaven takes their souls
The Dear Lord leaves a little of them here
To turn into beautiful butterflies
So they can be near our hearts.
 

Blessed are those who can see the beauty
Of the life which has gone to what is "God's Art"
When we look for the angels
They will send us Jesus' LOVE
I saw a butterfly today, my last prayer I fave away
 

Heaven is more that souls of our loved ones
When a father, mother, a brother, sister or a child goes home
Their hearts live in those who have loved them.
 

As a gift, The Lord, lets us have a glimpse of those we love
For a brief moment in time, for a short while
A butterfly is seen in our window, sent from heaven
Then we know, all will be well with those we love.
 

You are my person living in my heart and soul till we are together again.
Moochiehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 4th 201401:16:57 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Florida

Comments:

A Beautiful Candle is lit for you Sweetheart and always is.. you are so loved and missed by so many people.. Alot of people are very sad and hurting today and all the days surrounding today... So I will say a prayer that they hear you... Because I know you are a Heart beat away. lots of love Stephanie... give a kiss to Danny for me http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif

  

November 4th 201410:37:05 AM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Steph! You are so, so, so missed! How can it be 9 years?! I miss sharing stories and laughing nonstop with you. It is not the same without you here. Thinking of you and your family often! Love you!

  

November 4th 2014

09:54:55 AM

Name:Cindy Outlaw

Location:Goldthwaite Texas

Comments:Hi sweet girl. Just wanted you and your Mama to know I'm thinking of you today and holding you close to my heart always. Sending much love. 


November 4th 2014

09:51:29 AM

Name:Cheryl Roy

Location:Swansea, Mass.

Comments:Sending love and prayers to you Stephanie on your Angelversary, thinking of your family on this difficult day. May beautiful memories help them through this day, love Cheryl xoxo


November 4th 2014

09:35:00 AM

Name:Marian

Location:Greece NY

Comments:Thinking of you today and always. I still can't believe that it has been 9 years. Fly high beautiful angel!!! Missing you always!!! Wishing you were here with everyone!!


November 4th 2014

07:34:21 AM

Name:jackie

Location:greece

Comments:thinking of you today and so wishing you were here steph. you are always in my heart. all my love, mother j


November 4th 2014

01:22:05 AM

Name:AGNESE

Location:Spinoso, ITALY

Comments:I STEPHANIE,in my heart yesterday,today,tomorrow, forever.


November 3rd 2014

10:15:04 PM

Name:Londa

Aim Screen Nameshortyslonda

Location:California

Comments:Although its been 9 years it still seems like it was yesterday that your brother message me about the horrific accident you were in, but who would have known except our father god who was waiting with open arms to accept you in the beautiful heaven! You are greatly missed by all who new you and loved you, leaving a piece of memory in our heart. May you RIP my dear beautiful niece sending down those signs that you are still with your loved one in heart and soul. Love Always, Auntie Londa

November 3rd 2014

12:22:54 PM

Name:Dad

Comments:Tomorrow will be 4 years without my Geel. I miss you so much!


August 30th 2014

10:47:30 AM

Name:jackie

Location:greece

Comments:thinking of you and missing your cuteness. all my love steph, mother j


July 27th 2014

09:48:23 AM

Name:Dad

Comments:Give your Grandma a kiss for her 90th birthday today!


April 11th 2014

02:20:48 PM

Name:DAD

Comments:Give your Grandpa a kiss for his birthday today. You me and him are all born on years with sevens,


April 9th 2014

10:23:55 AM

Name:MaryBeth

Comments:Happy 27th birthday Steph!!! I miss you so much!


April 9th 2014

09:44:07 AM

Name:Dad

Comments:Hapy 27th Birthday Geely!


March 20th 2014

08:29:07 PM

Name:Mom (Moochie)

Location:Greece, N.Y.

Comments:Oh Stephanie, The missing only gets stronger and the time that is here today and seeing some of your special friends who are married now. Just wonder what you be doing now? Life goes on because we have no choice but to go on. I can tell you that not one second of my day that you are not on my mind. You are still a part of me and my person. Nothing in this world can ever break my heart after losing you. A loss that a parent can never get over. At times I still feel that shock of you really being gone. At times I can not believe this happened to us. Its such a feeling that can not be explained or even expressed in tears. If my heart was able to be seen then it will express what our life is now. My heart is not whole any more and if any one could see it then they will understand. No one can understand unless they live our journey. A journey that I would never wish on my worst enemy. Oh Baby Girl "WHY" I love and miss you so much and its lonely with out having my girl. Having boys is one thing and I love them more then life. Not having my girl is a whole lot different and it is so much more lonely. A daughter is forever with her mom and a mom is forever with her daughter. Us Girls are the same and understand each other. Mother and daughter goes together. I had always wished and dreamed to have a little girl when I got married. My dream came true but then it was taken from me, "WHY"?? Why were we cheated? Because of Stupidity of drivers. My heart that is left will always live with tears 24/7

Missing you 24/7, Loving you 24/7, and never leaving my thoughts for one second of my life. "ALWAYS AND FOREVER"

January 21st 2014

11:09:21 AM

Name:DAD

Comments:3000!!!! That's how many days without my baby Geel. I chose to remember the happy times like the very first day when we are surprised to have a girl. I was shocked but Happy to try to raise a baby girl. I did my best but for the most part you had the upper hand.


December 24th 2013

08:21:41 AM

Name:DAD

Comments:Merry Christmas to my baby Geel in Heaven. My ninth without you.


December 6th 2013

07:05:55 AM

Name:Aldea Simon

Location:New York

Comments:Blessings Stephanie.

November 17th 2013

03:47:16 PM

Name:Shamima Khan

Location:Beverly Hills, CA

Comments:Wow, i do not even know you but somehow stumbled across this page. I too lost my father at a young age and miss him everyday. I feel your parents pain. You were SO gorgeous and so young. I am only 23 years old a couple years younger then you would've been and im sorry that this has happened to you. May you rest in heaven, Angel <3


November 4th 2013

10:49:30 PM

Name:Claudia Ewers

Location:King City, Oregon

Comments:Blessings and much love to Stephanie's family. The world

lost such a beautiful soul on November 4th 2005.

Stephanie blessed the lives of many

during her much too short life, and her spirit will always be with

those who loved her so dearly.

She is forever loved and will always be remembered.


November 4th 2013

08:28:57 PM

Name:Cindy Outlaw

Location:Texas

Comments:Sweet Stephanie you are so loved and missed more with each passing day. What a beautiful young woman you were/are and what a void you left in many lives. Please stay extra close to your Mom, Dad and brothers as I know their hearts still ache for you. Sending hugs and prayers and much love to your family today and always...♥


November 4th 2013

03:37:15 PM

Name:Cheryl Bliss

Aim Screen NameCheryl

Location:Greece

Comments:Stephanie, I feel so sad that you were taken out of this world so young. My heart aches for your family. I think of you every time I drive past the site on Ridge Road West where you were killed. I always look at the flowers and remember. It is obvious that you were and still are so loved. I can't believe that it has been eight years that you have been gone. Rest in peace, Stephanie.


November 4th 2013

02:29:50 PM

Name:Ashley N.

Location:Rochester

Comments:Stephanie, you were taken from us 8 years ago today and it still feels like it was yesterday. It is weird to think that it has been 8 years since I've hugged you or talked to you. It feels like it has been forever and miss you so much. I think about what you would be doing right now if you were still alive, I know you would be a very successful hair stylist and would be the person that everyone would want to do their hair and makeup! Today is not the only day I think and remember you, every day that goes by you are in my thoughts love you so much Steph, keep watching down on us Sending my love until we meet again.


November 4th 2013

12:04:46 PM

Name:Stacey Signorino

Location:Rochester, NY

Comments:To the Oliva family: I was in college when Stephanie passed away in that tragic accident. My mom mailed me the obituary from the newspaper. I couldn't believe that such a tragedy could happen to such a wonderful family. I remember meeting Stephanie when I went to the prom with Nick in 2000. Over the years she grew up to become a beautiful young lady. I can't imagine what your family must be going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope you will get some closure about the accident. In May 2012 I lost one of my students who died in her sleep because of an enlarged heart. She was only 15. I was very close with her and couldn't believe how something like that could happen to such a sweet girl like Tashana. Over the years I've learned that God has a plan for everyone and no matter how tragic. Things happen in our lives for a reason. People come into our lives for a reason. We are all interconnected in this small world we live in. The only thing we can do about tragic situations like Stephanie's and my student Tashana is to remember the good times and memories and never let those memories fade. I know in my heart that Stephanie is watching down on her family and friends and smiling knowing that she is still so loved by many. God bless you all- Love Stacey


November 4th 2013

11:41:37 AM

Name:Ellen Gilmour

Location:Vancouver Island canada

Comments:Thinking of you today Stephanie and your loving family.. Always remembered .. xx


November 4th 2013

09:37:59 AM

Name:Cheryl Roy

Location:Swansea, Mass.

Comments:Thinking of your sweet Stephanie on her Angelversary, sendng all my love and prayers to the family..May God help you get through this difficult day. Love you Cindy today and always 


November 4th 2013

09:32:16 AM

Name:Ashley

Location:Rochester NY

Comments:Thinking of you today Steph! Rest in peace beautiful angel! 


November 4th 2013

06:53:21 AM

Name:Marian

Location:Greece, NY

Comments:Thinking of you today Stephanie, Like I do many days. Your smile was contaigious and your vibrant laugh would just make everyone smile. You are missed everyday by somany people. THinking of you and your family today. Keep watching over them and remember to laugh!!!


November 3rd 2013

11:56:52 AM

Name:Katrina

Comments:seeing your beautiful face. I feel like I know you so well from the stories from your mum. The love from your mum is so pure in its love and pain from missing you. You are in my thoughts especially at this time of year. send mum a sign tomorrow or let her feel you around. loved beautiful girl always.


November 3rd 2013

10:44:27 AM

Name:Maria Pinzone

Location:Long Island, New York

Comments:Dear Stephanie,

Thinking of you & your dear Family & Friends. Sending my Love & lots of Hugs to All. Blessings & Peace 


November 2nd 2013

10:53:44 AM

Name:barbara lanieri

Location:Florida

Comments:You are remembered Steph.. with love .. I know you are right there with your family helping them get through this life they live now without your physical presence here.. Shine on Like the moon and the stars above..I know you are enjoying Heaven and someday we will all be together. for this life is so short as we all found out.. time is a blink.. much love to Heaven.. You surly left too soon Beautiful Stephanie. Give my Danny a kiss and hug love xox


November 1st 2013

09:46:31 PM

Name:Moochie

Location:Greece, NY

Comments:It will be 8 years in two more days. Feels like forever since I been able to hug you and touch you. It also feels like it just happened last night, it stays so fresh in my mind.

How easy if God could set back the world of time by just a little turn or two?

Correct it's griefs, and bring it joy again? That's all I would want, a little turn or two. My Baby girl would be alive, The sadness would be gone. Just that one turn or two and all this pain can go away. We could go back to our life. Having our future taken away by something so unpleasant. Only if God was able to just a set back the world of time just by a little turn or two, I would have you back as mine.

Missing you, Always and forever 24'7

Moochie


July 4th 2013

04:31:12 PM

Name:Dad

Comments:Tomorrow will be 400 WEEKS w/o my Geel!


April 10th 2013

06:02:21 PM

Name:Debi and Angel Cassandra

Location:New York

Comments:I am so very sorry that I missed your birthday yesterday. I hope you sent your family lots of signs.

  

April 10th 2013

12:59:38 AM

Name:Agnese

Location:Italy

Comments:Happy Birthday dear, beautiful cousin 

  

April 9th 2013

06:52:02 PM

Name:Doris Hanson

Location:Philadelphia, Pa

Comments:I am in tears. This is a beautiful website for Stephanie. Just stopping in with love for Cindy and her family as they celebrate Stephanie on her birthday. I feel like I know you, Stephanie, through your mom. You will live forever in my heart.

  

April 9th 2013

01:24:09 PM

Name:Crystal

Location:In

Comments:Happy birthday Angel you are so beautiful. Mom is one of my friends here on face book and I have a daughter up there with you. I pray that you are all have a wonderrful time. and watching every move we make. I know your mom loves you dearly....Happy Birthday Stephanie....<3

  

April 9th 2013

01:04:05 PM

Name:Michael Parker

Location:Greece

Comments:Hi Steph! Wanted to stop by and say happy birthday and that we all miss you a lot. There are a lot of memories I have of you, your brothers, and your parents and those times were some of the best times growing up for me.

I actually just drove by Bronze Leaf the other day and it was a trip down memory lane! I say a prayer every week at church for you and your parents.

Love and miss you!

-Michael "Snot"

  

April 9th 2013

01:02:29 PM

Name:Linda Wichmann

Location:St. Louis , MO.

Comments:Sending Birthday wishes up to heaven for you beautiful Stephanie ♥ Celebrate big with all our angels ♥ Stay close to your mom as she misses you so. Send her butterfly kisses sweetheart ♥ Love from Brian's mom , my angel in heaven ♥ ~~ ♥Stephanie ♥ ~~

April 9th 2013

10:20:58 AM

Name:Barbara Lanieri

Location:florida

Comments:HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN ANGEL STEPHANIE.. I CELEBRATE THE DAY YOU WERE BORN INTO A MOST LOVING FAMILY...I KEEP YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS IN MY PRAYERS ALL THE TIME. I KNOW YOU ARE DOING WELL AND SHINE SO BRIGHT.. I CAN FEEL YOU RADIATE ... YOU ARE A PRECIOUS ANGEL TO ME.. KEEP SHINING STEPHANIE.. A CANDLE IS LIT.. 

  

April 9th 2013

10:10:30 AM

Name:Meg

Comments:Stephy,

I thought it would eventually get easier, but it seems like lately it only gets harder. I wish you were here to experience life and growing older with me.

I know you are always watching and it is comforting to know. Thank you for coming into my dream the other night but I wish you did that more often so I could talk to you some more.

I miss our friendship and the way we could go months without talking and then pick up right where we left off. I came across old notes from you in 5th and 6th grade. They were hilarious and I will hold onto them forever.

Wishing you a happy birthday from down here. Hope you are singing and dancing with the rest of the angels.

I love you BFF

Chap

  

April 9th 2013

08:45:34 AM

Name:Laura Harris ~Katie's~ Mom

Comments:Happy Birthday in Heaven Stephanie, I can imagine you dancing in the streets of gold.

Send your Mom some Angel kisses...

  

April 9th 201307:47:29 AM

Name:

Sharon Lee Hoover

Location:

Ohio

Comments:

Happy Birthday Sweet Stephanie,
I hope you are Dancing and singing and having a Great time with Kimmy and all your new friends. Much love, Kimmys mom.

  

April 9th 201305:32:12 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 26th birthday steph! sending all my love and hugs to you 

  

April 9th 201312:45:05 AM

Name:

Judy Lujan

Location:

China, right now

Comments:

Happy birthday Stephanie! Many hugs and happy birthday wishes sent from earth to heaven for you! 

  

April 8th 201311:35:36 PM

Name:

Londa

Location:

California

Comments:

Stephanie, I just wanted to wish you a wonderful birthday in heaven. You are so very much missed by all that loved you. You are so lucky to be able to have such a glorious birthday with all Gods special angels. Not a day goes by that I don't see your beautiful face, your mom keeps you so alive on facebook, and on your special website that your brothers put together. Your smile just brightens up a gloomy day, please continue to send your family your special little gift signs. Happy 26th birthday sweetheart, sending hugs and butterfly kisses to you! Love Aunt Londa

  

April 8th 201309:01:33 PM

Name:

Cheryl Roy

Aim Screen Name

cheshall@aol.com

Location:

Swansea, Mass.

Comments:

Sending you lots of hugs and kisses Stephanie on your heavenly birthday, thinking of your family and how much they miss you so.

  

April 8th 201308:16:05 PM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

Cindyo55

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

Sending you a BIG HUG, kisses and all my love up to you on your Birthday. This is all I can send to you. Missing you on your Birthday is so lonely and not able to go out to dinner then come home to sing Happy Birthday and watch the excitement on your face opening your gifts. Never just one gift, I had trouble controlling my self buying the gifts. Plus all the little ones I would leave on your bed and say no more gifts. But I never could resist when ever I went out. That what makes it special to have a little girl and turn into a beautiful young lady.I miss buying you things every time I am in a store. It breaks my heart knowing I can not buy them any more. I am so happy that I did keep buying those gifts when I would say this is the last gift on your bed. We both knew it wasn't. To me that's what made it so special to have my little girl. You were my gift, my dream and I was so lucky to have you even if it was for only 18 years. I still cry for you and my heart will never be the same again. I will always walk around with a piece of me missing. You were my person, My daughter and my most beautiful gift. Happy Birthday to you up in Heaven. Tears and loneliness here with out you. "ALWAYS AND FOREVER IN MY HEART"
Loving You Always 24/7'
Moochie

  

April 8th 201307:58:27 PM

Name:

Daddy

Location:

Greece, New York

Comments:

I always loved shopping for your presents and anxiously awaiting your expressions as you opened them. I also really loved each year you never being able to find your Easter basket without help from your brothers.
Although you loved all kinds of gifts. You especially loved the diamond earrings and leather coat. Those were the most fun gifts to buy for you and anticipate your excitement, I always enjoyed buying you presents. You were always so excited to get them and always showed how happy and thankful you were. Especially when your mom would hear you call your friends to tell them what you got.
Love you always my "Geel",
Daddy

  

April 8th 201306:43:34 PM

Name:

Renee (Dave's Mom)

Location:

Pa

Comments:

Thinking of you and your family tonight sweet Stephanie- I will have my candle glowing all day here in Pa tomorrow for you - be close to your mom and give her strength

  

April 8th 201304:14:34 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie I want to wish you a happy birthday. Make sure my boys help you celebrate big and send lots of love down to your Mom and Dad and brothers.

  

April 8th 201307:40:23 AM

Name:

Yvonne Underwood

Comments:

Fly high and free beautiful girl!

  

April 8th 201307:37:30 AM

Name:

Eileen

Location:

Florida

Comments:

Happy Birthday in Heaven Stephanie

  

March 1st 201305:39:13 AM

Name:

Donna Mom to Angie Robert

Comments:

Memories are made of love and spending time with your love ones. Memories are life's best treasures. Hugs Stephanie xo

  

February 10th 201306:17:55 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

thinking about you, little one. wishing you were here with us. hugs and all my love, mother j

  

January 1st 201311:48:20 PM

Name:

Moochie

Aim Screen Name

cindyo

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

IF I COULD VISIT HEAVEN,
EVEN FOR A DAY,
MAYBE FOR A MOMENT,
THE PAIN WOULD GO AWAY.
I'D PUT MY ARMS AROUND YOU,
AND WHISPERS WORDS SO TRUE,
THAT LIVING LIFE WITH OUT YOU,
IS THE HARDEST THING TO DO.
NO MATTER HOW I SPEND MY DAYS,
NO MATTER WHAT I DO,
NO MORNING DOWNS OR EVENING FALLS,
WHEN I DON'T THINK OF YOU.
"THINKING AND MISSING YOU 24/7"
IT NEVER ENDS AS THE MISSING GETS STRONGER
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER" LOVING YOU"

  

January 1st 201311:32:19 PM

Name:

Cindyo

Aim Screen Name

Cindyo

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

ಌMemories of you are lovingly kept, You are too special to ever forget. Out of my life you have gone, But in my HEART you still live on.
"LOVE YOU ALWAYS MISSING YOU 24/7"
"NEVER ENDS ONLY GETS STRONGER"

  

December 25th 201202:56:11 PM

Name:

DAd

Comments:

I miss you so much Geely. Eighth Christmas without my baby girl.

  

December 17th 201210:15:00 PM

Name:

Moochie (Mom)

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

"NEVER FORGETTING"
"STEPHANIE"
OUR LOVE WILL ALWAYS REMAIN WITH ME,
FOR OUR LOVE ITSELF LIVES ON,
OUR CHERISHED MEMORIES WILL NEVER FADE.
BECAUSE YOU ARE GONE FROM THIS EARTH,
YOU CAN NEVER BE MORE THEN A THOUGHT
AWAY OR APART FROM ME.
FOR AS LONG AS I HAVE OUR MEMORIES
YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN MY HEART.
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER 24/7"
LOVING YOU AND MISSING YOU.....
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY PERSON.....
"MINI ME"

  

November 6th 201212:16:15 PM

Name:

Shelly Aston

Location:

Elkhart, IN

Comments:

thinking of you and your precious stephanie, blessings, xoxo

  

November 5th 201203:51:19 PM

Name:

Donna Robert

Location:

Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Comments:

Stephanie you truly are a beautiful looking girl...there is nothing harder than parents losing a child...I know...my daughter died in a tragic car accident at 24 yrs of age, leaving a son who was nearly 3 yrs old...I'm sure you've met her up in Heaven...and I bet your both doing each other’s hair...
 

Your family has done a wonderful job on this site for you...may your love and memories keep them whole until they are with you again one day!
 

Sending big hugs to you and your family xo

  

November 5th 201208:33:27 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

Steph, we all miss you so so much. it's just not right that you are not here with us all. i still can see you with your little legs tucked under you sitting on our couch, that's my last time seeing you. what i wouldn't give for one more hug and to hear you call me mother j once more. you were the one who started calling me that. i miss you Stephanie and love you forever

  

November 4th 201203:33:45 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

FLORIDA USA

Comments:

PRECIOUS ANGEL STEPHANIE ... YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED ALWAYS AND FOREVER.. YOUR LIGHT SHINES ON.. BEAUTIFUL ANGEL... A CANDLE IS LIT FOR YOU FROM MY HOME.. I KNOW YOU AND DANNY HAVE MET ALREADY.. AND THIS GIVES ME COMFORT.. YOU ARE AN AMAZING YOUNG LADY AND I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT YOU FROM MOM... SO MANY MEMORIES MOM HOLDS IN HER HEART AND SHARES... YOUR MEMORY LIVES ON UNTIL WE ALL COME HOME.. GOD BLESS YOU ... THE OLIVA FAMILY

  

November 4th 201211:43:18 AM

Name:

Tommy

Location:

Smiths, Alabama

Comments:

I "Light This Candle" For "My Friend And Sister In Grief"
(((((((((Cindy)))))))))
"In Memory And Ho//or Of Her Beautiful Precious Daughter
(((((((((Stephanie))))))))).
Please know that you are in my heart and thoughts on this most difficult day and always
(((((((((Cindy "SAY THEIR NAMES" STEPHANIE))))))))).
 

"With Love And Memories Of My Youngest Daughter Carmelita"
"MY CARME"
"WHEN I SEE A BUTTERFLY~~I THINK OF YOU."
 

(((((((((Stephanie T E A R S Carmelita)))))))))
"SO//EO//E CARES"
"SAY THEIR NA/../.ES."
 

"Your Friend And Brother In Grief."

  

November 4th 201209:54:03 AM

Name:

Marian

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hi Stephanie,
I hope you are keeping everyone on there toes in heaven! I miss your spitfire attitude!! You were an amazing vibrant special young woman!! We think of you everyday sweet angel!!
Love
The Schrader'shttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/28_spin.gif

  

November 4th 201206:54:40 AM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Steph, I cannot believe it has been 7 years since you were taken from us. I still think of you every day and miss you terribly. I know that you are looking down on everyone and keeping us safe. Your life on earth was way to short and I wish we had more time together, until we meet again rest in peace my angel http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 4th 201203:59:35 AM

Name:

Jo-Ann Pacenta

Location:

New York

Comments:

Sometimes tears are the only words the heart can speak; bringing peace from healing waters & a stream of hope. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time dear Stephanie.

  

November 3rd 201211:19:07 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw B.J., Wayne and Buck's Mama

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie I know your Mom, Dad and brothers are missing you so much. Please send them a sign that you are close to them. You'll forever be in my heart sweet girl.♥
Sending gentle hugs and prayers to your sweet Mom...my sweet friend.♥

  

November 3rd 201211:03:50 PM

Name:

cindy

Location:

Greece,, N.Y.

Comments:

Say her name, we need to say her name, her name "STEPHANIE" We need to say it loud to whom we talk with. Let them hear us say her name. We can say her name,It wont break us because we love to say her name. When you hear us speak her name, then you will know that is what a parent would do, no matter what. Our love for our child will never die and it's OK to to speak her name. We want to hear her name and we want to say her name. We want to talk about her. "SHE LIVED" she lives in our hearts and she will be remembered . "ALWAYS AND FOREVER" Stephanie,. your spirit lives on and your smile. Missing you will never end,
Love and miss you so, so much.

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November 3rd 201210:47:41 PM

Name:

Cindy

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

We approached the 7th year with out you. Never in my right mind would I believe that you would be taken from us, I know you were and it is so painful.Something that no parent should ever have to live in their life time.We have no choice but to do it and learn to cope each day. It is a job in its self like no other job. It is even harder then being a good parent. They say being a parent is one of the hardest thing to do. But it's not. Losing you is the hardest job. It still feels like last night you were taken but feels like forever since I have seen you or hugged you.You will never leave my heart. I have no choice but for you to remain and live in my heart.I rather have you here with me and if their was ever a way to have gotten you back , No matter what the consequences would have been, I would have done it. . Loving and missing you always and forever my sweet girl, my only girl. Tearshttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/15_weeping.gif
your Moochie XoXoXoXo

  

November 2nd 201201:35:59 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

This Sunday ot will be 7 years since the worst day in my life. Fot that matter our families life. Days, weeks, and months go by but the pain and emptiness is always there. I constantly find myself wondering how you’d be doing. Would you still be a hairdresser? Would you be married? Would I be a Grandpa? It seems like forever and it seems like yesterday. I long to hear your voice, your laugh, and see that smile. I even miss your witty sarcasm and complaints.

  

September 18th 201201:45:18 PM

Name:

Mooch

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

In every heart you touched,in every life you changed
in every thought you inspired,your love lives on.
Your voice still echoes,your life still inspires,
your light still shines and always will.
Thinking of you 24/7 I never stop ♥♥♥
Missing you so very much. It only gets
stronger as more time goes on.
Always Loving and missing youhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

August 6th 201208:43:57 PM

Name:

Mooch (Mom)

Location:

Greece N.Y.

Comments:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LmobRnRY_1g&feature=player_embeddedhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

June 15th 201210:38:17 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Geely,
 

This Sunday will be my 7th Fathers day without you. I know your brothers and mother will be make the day special. However it will never be the same without my baby girl there with me. The hole in my heart is always there. Miss you so much.
 

Dad

  

April 9th 201206:34:22 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy 25th Birthday Stephanie! I wish we could have spent more birthdays together, but I know you are smiling down on me. Rest in Peace my love I miss you very much and not a day goes by where I do not think of you. Love you Steph http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 9th 201202:15:20 PM

Name:

BARBARA LANIERI

Location:

NEW PORT RICHEY FLORIDA

Comments:

http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/28_spin.gif I LOVE THIS SMILEY BECAUSE I THINK YOU WOULD LOVE THIS ONE.. HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN SWEET BABY GIRL.. FOREVER 18 AND YOUNG... DANNY IS INSTRUCTED TO SQUEEZE YOU TILL YOU GIGGLE SO LOUD MAMA WILL HEAR YOU.. LOVE YOU STEPHANIE ANNE OLIVA.. XOX

  

April 9th 201201:58:33 PM

Name:

Cindy O

Location:

Greece, New York

Comments:

HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY MY SWEET STEPHANIE
Loved you the minute I heard you were coming. I loved you even more the minute you were born. Then I saw your face and fell in love some more. You were only a minute old, but I knew I would die for you and to this day I still would. When you choose to have a child you make a conscious decision to allow your heart to walk around outside of your body. There is no LOVE like loving your child. They are a piece of you. But now you are gone. I work to keep your memory alive and you will always live through me. Isn't this what a mother would do if she lost her child?
 

A DAUGHTER IS A MIRACLE THAT NEVER CEASES TO BE MIRACULOUS…
FULL OF BEAUTY AND FOREVER BEAUTIFUL
LOVING, CARING AND AMAZING…
“ALWAYS AND FOREVER”
MOOCHIE (MOM)

  

April 9th 201201:47:29 PM

Name:

denise

Location:

cumberland

Comments:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN TO A BEAUTIFUL SWEET GIRL ......

  

April 9th 201211:44:28 AM

Name:

Mike Parker

Aim Screen Name

mikeypebw

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph! We love and miss you very much. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

  

April 9th 201209:11:04 AM

Name:

Linda Wichmann

Location:

St. Louis , MO.

Comments:

Happy 25th Birthday in Heaven Stephanie ♥ You are loved & missed everyday angel ♥I am honored to light a candle for you birthday sweet Stephanie ♥

  

April 9th 201208:13:35 AM

Name:

MaryBeth

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph!!! Thinking of you always! Miss you each and every day my friend! Love you!

  

April 9th 201206:15:22 AM

Name:

amanda nusz

Comments:

Happy Birthday princess  I think of u and your family often. Always in our thoughts, Forever in our hearts. R.I.P beautiful. I'm wearing pink in your memory today!

  

April 9th 201205:05:09 AM

Name:

Renee (Dave's Mom)

Location:

Pennsylvania (USA)

Comments:

Happy birthday in Heaven sweet Stephanie. My candle is glowing here in Pa . for you- Fly close to your family today and give them strength especially today on your birthday

  

April 9th 201203:32:04 AM

Name:

Judy Lujan

Location:

USA/China

Comments:

Happy birthday Stephanie! I know that earth birthdays aren't regarded as very important in the spirit world, but they are very, very important to angel parents. Send your mama lots of signs today.

  

April 9th 201202:34:42 AM

Name:

Anneli

Location:

England

Comments:

Happy Heavenly Birthday Stephanie xx

  

April 9th 201212:03:17 AM

Name:

Shelly Aston

Location:

Elkhart, IN

Comments:

thinking of you cindy and your precious stephani, fly with the angels, rip, xoxo

  

April 8th 201211:04:19 PM

Name:

Carlo

Location:

Spinoso Italy)

Comments:

In memory of Stephanie's birthday
 

There was a time in America a wonderful woman who had married a man just as wonderful, with a special pair were right! Then they became the parents of 3 beautiful kids. People said "It 'a very united family! Nothing and no one will ever divide!" Unfortunately, one day of November, the youngest of three children left them, because God wanted with him in heaven, the celestial light dressing! Since then, the small family continues to live with the memory of their little daughter, but also with a great inner strength that helps them every day to fight the sadness and to address problems with energy.
The characters in this little tale on you, dear cousins, and I am sincerely proud of you!
A white rose for you, Stephanie!
 

Carlo

  

April 8th 201210:59:32 PM

Name:

Linda Duren Pitti

Location:

West Plains, Missouri

Comments:

Happy Heavenly Birthday Stephanie!! May you fly high today and everyday with all the angels!! Let your Mom and family know you are near with a light kiss on her cheek or a slight touch of your hand on hers!! Love, peace and light!! Linda 

  

April 8th 201208:00:53 AM

Name:

Lisa Vance

Location:

MS

Comments:

Happy 25th Birthday Beautiful Stephanie!! Hope you're singing with the Lord and all our Angels on this gorgeous Easter Sunday.
Send your sweet mom many signs of your presence to make her day easier!
Love and Hugs,
Lisa (Tiffany's Mom)
*~*~*~*~*
http://www.tiffanyvance.net

My Guestbook

  

April 6th 201205:59:18 PM

Name:

Cheryl Roy

Aim Screen Name

cheryl roy

Location:

Swansea, Mass.

Comments:

Happy Birthday In Heaven Stephanie, Fly High With The Angels !

  

March 23rd 201201:21:06 PM

Name:

Awilda

Aim Screen Name

Reyesawilda

Location:

New York

Comments:

Wishing you Stephanie Anne Oliva a beautiful Glory Birthday in Heaven.. With your Beauty, Smile and Golden Hair you will light up Heaven..May God make your birthday special cause you are special..

  

March 20th 201210:42:21 PM

Name:

Theresa Luther

Location:

Greece

Comments:

If I close my eyes I can see you sitting in my 4th period English 10 ... 2 seats away from Keel ... the row left of her and 1 seat back. Keel did that so you wouldn't tempt her to talk too much when her mom was teaching ... lol ... Keel knew she would get yelled at after school hours. Why? Because I actually did yell at my own kids. You sat behind that lazy, noodle skinny boy - the one that I could never stay mad long enough to get him to finish something- my bad ... taught his sis a few years later and she was always on her due dates. Funny, 30 plus years and I have learned that there are NO two or three sibling alike ... EVER. So Steph ... you are missed in sweet memories that bring a chuckle forth. Yes there is sadness too but I have a feeling you would like the chuckles more. So tonight when I close my eyes I am going to concentrate on that class, all the chatter mostly from the left side of the room, all the times I scolded myself for not scolding my social butterflies more often. And I will go to sleep with a big, goofy grin of my own. You would love that I KNOW.

  

March 14th 201211:25:28 AM

Name:

Carlo

Location:

Spinoso (Italy)

Comments:

Stephanie, you're flying in the sky so quickly, that sad November 4th! Up there, the angels will take care of you, just as did the wonderful your parents during your earthly life!
Say hello to the stars like you!
 

Carlo

  

February 29th 201206:43:34 PM

Name:

barbara lanieri

Location:

FLORIDA

Comments:

SWEET STEPHANIE... SENDING LOVE... TO HEAVEN ANGEL...YOU ARE STILL HERE WITH MOM AND DAD.. NEVER FAR AWAY.. I KNOW THAT ... KEEP SMILING FOR ALL OF US BEAUTIFULhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif

  

February 28th 201211:28:54 AM

Name:

Cindy oliva

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My Dear Stephanie.
I know it is important to go on and keep on coping with this new journey I live in. I do and I will always have a fall back. Because I love and miss you so much. Everyday the missing gets stronger and feels like it has been forever,It also still feels like last night when when you were taken home.
What makes it feel real, is that I have not seen you, hold you or get a hug from you. Just not seeing you and knowing your room is still here. How can I not fall back wards or have a dream of you that puts me in a bad place. I am a mother. How can a mother not feel this or just allow her feelings not to cry still. It's because I miss you so much. If I didn't I would not be your mother. So I will cry at times. I will miss and love you. I will keep your memory alive through me. You are my only daughter. You were my dream since I was a little girl and I wanted to be the mother to you that I never had. You were such a beautiful gift but then taken away. because you were my gift then taken away. I will always cry. Loving you sweet baby girl. I will miss the beautiful future you would of brought to all of us. You were our "PRINCESS" Loving and missing you 24/7.
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER"

  

February 15th 201206:52:27 PM

Name:

Mooch (mom)

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

Oh, How I miss you baby girls and that silly laugh and your beautiful smile.
 

“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.”
I go on for you. You are my inspiration
to always be your "HERO"
Love and Miss you till we are joined together again
in our beautiful Heaven....

  

January 10th 201209:44:56 PM

Name:

Linda Martin Moomey

Location:

Newport, Michigan

Comments:

Very beautiful daughter and memorial page

  

January 3rd 201207:39:04 PM

Name:

Mooch, (mom)

Location:

Greece, New York

Comments:

My Sweet Daughter Stephanie,Another New Year is coming, Another year with out you.. Another birthday on New Years for daddy without you here. Our birthdays will never feel the same again with out you.
Celebrating any of our birthdays will never feel the same with out you. Your chair is always empty. It will never feel the same when we have a pieace of our life missing.
. Love and miss you more then any words can ever describe or express. Our baby girl forever......http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

December 29th 201111:59:46 PM

Name:

Carlo

Location:

Spinoso - Italy

Comments:

Every time I see the video on "Youtube" in memory of the beloved Stephanie (her friend Gina Biondolillo me tenderly, even if i do not know personally!) and I read the letters that you, Nick, and your loved ones to have written, I feel stronger emotion from the heart!
Love!
Carlo

  

December 21st 201105:37:16 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

Approaching my 7th Christmas w/o my Geel. I miss you so much sweetheart.
 

Love you forever
Dad

  

December 18th 201110:39:41 AM

Name:

Cathy Giraud~Mom of David Giraud

Location:

Clinton Twp. Mi. USA

Comments:

Nothing can ever take away the love a heart holds dear~Fond memories linger every day~Remembrance keeps them near*(((Cindy & Family)))

  

November 6th 201105:47:44 PM

Name:

Lisa Woerner, Mom of angel Travis 16

Location:

Indiana

Comments:

May the Lord lift you up and give you and your family His peace.
Fly high with angels and send angel hugs and kisses down to earth to your mom and dad and friends. God bless your family.

  

November 4th 201103:21:00 PM

Name:

Cathy Giraud

Location:

Clinton Township, MI ...USA

Comments:

What a beautiful memorial site for a, oh so beautiful soul...You Stephanie!! You are doing such a beautiful job of keeping her wonderful memory alive. I am keeping all who love and miss Stephanie, in my thoughts and prayers, today...and every day, One day you will be united again!! 

     

November 4th 201102:09:26 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Thinking of beautiful Stephanie and your family today! She will never be forgotten.

  

November 4th 201101:59:51 PM

Name:

Sam Augello

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Stephanie, every day I look at your picture and wish you were still with us. God really must need you Angel...I know you will continue to watch over your family and keep them strong. Countless thoughts and prayers go out to you and them. We love you and miss you.

  

November 4th 201101:39:53 PM

Name:

SANDY COLLINS

Location:

PORTSMOUTH UK

Comments:

THINKING OF YOU BEAUTIFUL ANGEL STEPHANIE ON YOUR 6TH ANGEL DAY,I HAVE A CANDLE LIT IN YOUR MEMORY,THINKING OF YOUR MUM AND FAMILY WITH LOTS OF LOVE SANDY XXXXXX

  

November 4th 201101:23:54 PM

Name:

Mother J

Location:

Greece

Comments:

little miss stephanie - thinking of you and your family on this day. how we all miss you! i will always remember the fun times when you were here and can still see your beautiful smiling face. love and miss you

  

November 4th 201111:51:19 AM

Name:

Vicki Stocking

Location:

Greece

Comments:

You and I never met but I know that are greatly loved by your family. Keep shining your light and love down on them and know what a special place you have in all of their hearts. You will never be forgotten!

  

November 4th 201111:17:12 AM

Name:

BARBARA LANIERI

Location:

NEW PORT RICHEY FLORIDA

Comments:

BEAUTIFUL ANGEL IN MY HEART XOX FOREVER BEAUTIFUL  KEEP SMILING STEPHANIE ... WE WILL ALL BE TOGETHER ONE SWEET DAY 

  

November 4th 201110:30:02 AM

Name:

Laura

Location:

Bethany Beach, DE

Comments:

"Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed and very dear."
Author: Unknown
 

Dear Stephanie,
I know you will always be missed and remembered... Such a beautiful loving girl who was loved dearly by so many. I know you are in Heaven dancing in streets paved in gold...
 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRlYbgagnN8

  

November 4th 201110:19:11 AM

Name:

Franco

Location:

Spinoso, Italy

Comments:

Who goes away leaves us memories which precious inheritance. The memory of Stephanie and the certainty that now lives in pure spirit must erase the sadness. By Thorny. We are beside you with a big hugs,
Franco and Pina. ♥

  

November 4th 201110:09:52 AM

Name:

Carol Betz

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Thinking of you today Stephanie on your Angel anniversary. Stopped and said a prayer for you yesterday as well as the rest of my family. We were there for the funeral of my Aunt. Watch over you family today like I am sure you always do. With Love, Carol Betzhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 201110:03:26 AM

Name:

Christina Whale-ocds

Location:

Daytona Beach, FL

Comments:

How can I say Happy Birthday, when your family is missing you so much... They Love You & Wish you were with them right this very second... Just another Hug, another Smile, another Phone Call, another Shopping Trip, another Kiss... Share your Amazing Smile with everyone you know... Blessings for a Beautiful Day filled with Sunshine & Butterflies.
May you feel a gentle breeze, As Stephanie whispers in your ear... I know you miss me, but I'll be watching over you now... Go look up at the stars, I'm the one, Glowing right above your head...

  

November 4th 201109:44:26 AM

Name:

Marusca Gatto

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Stephanie - thinking of you today as I do so often. Shine down brightly on your beautiful family.
 

You are missed -- with love,

  

November 4th 201108:57:39 AM

Name:

Mary Perez

Location:

Phoenix, Az.

Comments:

Beautiful Stephanie. I know you fly with the angels. Please help your mom on this day, as it is one of the hardest days ever. Please let her feel your presence. She loves and misses you so much.

  

November 4th 201108:55:06 AM

Name:

Anthony La Tona

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Everyone loves and misses you Stephanie. Not much I can say that I don't already say when I look at your picture on my dresser. All smiles like usual. Miss that

  

November 4th 201108:46:55 AM

Name:

Judy Davis

Location:

Pinellas Park, Florida

Comments:

God bless you and your family sweet angel Stephanie on this very sad anniversary. I followed a link from facebook and I am so glad I visited you. You are such a beautiful girl and you were taken way to young. My prayers are with your family as I light a candle for you today. My son Sean is there with you. Can you please tell him hello, I love him and to come for Thanksgiving as we have missed him being here for the fifth year now. It hurts us mommies so much to be without you kids. Big hug and kiss for you today Stephanie. XO!!! Another set of them for your family. XOXOXOXOXO

  

November 4th 201108:14:28 AM

Name:

karen nation

Location:

tampa fl

Comments:

another beautiful angel taken way to soon! Thinking of u and your family today((((hugs)))

  

November 4th 201107:09:04 AM

Name:

Carolyn Schrader

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family , I am sure you are watching over them.

  

November 4th 201106:21:57 AM

Name:

Meghan Riley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

My Sweet Stephanie,
 

I know today marks another year from the day you were last alive on earth; but I do not like to be sad on this day. Today I will be celebrating your life that we each and every one of us got to share. You touched many hearts in your 18 years and made a lasting impression on us all.
 

I went to a psychic not too long ago, and she picked up on your spirit with ease. She said " I see these bright neon lights.. like a big sign with a name... in really bright vibrant colors.. it needs to stand out" as she was doing this she was making an S in the air. I said "yep... that would be her!" You told the medium to tell me to let your family know that you went peacefully, that you are watching over them and it breaks your heart to see us cry. You are happy in heaven, and you know that it was an accident. You want your parents to let go over the anguish and relish in the moments you did get to have.
 

You were always so self-less and loving to those around you.
 

Today marks the eve of my wedding day. A year and a half ago, when Nick and I were looking at possible dates, we were going to be married in Dec. When we realized our reception hall was booked, we searched for another Saturday in the fall. When Saturday November 5th was an option, we both excitedly booked our wedding day.
 

Not once did I sit to think that time of the year usually brings me heart ache and overwhelming emptiness. It wasn't until a friend said to me "are you sure you are okay with going through your wedding day around the time of the year you lost Stephanie".... then it hit me.
 

I 100% honestly believe that you were the one who planned my wedding day. So much sadness has filled the month of November for the last 6 years. Losing you was enough, burrying you on my birthday was hard too, then last year I lost my uncle tragically on the 7th... You pushed all my worries away and filled them with joy. You want this time of the year to carry happy memories
 

November is the month of Thanksgiving. I will be thanking God for you. Tomorrow I become Mrs. Meghan Voellinger, and at our head table will be a place for you. A pink candle lit in your honor, with the last picture of you next to it. The DJ already had instructions to play our song Garth Brooks "friends in low places"
 

I miss you so much, every day, every moment. I wish you were here in body to be involved in this new chapter of my life, but thank you for guiding me from up above.
 

Love,
Chap

  

November 4th 201106:11:10 AM

Name:

Tammie Mom to Angel Christopher

Location:

Ohio

Comments:

Rest in Peace Sweet Angel. I pray for your Family every day.

  

November 4th 201105:10:49 AM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph,
So much has changed since you were taken from us, but I know that you are watching down on us. I cannot believe it has been 6 years since I have seen your beautiful face. Even though you are not here I still have all the memories of the time we did spend together and those will never disappear. Not a day goes by where I do not think of you, I know things would be so different if you were here. Meg is getting married and even though you are not going to be here on earth you will be here in spirit and be with us all day<3 I love you so much Steph I hope that you are at peace. You are in my heart always and never forgotten, Love you Steph xoxoxo

  

November 3rd 201111:14:15 PM

Name:

Donna Robert

Location:

Montreal, Quebec

Comments:

Stephanie is a very beautiful girl, who was taken way to early in life. As each year passes we miss our beloved ones so much...and it does hurt to know that you can't hug them, touch them, or talk to them. They live on in our hearts and in our thoughts 24/7...but not to have them with us is the most heart breaking feeling to wake up to each morning and try and lie down and sleep peacefully each night....I'm sure Stephanie has and will be with her loved ones, wrapping her Angel Wings around you all and watching over you. Stephanie is surrounded with many precious Angels that are now her friend, and she is safe until the time you are with her again...forever! Hugs to all on Stephanie's 6th Angle date. R.I.P. sweetie xo

  

November 3rd 201110:10:16 PM

Name:

BARBARA LANIERI

Location:

NEW PORT RICHEY FLORIDA

Comments:

I LOVE THE SONG MOM PICKED OUT FOR YOUR PAGE..DEDICATED TO YOU BEAUTIFUL ANGEL.. 6 YEARS YOU ARE GONE FROM THIS EARTH.. BUT YOUR SPIRIT LIVES ON ANGEL ... YOUR CANDLE IS LIT BABY GIRL XOX

  

November 3rd 201109:47:25 PM

Name:

Londa

Location:

Hemet, California

Comments:

Gone but never forgotten
 

From our thoughts to our memories,
from our days to our nights.
From the east to the west,
from my heart that I write,
 

From the sadness we shed when you went away,
but in our hearts and minds you will forever stay.
 

We speak in our dreams, but don't say a word.
Life means everything, even to a little bird.
 

Six long years since your family has last seen you,
six long years of pain and sorrow.
 

Tearful eyes glazed in sadness,
as a precious angel took you in gladness.
 

Someday we will be together again
in heaven up above.
But for now my sweet niece
I’ll send you all my love.
 

R.I.P. Stephanie,
 

Love and hugs,
Aunt Londa

  

November 3rd 201107:52:15 PM

Name:

Jilly

Location:

rochester,ny

Comments:

It is hard to believe it has been 6 years since you left us, and still saddens me just as much today. I can't ever seem to write on here without crying as i type. You are SO missed, especially by your family. Your parents are wonderful and live to keep your memory alive, I love seeing your mom's posts on facebook. and of course your brothers are awesome and they always remind me of you so much. You will forever be in my heart and memories. love you always steph. xoxo 

  

November 3rd 201107:17:07 PM

Name:

Missy

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Stephanie, Even though we had never met, I feel like I know alot about you through your parents. It is so very hard for them withthout you, but what keeps them going, is keeping your memory very much alive. You were and still are so very special to them. You are missed so very much.

  

November 3rd 201104:05:26 PM

Name:

Cheryl Roy

Location:

Swansea, Mass.

Comments:

Sending love and prayers to Cindy and her family on Stephanie's 6th Angelversary. I know this day and every day is so hard to go on without our children, may beautiful memories help you through this difficult day. Sending love and hugs to Stephanie and you will never be forgotten, Love Cheryl xoxo

  

November 3rd 201104:04:33 PM

Name:

Tony Dionisio

Location:

Rochester, NY (Town of Gates)

Comments:

Stephanie, as you know (looking down on us) I see both of your parents very often. Your mother is very outspoken and emotional and in no way can I put to words how much your mother misses you. Your father, keeps alot inside but, when you look in his eyes and face you can see how sad he is. I visit you everytime I visit Holy Sepulcher. I wish you could help your parents in this troubling time. Tony & Missy

  

November 3rd 201101:33:10 PM

Name:

Danielle Betz

Location:

Rochester NY

Comments:

Hi Steph, My family stopped and visited you today. Hope you saw all of us cause there were a lot of us! I think of you and your family a lot. Keep watching down on us. Sending hugs and prayers to your family and will have a candle lit tomorrow for you!

  

November 3rd 201111:32:28 AM

Name:

Mike Parker

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Hi Steph,
I was able to visit you today and said some extra prayers for you. As I'm sure you know we are always thinking of you and praying for you, but especially this weekend. I know my mom, Tori and Lexi all miss you very much too and you are in their thoughts as well.
 

Love ya and miss ya!!
Mike

  

November 3rd 201110:59:08 AM

Name:

SANDY COLLINS

Location:

portsmouth uk

Comments:

In Heavens Beautiful Gardens۰̮̑●̮̑� �Where Memories Fall Like Dew۰̮̑●̮̑۰ There Are Flowers Blooming Forever۰̮̑●̮̑� �Like Our Memories Of You ۰̮̑●̮̑۰ love always Stephanie to you mum and family xxxxx

  

November 2nd 201106:47:30 PM

Name:

Angel King

Location:

st augustine florida

Comments:

I just know my daughter Natasha Roseanna Boykin King (2/5/85 to 11/11/2009)  - is right amongst all of the Angels in heaven and as much as I hate I believe it is so much more beautiful and peaceful than where we are today - God Bless you for doing this for yor sister - I just know she is smiling and probably sending you butterflies and rainbow

  

November 2nd 201105:23:24 PM

Name:

Beth Grundke

Location:

Greece, Ny

Comments:

Cindy,
This memorial site for your angel is beautiful!! I hope you find peace one day.
God bless!

  

November 2nd 201111:36:37 AM

Name:

Jody

Location:

Ohio

Comments:

My thoughts and prayers always with you.Your Angel is gorgeous..My heart cries for your loss  She is with my son in heaven now~tears tears tears.......Knowing they are in the arms of Jesus is my comfort and we will see and hold them again, One day!! Blessings nLove nStay Strong!

  

November 2nd 201110:23:50 AM

Name:

Judy

Location:

Colfax NC

Comments:

Dearest Stephanie,
I know you are dancing with the Angels. Your family, friends and total strangers miss you more than you will ever know. I know your family is Grieving, i am too, because my dear Sandi passed away the same date as you.
I pray for your family for Happiness and Peace, and we all send you million of Hugs....

  

November 2nd 201110:08:20 AM

Name:

Terri

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers this week, I am about to go thru my first angel anniversary of my son on Nov 19th, so I do understand the pain this week,

  

November 2nd 201109:53:08 AM

Name:

Alice

Location:

AZ

Comments:

Every day is a sad day without our loved ones, however, anniversary dates are even harder. We remember happy times and cannot understand why WHY this had to happen. I send many hugs and prayers. With much love to all of you, Alice

http://jason-highet.memory-of.com

  

November 2nd 201108:57:26 AM

Name:

Tammy Brown - Larry's Mom

Location:

Miami Florida

Comments:

Spread your wings and fly high Stephanie... You will never be forgotten<3

  

November 2nd 201108:19:57 AM

Name:

Angela Penkin

Location:

Rochester NY

Comments:

I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine losing my sisters or brother, but here you all are at your young ages enduring just that. It is a tradgedy how many of us have lost our children! Peter was taken from us 8 years ago this past Oct. 30th. Hopefully they are all together in heaven watching over their brothers and sisters.

  

November 2nd 201107:32:13 AM

Name:

Mary Ray Davis

Location:

Vineland, New Jersey

Comments:

I can understand the loss you feel. I lost my son John W Davis lll on July 5, 2005 He had just turned 39 June 28th 2005 I was on vacation when I got the call and felt like I lost my life that day. Johnny was the love of my life I miss him everyday, A Mother should never loose her child first.
God Be With Your Family. God is the reason I have made myself move on

  

November 2nd 201106:13:04 AM

Name:

Angela Lefholz

Location:

Georgia

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie.....keep your angel wings wrapped around your family. Although I have never met you, I am f/b friends with your Mom and she loves you so very much. You are loved and missed by so many. Much love and peace to your family. When you see my son Georgie, give him big hugs from me!

  

November 1st 201103:56:45 PM

Name:

Philip Palermo

Location:

Rochester NY

Comments:

Although I never met Stephanie I know she is greatly missed by her family and friends. I know the pain of losing such a beautiful daughter.I know our two angels have met and are friends in heaven. We shall never forget

  

November 1st 201101:53:05 PM

Name:

Wilda

Location:

New York

Comments:

Sending my love to Stephanie Anne Oliva in Heaven on her 6 year Angelversary..May God Bless her and make it very special.. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 1st 201109:15:45 AM

Name:

Mary Bois

Location:

Bethlehem N.H.

Comments:

Dearest Stephanie
Your such a beautiful young Angel. God Blessed your Family For A few short years. I know God Gave you A Special Blessing as You are working with in your mom. She has Made this Beautif Memorial for you and She helps so many Angel Familys. She is Truely a gift. And You must be looking down on her and give her strenght threw this Journey....
Fly Beautiful Angle. You are so Loved and Missed by many.
With Love Angel Jeremy's mom(( mary))

  

November 1st 201109:07:41 AM

Name:

judy battista - danny's mom

Location:

warwick, new york

Comments:

Beautiful Angel Stephanie, send peace love and comfort to your beautiful mom and family. Pray that you and all our angels in heaven keep us in your embrace. Love, hugs, and peace to you always.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 1st 201109:01:54 AM

Name:

Candy paulk

Location:

Jacksonville,Florida

Comments:

Thinking of you Cindy.....may beautiful memories of sweet Angel Stephanie get you thru the days ahead.
Remember a mother and childs bond/ love never dies !

  

November 1st 201109:01:15 AM

Name:

sandy collins

Location:

portsmouth uk

Comments:

☆ ☆ If only we could turn back time, Life once again would be so fine. Time would pass, you'd still be here, To have, to hold, to love so dear. ☆ love always to you and mum xxxxx ☆

  

November 1st 201109:00:33 AM

Name:

Judy Lujan

Location:

USA/China

Comments:

Thinking of you today, Stephanie. Please know that you are loved and missed here on earth. Send your family lots of signs in the next few days and let them know that you're ok.

  

November 1st 201108:54:16 AM

Name:

Shelli - Mom to Angel Chance Wilcox

Location:

Houston, Texas

Comments:

As your angel anniversary approaches, may your family find peace in your memories and grace that your are with our lord in safe arms for eternity. Big hugs to your familyhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 1st 201108:52:40 AM

Name:

Stacey Pike

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Stephanie, you are missed dearly. I think of you so often! I can't believe how quickly the time has passed. Kepp watching down on us! xoxo

  

November 1st 201105:42:07 AM

Name:

Dawn

Aim Screen Name

mbipper

Location:

Rochester NY

Comments:

Stephanie you are still loved here everyday. Your family and friends you never met are all keeping your memory here with us. Because of you your mom has comforted many who have known great loss. Your legacy lives on in many ways. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

October 31st 201106:04:50 PM

Name:

Lucille Cutillo

Location:

New Jersey

Comments:

Beautiful angel watch over your loving family. Sending my thoughs & prayers to your Mom & family. You will always be part of those that love you. Love, Lucille, (Joeymom)

  

October 31st 201111:53:04 AM

Name:

caryn pesce

Location:

new york

Comments:

dearest stephanie,
you are a beautiful young woman. now a beautiful angel in heaven where u joined my daughter laura another beautiful angel . i know u are missed terribly here on earth but one day ur mom and other family will be reunited with u again and that feeling will be total bliss. happy birthday nov. 4th u will be celebrating with God how wonderful that must be. keep smiling , be happy. keep lookiing down at mom from heaven and guiding her as i know u are.

  

October 31st 201109:03:36 AM

Name:

Sheila Edwards ( rodriquez0

Location:

Ma.

Comments:

Always in our Hearts sweet Stephanie,much Love to your family And Bless your moms Broken heart!  xoxo to heaven

  

October 31st 201108:26:55 AM

Name:

shelly zapolski

Location:

utah

Comments:

Stephanie,You are a child of God. Just amazing that You have walked with Jesus holding his hand. Looking upon your Family with many Blessing.

  

October 31st 201107:25:12 AM

Name:

Aldea Simon

Location:

New York

Comments:

Dearest Stephanie, Although we cannot physically see you, we all know you are close by. Through the love of your Mom we have come to know you, love you and experience the joy that was your life. Sending blessings to you, please pass just one to my son Dana.

  

October 31st 201107:19:20 AM

Name:

Bobby Outlaw

Location:

TEXAS

Comments:

Jesus wrap your comforting arms around this family,and help them through this day.Stephanie, send heavenly kisses to your family that loves and misses you much.

  

October 31st 201106:23:44 AM

Name:

LEANNA HERSEY

Location:

Maine

Comments:

Sending much love your way Stephanie~and to those that dearly love ~Chads mom~Leanna

  

October 31st 201105:00:36 AM

Name:

Derinda Gallimore

Location:

Statesville North Carolina

Comments:

Thinking of you Stephanie and sending you lots of heavenly ((((Hug's ))))

  

October 27th 201109:48:00 AM

Name:

Jilly

Comments:

Thinking of you presh  xoxo

  

October 21st 201103:20:45 PM

Name:

Cathy Giraud

Location:

Michigan, USA

Comments:

Cindy, just now seeing your beautiful site for Stephanie...what a wonderful tribute to your Stephanie's precious memory~She will always be remembered, and never, ever forgotten...(((Hugs))) and much LOVE..
Cathy

  

October 20th 201112:46:15 PM

Name:

Gail Gardner

Aim Screen Name

carolggard

Location:

Russell kansas

Comments:

Stephanie, I know you are an angel and ther with my angel Jessica. I hope you can feel this love as I send this message to you, I know your mom aches for you as I do my daughters. There is something special about little girls and their mothers, I believe its magical..... Thinking of you today.....

  

October 20th 201111:01:53 AM

Name:

BARBARA LANIERI

Location:

New Port Richey Florida

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie.. I dont know how you manage to make a computer screen glow.. but you do... your eyes are so beautiful and so blue.. and your smile is gorgious.. We truly lost an Angel when God chose to Take you Home. I pray for your mom and family..that peace will reside along side of your Memorys... love you xox

  

October 19th 201101:26:54 PM

Name:

Kelly Preuss

Aim Screen Name

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Location:

California

Comments:

I send lots of love and prayers, I know your pain I also lost my daughter Kayla Marie on May 24, 2008 car accident she was almost 17. The pain is so much. We will see our girls again in Heaven and that day will be so beautiful. I know our girls are with each other and happy. This world has so much pain and suffering. I know the Lord is taking care of our babies. xoxo

  

October 18th 201102:10:58 PM

Name:

Janet M. Fowle

Location:

Battle Creek, MI

Comments:

My dearest sweet Stephanie, How beautiful you are. Your love shines down on earth giving comfort to your mom and oh how us moms need comfort. Please send a gentle breeze through your moms hair and leave your scent for her. This is a very herd time of the year for your mom as she is missing you so badly. My children, Jill, Robert and Keith are also living in heaven with you maybe you know them. If so, give them a kiss and a hug for me. Much Love Janet Fowle

  

October 17th 201110:56:26 PM

Name:

Aldea

Location:

New York

Comments:

Blessings child...

  

October 17th 201108:31:16 PM

Name:

Christina Whale-ocds

Location:

Daytona Beach, FL

Comments:

Dear Stephanie, I didn't know you while you were here on this Earth, but I've gotten to know you through your Mom on FaceBook... See, my youngest son died in a Car accident on April 26th, 2010, he was 18 years, 7 months, & 24 days old... I miss him Terribly & so I know & understand the pain of losing a child... Please visit with your family & let them know you're with them spiritually...

  

October 17th 201108:12:44 PM

Name:

Kim

Location:

Illinois

Comments:

Cindy..I am here to post about your daughter whom I never knew..I feel I know her because of you...you have helped me more than you know! Your strength is awesome...I send hugs and I hope one day I can be as strong as you. This Feb. 23 will be 3 years for my daughter Sara. The website and tribute are beautiful! Peace.....kim

  

October 17th 201108:09:03 PM

Name:

Cindi McChristian

Location:

California

Comments:

Beautiful Stephanie....may you rest in peace and bring peace and comfort to your family. Gone way too soon. You are with the angels now, and are an angel for your mom who loves you so much. You will never be forgotten....not ever. 

  

October 17th 201102:53:02 PM

Name:

Wilda

Location:

New York

Comments:

To a beautiful young lady name Stephanie Anne Oliva so young in Heaven next to God..How I wish you was still around and I would of met you..Jason my son would of love to be your friend here at earth..With your smile and your beauty you can make heaven more beautiful..Be Jason friend in Heaven..Your mom loves you so much everyday she misses you alot..http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/wave.gif

  

October 17th 201102:40:03 PM

Name:

sandy collins

Location:

portsmouth uk

Comments:

☆ The Day You Went To Heaven Angel ~ Many Hearts Were Broke In Two ~ Those Broken Hearts Will Always Know, The Pain Of Loosing You ~ Loved And Missed For Eternity ~ xxxx ☆

  

October 17th 201110:54:40 AM

Name:

Amelia Cates

Location:

North Carolina

Comments:

beautiful Stephanie...you will never be forgotten! sending much love to you and your family. i will be here for your mom as she faces the difficult days ahead, just as she is for me. you and Chris and all the angels have "conspired" to bring us all together and I thank you for that.

  

October 17th 201110:46:56 AM

Name:

Bagley Shell

Location:

florida

Comments:

I just wanted to say Hi to Stephanie and her family. I also lost my beautiful daughter and I feel for everyone who has lost a child. GOD Bless YOU STEPHANIE!! So beautiful, so young, You are missed everyday and I know you are watching over your family!! Sending Love your Way.

  

October 17th 201110:34:53 AM

Name:

Trudy Hess

Location:

England originally

Comments:

Just wanted to stop by and say Stephanie is beautiful and that I just know my son Adam has found her in heaven 

  

October 17th 201109:04:25 AM

Name:

John O'Brien

Location:

Southern California

Comments:

Shine your love and hope for your family and all of us in this world.

  

October 17th 201108:54:40 AM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie it's been so nice getting to know you through your Mom. How loved you were...are...and will always be.♥

  

October 17th 201105:10:35 AM

Name:

Judy

Location:

Colfax N.C.

Comments:

Sending Hugs to a Beautiful Angel of God..

  

October 16th 201103:09:14 PM

Name:

Roger Cook

Location:

South Ga.

Comments:

I did not know you Stephanie nor do I know your mom only on facebook. You were a pretty young lady. I know everyone misses you so much. You see I lost my Stephanie in April of 1993. She had just turned 19 and completed her first quarter in college. She was our only child. So when you see her in heaven tell her hello for me. You will know her...Stephanie Jill Cook and has has long dark brown hair. Bye for now Stephanie !!!

  

October 16th 201102:33:43 PM

Name:

Maria Malfa-Goossen

Location:

rochester new york

Comments:

Steps, I will always remember that bright big smile of yours I've watched u grow up from when u were very young I miss that warm smile of yours and u arguing with Jeanine at sears. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers god bless u angel.

  

October 14th 201103:04:39 PM

Name:

Katrina mum to angel Natasha Whitmore

Location:

NJ and Australia

Comments:

Thinking of you beautiful angel so loved ,missed ,cherished and in the hearts and memories of so many. Love and hugs to all your family sweetheart

  

October 14th 201111:18:16 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

New Port Richey Florida

Comments:

Dearest Princess.. you are so beautiful inside and out. I have grown to know and love you through your family.. A beautiful site this is.. you must have been an amazing sister.. sending love to you and to your family ..a candle shines bright Angel xox

  

October 13th 201105:15:44 AM

Name:

Donna Cole Johnson

Location:

Mount Juliet, Tennessee

Comments:

For Stephanie and her family, my heart and prayers are always with you. Although your life was taken too soon, you are now an Angel in Heaven who can watch over your family that I know so dearly misses you. Cindy, I too feel the pain of your loss, it is one that has changed our lives forever, the love that I know that you have for Stephanie will be everlasting, and she will never be forgotten. God Bless

  

October 12th 201105:08:17 PM

Name:

Kathy Fearon

Location:

Clayton, DE

Comments:

Just wanting to let you know that I will be sending big hugs & prayers to Stephanie's family & lighting a candle for her on her angelversary. Bless you all. Ian's Mom.

  

October 12th 201102:25:07 PM

Name:

Jamie Good

Location:

Tinley Park Illinois

Comments:

Stephanie you are a beautiful young lady who has left us way to soon. I didn't know you personally dear one,but your smile is full of kindness. I hope you will wrap your heavenly arms around your family who miss you and love you so much. Fly with the rest of the angels Stephanie!!

  

October 12th 201112:58:34 AM

Name:

Sheila

Location:

Troy, IL

Comments:

Bless you for setting this website up. I have recently lost my son in an accident. I still don't know what to expect or how to put one foot in front of the other.

  

October 11th 201110:22:18 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Greece, N. Y.

Comments:

I ONLY HAVE A PICTURE AND MEMORIES
by Cindy Oliva on Tuesday, June 7, 2011 at 1:45am
I only have a picture now,
A frozen piece of time,
To remind me of how it was,
with all the special times,
When you were here,
You were mine.
 

I see your smiling eyes,
Each morning when I wake,
I talk to you, and place a kiss,
On your picture,
Daddy also leaves a special
kiss on your picture each night
Upon your your beautiful face.
This life will never feel right.
 

How much I miss you being here,
This new life is so hard.
Words can never express the missing,
The ache is so deep inside my heart,
And it will never go away.
We will always live with the missing,
Day after day.
 

I heard it mentioned often,
That time will heal the pain,
But if I'm being honest,
It will always remain.
We just have to learn to cope
with the most hardest pain.
 

I need to feel you constantly,
To get me through the day,
I love and miss you so very much,
Why did you go away?
Why couldn't we live in your
favorite carasol of progress?
"It's A Brand New Day"
 

The angels came and took you away,
That really wasn't fair,
They took my one and only daughter,
My future, my life.
This just wasn't fair.
Only if you could have been saved?
 

If only they had asked me,
If I would take your place,
I would have done so willingly,
Leaving you this this gift of life.
So you could of had the chance to
have precious memories and legacies.
 

If we both were to stay.
We could have had so many years,
To watch your life unfold, as you grow.
And in the mist of this,
Watch me, your mom grow old!
Live the life like we were supposed to.
 

When I see the sun shine,
I can feel your love shine.
When I see the stars at night
I wish I can hold you tight to
say good night.
 

I hope your watching from above,
At the daily tasks I do,
All the things I do to make you shine.
keeping your memory alive.
And let there be no doubt at all,
You will always for ever be mine.
I love you and I send all
my hugs and kisses to you
every second of my time.
 

You are embedded in my heart and soul
I love you my daughter, my best friend,
My Angel, My everything,
How rich I was, I am the only one
that will ever know.
 

~ALWAYS AND FOREVER~http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

October 11th 201111:57:32 AM

Name:

rebecca billits

Location:

alabama

Comments:

Stephanie is such a beautiful young lady. I will be honored to remember your precious angel.

  

October 11th 201110:44:41 AM

Name:

Cindy Ranyak

Location:

Merritt Island

Comments:

The stars will light the sky for you Stephanie,
Always and Forever.
God Be Praised, Always.
Faith, Hope & Love~
Cindy Ranyak;
Emily's Mom

  

October 11th 201110:18:59 AM

Name:

Cathy Giraud

Aim Screen Name

Cathy

Location:

Michigan

Comments:

Remembering sweet Stephanie today and every day. Keeping Family and Friends in my thoughts and prayers~
Stephanie, forever loved, and always missed!!!

  

October 11th 201110:15:57 AM

Name:

LEANNA HERSEY

Aim Screen Name

~~~~~~~~~

Location:

maine

Comments:

SENDING LOVE AND ANGEL KISSES TO YOU BEAUTIFUL STEPHANIE.~CHADS MOM~LEANNA

  

October 5th 201108:49:21 PM

Name:

Moochie

Aim Screen Name

cindyo55

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

To my dear sweet daughter, STEPHANIE ANNE♥
We will never part,
You will always live in my soul and heart,
Light shining bright
Missing your beautiful sight
The vision of your face
Will never evade, never replace
Longing to feel you
One day closer to be with you
Thinking of your touch
A feeling I crave so much
Those beautiful eyes of blue
How I miss you
All these things I say
Are true, will never go away
Two souls combined equals one heart
From you I shall never part
You will always live in my heart♥
Sending Love and hugs to you my SWEET BEAR♥http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

September 25th 201102:28:38 PM

Name:

rebecca billits

Location:

bham,al.

Comments:

Your angel Stephanie is a very beautiful, precious young lady. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

  

September 25th 201112:42:58 PM

Name:

sandy collins

Aim Screen Name

sandy

Location:

portsmouth uk

Comments:

●.♥.●.*``` ````*●.♥.●*```````*●.♥ .●Always in the hearts of those who love you ●.♥.●.*``` ````*●.♥.●

  

September 25th 201112:11:55 PM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Loved you the minute I heard you were coming. I loved you more the minute you were born. Then I saw your face and fell in love some more. You were only a minute old, But I knew I would die for you and to this day I still would. When you choose to have a child you make a conscious decision to allow your heart to walk around outside of your body.To guide you,to LOVE you, take care of you, teach you and nurture you of all the leanings of life. You were my gift. A very, very special gift for any parent who has a child.There is no LOVE like loving your child. They are a pieace of you. But now you are gone. I work to keep your memory alive and you will always live through me. Isn't this what a mother would do if she lost her child? I would never want a mother to lose their child. This journey is the hardest journey that any one will ever live in this life time. A journey where your life was turned up side down and as you go on you go through so many stages till you get to the part of coping and change the winds of my sail in my life to go to different directions to beable to carry on.This is a path you would never want to be on. It never can be fixed. My children are for ever. Stephanie, I vow to keep you alive through me. You lived and your spirit will live. If others do not want to talk about you or feel it brings them down when it makes me proud to talk about you. Then they don't belong in my life. I need to be accepted for who I am now or I don't need them in my life. I live with enough pain to have others make me feel they don't want to know. It will add more hurt to me with out talking about you and all the good things I cherish. "ALWAYS AND FOREVER 24/7 EMBEDDED IN MY HEART, SOUL AND MIND"
"ALWAYS AND FOREVER EMBEDDED IN MY HEART, SOUL AND MIND". Isn't this what a mother would do?

  

July 29th 201110:26:00 PM

Name:

Cindy Oliva

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Missing having my girl.
So lonely without you and sharing all the girl stuff even our little fights.
My DREAM was having a little girl since I was a little girl.
I had you but only for a short time.
All I believe is that God received you but he did not take you.
Father Rob even said if God took you then he must be a cruel God and God is not cruel.
God received you in his loving arms and you had no pain.
It's free will by the people who do what they do and can cause death. "FREE WILL" So sad http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif
 

"DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL...
LOVE LEAVES A MEMORY NO ONE CAN STEAL"
 

"ALWAYS AND FOREVER EMBEDDED IN MY HEART, SOUL AND MIND"
MUAH XX OO
Love You and missing you,
Till we are together again...
Moochie XX OOhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

May 29th 201103:05:01 PM

Name:

Roger

Location:

Donalsonville, Ga.

Comments:

Hi Stephanie,
 

Just poped in to say hello. I met your mom on facebook and got to know about you. I guess by now you have met my Jill. She arrived on April 2, 1994. So she has been there awhile. You was a pretty young lady and everyone misses you. Say hello to Jill. You will like her with her out going personality. Got to go now sweetie. The tears are making it hard for me to see. Bye !

  

May 14th 201109:15:47 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Long Island NY

Comments:

STEPHANIE..WHAT A BEAUTIFUL SITE THIS IS.. I AM SO BLESSED TO BE ABLE TO COME HERE AND VISIT YOU...SO MUCH LOVE HERE.. HUGS TO MOM AND DAD AND YOUR BROTHER.. LOVE YOU ANGEL ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS XOX

  

April 27th 201107:37:10 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

2000 days without my Geel! I couldn't have ever imagined my life with even one day without you in it. Now it has reached 2000. It's strange because it us seems like a huge number but in regards to the loss of my baby girl it still feels like yesterday. I miss my Geel sooooo much. I miss your sense of humor, your smile, your clothes and make-up, the way you sat so close to the steering wheel. I miss everything.
Love you forever,
Daddy

  

April 16th 201101:03:20 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Stephanie! Happy belated birthday! Your birthday never gets easier. I miss you so much. Love you!!!

  

April 10th 201104:49:40 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I just wanted to wish you a happy belated Birthday beautiful angel and I lit a candle especially for you yesterday. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you all! http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 9th 201110:43:37 PM

Name:

Tommy Patrick

Location:

California

Comments:

"On Your Daughter (((((((((Stephanie's))))))))) Birthday"
 

It's the birthday of your daughter (((((((((Stephanie)))))))))
yet you cry such bitter tears.
Your daughter ((((((((Stephanie)))))))))was taken from you;
to you it feels like years.
 

She was a loving child;
you never thought would be,
that she would die before you
and leave your heart to grieve.
 

I wish that I could take away
the sorrow and the pain,
but I can only tell you now
you will see her again.
 

She's standing right beside you
She's whispering in your ear,
close your eyes and listen,
and I know you will hear;
 

The warbling of a songbird,
the wind up in the trees,
the barking of a puppy
the singing of the bees.
 

It's heaven's way of saying
please do not despair,
your daughter (((((((((Stephanie))))))))) is waiting for you
she's holding all your tears.
 

And though it seems forever
she's just a breath away,
a heartbeat in eternity,
you'll walk with her someday.
 

C- 2005 Forrest Phelps Cook
Reflections From The Heart

  

April 9th 201104:19:06 PM

Name:

Karen Zieres

Location:

Greece, live next door to Meghan

Comments:

The girls used to come over and visit me and I loved hearing their stories and sharing their youthful moments. She was a very sweet girl with a beautiful smile!

  

April 9th 201101:26:47 PM

Name:

Lisa Vance

Location:

MS

Comments:

Wishing you a Happy 24th Birthday in Heaven beautiful Stephanie! I am lighting a candle in your memory and sending prayers up for your family!
With Love,
Lisa (Tiffany's Mom)
www.tiffanyvance.com

My Guestbook

  

April 9th 201112:28:37 PM

Name:

Ashley Newman

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hey Stephy,
Happy 24th birthday  I know that you are celebrating in heaven and just know that even though I am not there to celebrate with you I am always thinking of you. At every birthday I can't help but think of all the memories we could have had together.. especially now with meg getting married. I wish that you were here planning and celebrating with us but I know you are looking down on us. I hope that you know that not a day goes by where I don't think of you, I miss you so much. Like Meg said we will be eating chips and dip later and do a toast to you like we do on every birthday, we will make sure not to dip the chip in but glide it across the top!!
 

Love you always Steph and miss you tons.
Rest in Peace my beautiful angel, we will see each other again sometime <3
 

Love,
Ashley

  

April 9th 201109:13:17 AM

Name:

meg riley

Comments:

Hey Stephalicious,
 

I was cleaning my room out last night to move stuff to my own house. I found our notebook we kept every detail about our vacations to florida and myrtle beach in! I couldn't help but cry and laugh at the same time. Some of my tears were because I was laughing too hard! I could clearly hear your voice saying some of the quotes we wrote down. We had the most fun on those vacations together. I love seeing your writing in those books. It makes me feel like you are still here...
 

Today is your 24th birthday you old fart! I lit a candle for you, it is coconut.. I know I know.. i didn't have a 'Vanil' scented one close by so deal with it!
 

Later today Ashley is coming over to help me plan Ash Js bridal shower... we will be eating chips and dip and toasting to your birthday celebration.
 

I love you, always will. I miss you, always will.
Happy Birthday bestie<3
Love, Chap.

  

April 9th 201109:03:07 AM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

Long Island NY

Comments:

Happy Glorious Birthday Sweet Angel  Your candle is lit Especially for you today and Always .. 

  

April 8th 201108:31:45 PM

Name:

Cindy Schoeneman

Location:

Greece

Comments:

we love you guys and wish we could take away your pain, there are no words , I know, but know all of you are always in our prayers... Happy Birthday Stephanie...God bless all of you....I don't have the plant anymore but I still have the butterfly...

  

April 8th 201102:14:51 PM

Name:

Tricia Speight ( Murray )

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My heart goes out to the Oliva's family through this difficult time. Stephanie was an amazing, beautiful person inside and out. She will always be one of a kind in my heart. Stephanie and I were on the same cheerleading team. I was younger but Stephanie always made me feel welcome and made me feel that I fit in. I just remember laughing at practice until we barely could breathe. And it would start out that nothing was funny we just laugh just because or because steph would challenge me to a laughing contest. Sounds weird but for those who knew Steph and those who know myself its very normal  I've never met anyone filled with as much positive energy as Steph had. Everytime I picture Steph, I picture that BIG GORGEOUS SMILE of hers as she would walk through the halls of Arcadia. Steph didn't have to say anything to get your attention. She lit up the room, and I will always, always remember that about her...I'll be lighting a candle tomorrow with my family & saying a special prayer for Stephanie and her family and friends...
 

Happy 24th Birthday Dollface!! ( as steph would say)
XoXoXo Rest.In. Peace Love You Steph!!!

  

April 7th 201109:44:19 PM

Name:

Rachel Harlos

Aim Screen Name

trinrae

Location:

Visalia Ca

Comments:

Im so sorry for your loss., Id admire your strength. God Bless you

  

April 6th 201110:35:02 PM

Name:

Bobbie Roy

Location:

Metairie, LA

Comments:

My prayers are with Stephanie and all of her family. She is such a lovely lady. I know she is truly missed. God be with Stephanie and family. Hugs to you all!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 5th 201104:58:41 PM

Name:

Brenda Davis

Location:

Houston Texas

Comments:

With loving memory of Stephanie and wishing her a very happy birthday. She and cousin Eddie will be celebrating together. Love you!

  

April 4th 201110:19:23 PM

Name:

MOOCH (MOM)

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

YES, STEPHANIE IS MY FAVORITE SUBJECT TO TALK ABOUT.
WHEN I LOST MY DAUGHTER STEPHANIE, SHE IS ALL I LOVE TO
TALK ABOUT. THAT IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE LOSE A CHILD.
I WILL ALWAYS WANT TO KEEP HER ALIVE IN MY HEART, SOUL AND MIND.
SO TALKING ABOUT HER DOES THAT FOR ME.
SHE WILL LIVE THROUGH ME, SHINE THROUGH ME AND I WILL KEEP HER
ALIVE THROUGH ME.
I JUST HOPE EVERY ONE UNDERSTANDS IN SOME WAY. I KNOW FOR
SOME, IT'S HARD TO UNDERSTAND.
THIS IS HOW A GRIEVING MOTHER CAN COPE AND GO ON WHEN HER CHILD
WAS TAKEN HOME TO HEAVEN BEFORE THEIR TIME.
I WOULD NEVER WANT MY ENEMY TO WALK THIS JOURNEY.
A CHILD IS A GIFT, YOUR FUTURE, YOUR JOY, YOUR LIFE AND A
PIEACE OF YOU.
WHEN YOU LOSE YOUR CHILD. PART OF YOU IS LOST ALSO.
SO MY DAUGHTER WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVORITE SUBJECT SO
I CAN KEEP HER WITH ME TILL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN.

  

March 30th 201106:20:00 AM

Name:

Debi and Angel Cassandra Baker

Location:

Honeoye, NY

Comments:

I wanted to stop and say hello. You are in heaven with my daughter and the two of you have a birthday that is just a day apart. I hope that the two of you will get together and send me and your mom lots of angel signs that day. You are missed so very much. I will forever hold you in my heart.

  

February 22nd 201111:45:20 AM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I always lose my words when I come to your page...I get caught up in memories and tears I get so overwhelmed... My heart still hurts.

  

February 14th 201110:29:00 AM

Name:

cindy,Mom

Location:

Rochester Greece, NY

Comments:

YOU ALWAYS SIGNED YOUR NAME WITH A HEART THIS IS VERY SPECIAL DAY. HAPPY VALENTINES TO MY SWEET STEPHANIE. DADDY, REALLY MISSES THIS DAY FOR YOU. I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU ENJOYED TO SEE WHAT HE WAS GOING TO SURPRISE YOU WITH. YOU WERE HIS LITTLE GIRL. I LOVED SHARING THIS SPECIAL DAY WITH YOU. WE WERE REALLY SPECIAL ON THIS DAY. ♥ ♥MISS YOU ALWAYS AND FOR EVER
WITH SO MUCH LOVE AND SO MUCH MISSING,
MOM

  

February 14th 201109:23:38 AM

Name:

elida lopez sister

Location:

beasley texas

Comments:

This is so beautiful she is a beautiful angel just like my courtney love you

  

January 14th 201112:02:41 PM

Name:

Robert Walters Sr.

Location:

Brooksville,Fl.

Comments:

To Honor Stephanie and her memory is Beautiful, she will live on forever in your hearts.Unfortunately I never had the pleasure of meeting her.Readin through the web site she accomplished more in her life as short as it was then some people do in a lifetime.Now she is around you everywhere.God Bless.

  

January 11th 201104:40:08 AM

Name:

Melanie Bourgoin

Location:

UT

Comments:

thinking of you Stephanie, and your parents. Know you are loved here on earth!

  

January 9th 201110:43:43 AM

Name:

kristina nolan

Location:

bessemer, Al

Comments:

Stephanie, you are the most beautiful girl...I know your mommy misses you so very much and I know you are so proud of her also. She has a heart of gold!!! I know you and Sara are throwing all night partys and dancing away....keeping all the angels awake!!!

  

January 6th 201110:18:46 PM

Name:

Sara

Location:

Canoga Park, CA

Comments:

Such a beautiful girl, such a beautiful angel 

  

January 6th 201105:02:57 PM

Name:

Claudia Ewers

Location:

King City, Oregon

Comments:

In loving memory of a beautiful young woman and eternal angel......Sending
loving thoughts to her family her, knowing they love Stephanie
forever and she's always with them in their heart.
Claudia Ewers (Mike Ewers' mom)

  

January 4th 201108:29:14 PM

Name:

MOM

Aim Screen Name

CindyO55

Location:

Greece, N.Y.

Comments:

Hello my sweet baby girl, I just want to tell you how much I miss you and another New Year with out you, 2011, I just can't believe it's been five years. Still feels like you left me last night. I still wonder what you were thinking or feeling when you left, I was not with you. You were alone, I am your mom and I was not with you.  I can not look upon your face. But in my heart you will always have a place. But deep with in me, your seed still grows. It left my body but not my soul.Though I know you are in a better place. It's still day to day for me with Gods grace. But life has a way of catching up with time. I will be with you again, my sweet baby of mine. always and forever.
Moochie, xxoo

  

December 20th 201009:05:47 AM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I Miss You.

  

December 17th 201010:15:54 PM

Name:

CINDY,(MOOCHIE

Location:

GREECE

Comments:

MISSING YOU ON THIS COMING HOLIDAY. IT WILL NEVER FEEL THE SAME WITH OUT YOU HERE. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. MY HEART IS STILL SO BROKEN WITH OUT MY BABY, MY DAUGHTER AND BEST FRIEND. I PICK MY SELF UP EACH DAY TO GO ON AND BE STRONG FOR YOU AND YOUR DAD AND BROTHERS AND ESPECIALLY FOR ME. DAY TO DAY FOR 5 YRS. BUT I MUST HAVE THE STRENGTH. I AM STILL GOING AND I LOOK DEEP DOWN IN SIDE MY SELF TO KEEP MY STRENGTH. I KNOW IT WOULD BE IMPORTANT TO YOU. THAT IS WHY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND YOU ARE MY ANGEL. MUCH LOVE AND MISSING YOU TILL WE MEET AGAIN. BE THERE!!!!. XXOO LOVE ALWAYS MOMhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 20th 201003:26:16 PM

Name:

lorraine

Location:

greece ny

Comments:

rip stephanie

  

November 17th 201007:14:15 PM

Name:

barbara

Location:

Long Island New York

Comments:

Beautiful Stephanie., my candle is lit for you .. right next to my computer. i pray for your mom and family all the time. I know you are in Gods arms.. This is a difficult time for mom. stay close Angelxox

  

November 17th 201004:39:58 PM

Name:

Sam Augello

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

I can't believe it has been 5 years already. I think about you every day, Stephanie, and know that you watch over your loved ones. They need you most this time of year. Thank you for always being a sweetheart to me. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 17th 201003:52:46 PM

Name:

Renee Beisswanger

Location:

Sunbury, Pa

Comments:

Such a beautiful angel you are Stephanie- sending hugs and strength to your mom and all your family and friends as they make it through each day without you- give them your strength to make it one day at a time

  

November 17th 201003:25:23 PM

Name:

Irene Garman.. mom to Rick White

Location:

Pennsylvania

Comments:

Thinking of you and of those who love and miss you.. stay close to them.. hugs

  

November 17th 201002:49:18 PM

Name:

Joanne Bailey Tinkham

Location:

Wareham (Cape Cod) Massachusetts

Comments:

What a beautiful sweet angel you are Stephanie. I know you were so loved by so many people. All anyone has to do is look at your beautiful smile to know that. I hope that you and all our other sweet angels are all friends and looking down on us watching over us. Love and prayers to you and your family. Joanne Tinkham

  

November 17th 201002:42:55 PM

Name:

Maz Fraser

Aim Screen Name

Maz

Location:

Queensland Australia

Comments:

Remembering this beautiful young lady, looking after our Baby Angels up there in the clouds.xoxoxohttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif

  

November 17th 201012:19:52 PM

Name:

JUNE

Location:

LONDON

Comments:

SENDING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS XXX

  

November 17th 201011:13:39 AM

Name:

dd flynn

Location:

Woodstock, GA

Comments:

Stephanie....I don't know you personally, but I know your love through Cindy. You have touched many, including my heart. I too have an angel in heaven. She was 20. I lost her in 2005. I know that you are in heaven enjoying all of our Lord's promises. God Bless you and your family. PS: Send your family a hug from heaven! With love, dd

  

November 17th 201010:17:50 AM

Name:

Betty Childress"Tommy's Mom"

Location:

Eldorado,IL

Comments:

*Always Loved~Never Forgotten*

  

November 17th 201008:59:57 AM

Name:

Phillip Rouse

Location:

Sunbury, PA

Comments:

So sad. My son David died in a car accident also ... life will never be the same...life is just turned up side down...I am so sorry for your loss.. the heart is broken forever...

  

November 17th 201008:48:53 AM

Name:

Wanda Jacobs Rogers

Location:

Georgia

Comments:

Candle is lit in my home for Stephanie in Heaven:)

  

November 17th 201008:43:59 AM

Name:

Sheils Rodriquez Edwards

Location:

Hyannis,Ma.

Comments:

xoxoxo to heaven sweet angel Stephanie much love to your family and a candle is burning bright for you sweet angel. Bless your familys broken hearts 

  

November 17th 201008:37:59 AM

Name:

Deanna fernandez

Location:

phx az

Comments:

IM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER ,I PRAY GOD HOLDS EVER SO CLOSE EACH DAY AND JUST KNOW STEPHANIE SPIRIT IS WITH YOU ALWAYS .I LOSS BOTH MY SONS MY ONLY CHILDREN,MY JASON BDAY IS NOV 3 AND HIS ANGEL DATE NOV 28 ,2002 ON THANKSGIVING 18 YEARS OLD CAR ACCIDENT.DANIEL WAS MURDERED AT 17 YEARS OLD ON 4TH JULY 2007 . I PRAY GOD WILL HOLD YOUR HAND ON THIS ROAD WE HAVE WITH THE LOSS OF OUR CHILDREN . GOD BLESS ,HUGS AND PRAYERS

  

November 17th 201008:37:02 AM

Name:

Aldea

Location:

New York

Comments:

Praying for you and my son Dana Stephanie, May you rest in the hands of our Lord.

  

November 16th 201009:15:23 AM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

I GET SO SAD AT THIS TIME OF THE YEAR. I AM SAD ALL YEAR. BUT THIS PART OF THE YEAR IS AS HARD AS YOU NOT BEING HERE ON YOUR BIRTHDAY. STARTING END OF OCT. TILL THE END OF THIS YEAR INCLUDING THE FIRST DAY OF THE NEW YEAR IS SO DIFFICULT. YOU ARE SO MISSED AND THE EMPTINESS IS SO STRONG WITH OUT YOU. STILL SO HARD TO BELIEVE YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US. I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND JUST KNOWING WHAT I HAVE TO FACE AGAIN THIS HOLIDAY (HELLADAY) SEASON WITH OUT YOU. I MISS YOU SO MUCH MY SWEET STEPHANIE. MY HEART WILL NEVER HEAL AGAIN. HEARTS CAN BE BROKEN AND HEALED. BUT NOT WHEN YOU LOSE SOMETHING AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU. MY HEART WILL NEVER HEAL. I AM A MOM WITHOUT HER SPECIAL GIFT THAT WAS GIVEN TO HER AND THEN SOME ONE HAD TO TAKE YOU AWAY. MY HEART CRIES AS MY TEARS FILL UP IN MY EYES.I LOVE AND WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH "AGAIN" DURING THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.
 

YOUR ARE STILL SO PRECIOUS TO ME. LOVE YOU MORE THEN WORDS CAN EVER SAY. "YOUR MOOCHIE" ~ FOREVER~ YOU WILL LIVE IN MY HEART AND SOUL TILL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN. MY BEAUTIFUL STEPHANIE. . HOW I MISS YOUR LAUGH AND BEAUTIFUL SMILE. ~FOREVER~

  

November 9th 201007:32:36 AM

Name:

CINDY- MOM

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

FOR STEPHANIE'S, DADDY.
HOW HER DADDY HAS TO STAY STRONG
FOR HIS FAMILY AND KEEP US TOGETHER.
 

SHE KNOWS HOW SPECIAL SHE WAS TO HER DADDY.
SHE WAS HIS "PRINCES". SHE KNEW IT WELL!! :)
 

A Father's Grief
 

It must be very difficult
To be a man in grief,
Since "men don't cry"
and "men are strong"
No tears can bring relief.
It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test,
And field the calls and visitors
So she can get some rest.
They always ask if she's all right
And what she's going through.
But seldom take his hand and ask,
"My friend, but how are you?"
He hears her crying in the night
And thinks his heart will break.
He dries her tears and comforts her,
But "stays strong" for her sake.
It must be very difficult
To start each day anew.
And try to be so very brave-
He lost his child too.
~HIS PRINCESS~
~FOREVER~

  

November 5th 201002:14:36 PM

Name:

Melanie

Location:

Utah

Comments:

I am sorry that your beautiful girl was taken way to soon. What a beautiful Angel. 

  

November 4th 201010:02:09 PM

Name:

MOM

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

JUST COPY THE LINK WITH YOUR MOUSE JUST HOLD THE LEFT SIDE OF YOUR MOUSE DOWN OVER THE LINK TO COPY THE LINK. THEN CLICK ON YOU TUBE., BEAUTIFUL SONG.

  

November 4th 201009:54:03 PM

Name:

Mom

Location:

Greece. NY

Comments:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P7IbQyG9PL4&feature=player_embedded
BEAUTIFUL SONG..." I'll SEE YOU AGAIN"

  

November 4th 201008:06:09 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph, I can't believe that it has been five years. I wish that you were here I still miss you so much, all the things that you would have been doing and how many more memories we could have had together. I will always treasure the ones that we made and know that you are always in my thoughts & prayers  Awaiting the day that I can see your beautiful face again love you, RIP http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 201006:26:25 PM

Name:

Mackie

Comments:

Steph, i cant believe its been 5 years already. We all miss you so very much. You made a impact on my life in many ways. even tho u girls picked on me all the time.I wish u were here with us, to share more memorys with but u have moved on to a better place and i hope its treating you good. I love you very much sweetie. R.I.P stephy

  

November 4th 201004:21:53 PM

Name:

Karen Jenkins

Location:

Navesink, NJ

Comments:

May God bless and comfort you on this Angelversary of Angel Stephanie. My prayers and blessings to you and your family.

 

http://www.angelrob.com/cards/GeoffHeartMind.jpg

  

November 4th 201003:28:26 PM

Name:

Lisa WOERNER

Location:

westfield indiana

Comments:

May God Bless you today of all the wonderful memories that Stephanie left behind on this earth. She is blessing thousands of people from heaven.
Hugs and prayers. Stephanie send angel kisses from heaven.
Love, Lisa

  

November 4th 201003:19:43 PM

Name:

Dyan Bertolone (Menges)

Location:

Greece

Comments:

There is not a single day I do not think about Stephanie!! We were in each other's chorus class and John was in the same grade as me. I will never forget how no matter what, Stephanie would always have a smile on her face as she said "Hi" to me and my sisters either in chorus, the hall, or at Keely's house. She was one of the nicest girl's I ever met and when I found out the tragic news, I was completely devastated!!! I am still to this day so incredibly SADDENED for Stephanie, for her family, and for her friends. It is SOO unfair and I am so sorry!! **Oliva's, please know we are all thinking and praying for you not only on this tragic day, but EVERYDAY!! There will never be a day that passes that I do not think of all of you!! Great job with this webpage...you all did/do such an amazing job and I know Stephanie is smiling down from heaven!!

  

November 4th 201012:55:10 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

Stephanie - today is a sad day but there are a lot of happy memories of you in my heart. i heard that song, i can only imagine, driving today and it made me think of you in heaven, happy and young and beautiful as you always were. Cindy, Nick, John and Nicholas - may you find peace in all your wonderful memories of your angel Stephanie. all our love to you, Mal, Kelly and Mother J.

  

November 4th 201007:54:48 AM

Name:

Tricia (Murray) Speight

Location:

rochester

Comments:

Five Years today... the world lost a BEAUTIFUL,LOVING,GORGEOUS,FUNNY young lady!!! Not a day goes by....Miss You*Love you Stephhhyy, the world could sure use more people like you in it!!! Rest In Peace Doll ♥

  

November 4th 201006:17:08 AM

Name:

Caitlin Weston

Location:

Rochester, NY / Washington, DC

Comments:

Nick, John...I love you guys! I never got to know your sister that well but what happened was and still is a tragedy. Bad things shouldn't happen to such good people. But your strength through all of this has been impressive. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

  

November 4th 201005:17:13 AM

Name:

Carol Betz

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Stephanie, I cannot believe that it has been 5 years since God took you from your family. I always see flowers in remembrance of you when I drive down Ridge Road. You will always be missed, but will never be forgotten. Watch over your family always... Carol Betz http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 201004:57:09 AM

Name:

Jill Schlageter

Location:

greece

Comments:

I really cant believe it has been 5 years... a day none of us will ever forget. It is so sad for me to think what you would be doing now. I miss you dearly, and still think of you all the time!! You have a great family who love and miss you so much. And your brothers are the best and I am thankful I am able to still spend time with them even though you are gone. Nick makes me laugh several times a day just like you used to. You will never ever be forgotten and will always remain in my heart. Love you presh 

  

November 4th 201012:26:19 AM

Name:

Londa

Location:

California

Comments:

May God wrap his arms around each one of you with comfort on this day of Nov. 4, 2010. I know the pain does not and will not ever be easy for any of you, but I know God will keep his Angel right by your sides. Stephanie you will never be forgotten, may you RIP, We all love and miss you.

  

November 3rd 201010:48:22 PM

Name:

James M Viele

Location:

Rochester Ny

Comments:

I love yall and hope you find comfort in the days to come. God Bless Yall!

  

November 3rd 201007:35:28 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Sweet Stephanie no matter how much time goes by the loving and missing you never ends. Please stay close to your family as they need to feel you near. Sending gentle hugs to all of them and lifting them in prayer.
Love and hugs, Cindy~B.J., Wayne & Buck's Mama

  

November 3rd 201005:30:45 PM

Name:

Shannon Burke

Comments:

Every year around this time we are reminded that in one second all of our lives can change. I will never forget the beautiful little girl who I grew up next-door to. Stephanie was a breath of fresh air. Always smiling, laughing, and adding some spice to all of our lives. It is hard to drive down Ridge Road whenever I am in town and think of her every time. I think of Stephanie when I see a white Cobalt, when a pretty, petite blonde passes me on the street, and especially every time I miss my father because I know how much the entire Oliva family misses their loved one. Stephanie will never be forgotten and although she will have been gone from our sides for five years now, she will never be truly gone because she will live inside each and every one of us.

  

November 3rd 201005:08:19 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Stephanie! I miss you so much! I love you and am always thinking of you!

  

November 3rd 201010:00:44 AM

Name:

Paula

Location:

Hertfordshire

Comments:

Thinking of you all, I'm sure Sam is looking after you stephanie
. lots of love
Paula x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

  

November 2nd 201008:41:56 AM

Name:

CINDY-MOM

Location:

GREECE

Comments:

The years we've shared have been full of joy.The memories we've made will go on and on.
I haven't stopped crying since you went away,and I've asked God time and time why couldn't you stay?
You lit up my life, my hopes, and my dreams. You've opened my eyes to see what it all means of what I lost. So now that you're gone how can I forget?
You were the greatest daughter that any mother could ever ask for. You will never be forgotten. You were my BEST FRIEND and the SPECIAL BOND we had will for ever live in my HEART and MEMORIES
Looking at you and knowing you as my DAUGHTER was such a beautiful GIFT.
Never to be for gotten my special gift and how RICH I was.
 

ALWAYS REMEMBERED AND EMBEDDED I MY HEART AN SOUL,
LOVE AND MISS YOU 24/7http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

October 29th 201005:33:25 AM

Name:

Anneli

Location:

Southampton, England

Comments:

Dearest Stephanie, you are so very loved and missed. Your always in my thoughts and prayers. Love always to you and your family. xx♥xx

  

October 23rd 201008:47:38 PM

Name:

Barbara Lanieri

Location:

long Island NY

Comments:

Angel Stephanie.. you are so pretty. God must have had different plans for you because the world is not a better place without you here. I love your mom.. i didnt get to meet you here. but i will surely hug you and know you when i meet you in Heaven xox

  

October 22nd 201006:50:54 PM

Name:

Ashley

Comments:

Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you today!!! Miss you always love*

  

October 20th 201009:35:32 PM

Name:

Julie Giarratano

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Just wanted to let you know that baby Julie will be lighting a candle for you on November 4th and that you are always in my heart as is your mom , dad and brothers ... I know you are watching out for all your family and friends and I will do the same for you... As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us. As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us. ~Sascha

  

October 20th 201008:56:03 PM

Name:

Joyce Barger

Location:

Thomasville, NC

Comments:

Stephanie,
I ran across your candle lighting on Facebook. I will be lighting my candle for your anniversery date of November 4. I am sure you are greatly missed by your family. You were a beautiful girl that was taken way too soon. May god be with your family. I know you are a special angel in heaven now. I have a son who is an angel also so I can relate to the pain your parents went through when they lost you. But to your family I hope they understand you will always be in their hearts. You are gone but never forgotten. Much love to your family. xxx

  

October 18th 201009:08:38 PM

Name:

MELISSA N JAY NEAL

Location:

POTTS CAMP MS

Comments:

HEAVEN IS REALLY REJOICING AND HAS BEEN FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS NOW.....ON NOV.4,2005 STEPHANIES FAMILY N FRIENDS LOST PART OF THEIR WORLD AND HEAVEN GAINED ANOTHER ANGEL....MY HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO THEM IN THEIR TIME OF NEED.....MAY GOD WRAP HIS ARMS AROUND SHELTER AND WATCH OVER THEM N KEEP THEM SAFE....

  

October 15th 201008:39:26 PM

Name:

Lisa Woerner

Location:

Westfield, Indiana

Comments:

I am sorry for your the loss of your beautiful daughter.
Heaven is lucky to have her.
May the Lord of the earth comfort you today and always.

  

October 11th 201009:41:59 PM

Name:

Cindy Outlaw

Location:

Texas

Comments:

Stephanie is such a beautiful young lady. My heart goes out to her family and friends as I know you're suffering such a great loss. May the Lord comfort your hearts as only He can and may precious memories of Stephanie rest gentle in your hearts and bring their own measure of comfort. Sending gentle hugs to all who love and miss her.

  

October 9th 201006:56:31 AM

Name:

Mike Walker

Location:

Florida

Comments:

What a lovely young lady. What an impact.

  

October 6th 201008:52:48 PM

Name:

CHERYL ROY

Location:

MASS.

Comments:

STEPHANIE'S MEMORY PAGE IS REALLY BEAUTIFUL, AND ALL THE PAGES ARE VERY SPECIAL. LOVE TO THE FAMILY AND ALL THAT LOVED HER.

  

September 24th 201001:40:13 PM

Name:

CHERI BROOKS

Location:

FINDLAY OHIO

Comments:

JUST WANTED U TO KNOW I STOPPED BY AND IM SO SORRY I JUST LOST MY SON AUG.5TH 2010 TO MANSLAUGHTER ALL I CAN DO IS CRY WANTING MY SON PUNKY BACK ..HUGS FROM OHIO XXOO

  

September 17th 201010:50:31 AM

Name:

Debbie-Sarah Kasch

Aim Screen Name

Debbie- Sarah Kasch

Location:

Lake Wales, Florida

Comments:

Stephanie, Thinking of you today. Hugs, love and support being sent to your family. Love from Bobby's Mom, Debbiehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif

  

September 10th 201012:56:04 PM

Name:

Mom (Cindy)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

MY SWEET ANGEL REST YOUR WINGS, SIT WITH ME A WHILE..HOW I LONG TO HOLD YOUR HAND AND SEE YOUR TENDER SMILE. MY SWEET ANGEL LOOK AT ME. I WANT THIS IMAGE SO CLEAR. I WORRY I WILL FORGET YOUR PRECIOUS FACE, THAT IS MY BIGGEST FEAR. MY SWEET ANGLE CAN YOU TELL ME WHY YOU HAVE GONE AWAY? YOU WEREN'T HERE VERY LONG, WHY IS IT, YOU COULDN'T STAY? MY SWEET ANGEL SHOOK HER HEAD,"THESE THINGS I DO NOT KNOW." BUT I DO KNOW THAT YOU LOVE ME, AND I LOVE YOU" I ALSO KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MISS ME. I MISS YOU 24/7 "ALWAYS" ON MY MIND AND LIVING IN MY HEART AND SOUL" FOREVER"
MOOCHIE (MOM)http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

September 7th 201002:53:10 PM

Name:

lisa rankin

Location:

reno nevada

Comments:

stopping by to send much love and respect for you stephanie RIP beautiful girl...http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/9_cool.gif

  

August 25th 201012:41:48 PM

Name:

Rhonda Bachner

Location:

Plainsboro, NJ

Comments:

Stephanie ... You don't know me, but I met your mom on Facebook. I lost my son David on 8/11/09 ... he was 18 ... Your mom was kind enough to reach out to me ... I was taken by your beauty. You have such a beautiful smile, and I can tell how much you loved life ... just as my David did ... I know that heaven is a beautiful place with all of our beautiful angels. I know that you are all together looking down on us ... You are so missed by all Stephanie. RIP http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

August 17th 201011:12:55 AM

Name:

lindascarpa

Location:

staten island ny

Comments:

Stephanie you are so beautiful i pray for you and your mom. my broken heart is full of pain without our child. so young so much life ahead. Just know angel i will always love you and mom. you live in my heart and mind. Bless you angel and mom. who i love so much

  

August 17th 201006:57:39 AM

Name:

Paula

Location:

Hertfordshire

Comments:

I never knew stephanie but by talking to her mum on GTS website, i knew she was a warm,caring & loving young lady.Gone too soon god bless you & your family.
Lot's of love
Paula x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

  

August 11th 201011:09:11 PM

Name:

Daniel Murray

Location:

Lancaster, California

Comments:

I didn't know until today that I had more family than I thought, and at the same time less. I was told a story today about a little girl and her two brothers who wanted to make sure their cousin had Oreo cookies and M&M's even though it was the last of their money. My memory isn't that great, and I hate that... so much. I wish I could remember her and everyone else, I'm so sorry. Stephanie, thank you and your family so much for everything you've done for me. You didn't have to but you went out of your way to make someone else happy. It's saddening to know I can't remember and because of that I can't meet her now. I love you so much.

  

August 6th 201008:06:32 AM

Name:

Mom

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

‎"My sweet daughter was a visitor to life that changed my path. Let her presence be fresh in my personality let the image of her smile warm my heart and yours, let the light of her soul make my soul shine and your soul shine. Let her be an imprint on my life and your life not just a picture on the wall."This I do for you Stephanie and I will continue to. ~until~... ~STEPHANIE FOR EVER IN OUR HEARTS~~
MOM

  

August 3rd 201011:16:54 AM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

☆.•*`★In the Morning When I Wake ☆.•*`★Dreams of You Begin To Escape ☆.•*`★I Sit on the Bed and Think of You and Continue To ☆.•*`★ The Whole Day Through. ☆.•*`★
 

•*''❀ Of All the Things •*''❀I Forget To Do .•*''❀ I Never Forget .•*''❀ To Think of You.•*''❀
 

★.•*`☀`*•.☆ A Beautiful Light ★.•*`☀`*•.☆To Shine the Night Through ★.•*`☀`*•.☆ Is What This Candle ★.•*`☀`*•.☆Is Meant To Do.
 

◡◠❤◠◡ With All My Pain ◡◠❤◠◡And All My Wear ◡◠❤◠◡ It’s Life Without You ◡◠❤◠◡ That I Cannot Bare ◡◠❤◠◡
 

☆♪♫ Please Don’t Cry ☆♪♫ Because I’m Gone ☆♪♫Just Think of Me ☆♪♫ When You Hear My Song. ☆♪♫
 

◡◠ჱ❤ჱ◠◡ Sending You All My Love ◡◠ჱ❤ჱ◠◡ Wrapped in Kisses and Sealed With Love ◡◠ჱ❤ჱ◠◡
 

☆�.•*☪In the Morning When I Rise ☆�.•*☪I Wipe the Teardrops From My Eyes ☆�.•*☪Cause I Was With You, So It Seems ☆�.•*☪But It Was Only In My Dreams.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/5_sad.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/5_sad.gif

  

July 26th 201001:37:24 PM

Name:

Claire Burfield

Location:

Kent, England

Comments:

I didn't have the honour of knowing Stephanie but after reading this website I just had to leave a comment to say how much her story has touched me. She was a beautiful girl with an obviously beautiful soul and was taken from you far too soon. I have two older brothers myself and am very close to them, I can only imagine the pain that you are all going through. Please know that your family are in my thoughts tonight, rest in peace Stephanie xx

  

July 23rd 201005:39:59 PM

Name:

Michele (Annie's Mom)

Location:

Alden, NY

Comments:

Stephanie,
There is no more fitting tribute of love than when a family comes together and creates a thing of beauty, such as this page. It is telling in the letters and poems (brought me to tears) of the love they have for you. Sweet Angel I know you know this, but It makes us (the ones who had to stay) feel better if we can say it. Kiss my Annie for me and tell her I love her and miss her so. Peace to you all Oliva family.
 

Michele (Annie's Mom)

  

July 15th 201009:00:46 AM

Name:

lindascarpa

Location:

staten island ny

Comments:

Stephanie you are so beautiful. gone too soon like my son . 23 forever. murdered. bet you know Joey. Love your memorial and love you angel . Your mom is an angel mom friend. i love her . I pray for all of us .lindajoeysmom

  

June 17th 201003:23:00 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Beautiful girl!!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!! Hugs!! 

  

June 16th 201010:09:51 PM

Name:

Paul Smith

Location:

Austin

Comments:

Cindy,
We hardly know one another, except for a few messages that were initiated by the circumstance we share, but everything that I have read from you about and to your daughter really touches my heart in a way that most other people will never understand.
 

As you know from our correspondence on facebook, I lost my son who was my best friend in the world two years ago next month and I know precisely what you are going through. The best way I can describe this loss is that it takes your breath away and you never get it back. The one thing that keeps me going is believing with all my heart that when my life is over my son Brad will be there to greet me, just as I'm sure Stephanie will be there for you. I also believe that as hard as it may be to understand, these things happen to us for a reason. I believe part of that is to teach us to be better people and to help us understand that there is something magnificent and so much more significant beyond this life. For me, one of those lessons is learning to be patient. I try to imagine this as being away for an extended time and that one day I will return home and my son will be there waiting for me. In the interim, I have to remain patient and go on living and doing the best I can to help others, because that is the right thing to do and what my son would expect of me.
 

I'm so sorry for what you have had to endure Cindy. I know you have some good friends like Laura to give you comfort and support, but please know that you have a friend here as well if there is ever anything that I can do.
 

Your daughter really is an angel.
 

Your friend,
Paul

  

June 13th 201011:50:18 PM

Name:

cindy

Location:

Greece NY

Comments:

~Stephanie~
I miss you so much. I do any thing to get you back her. The piece of me will always be with you in Heaven. I have a long road to go and I have know map to get me there? I don't know how long it will take  "hugs and squeezes" to you my sweet daughter.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif [So sad] Feeling very lonely tonight on our anniversary with out you. You helped make our anniversary happy and so worth while to celebrate. Now the celebrate part is a bit of a sad part now with you gone.
Much hugs and squeezes with millions of kisses. xxxooo
Moochie,

  

June 13th 201010:55:24 PM

Name:

cindyo1955

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

My Sweet Daughter Stephanie,
Sunday night actually Monday morning at 1:40 am. Our wedding anniversary feeling sad still because of the emptiness with out you and not sharing this moment. Daddy and I got married to have a family and we did. But lost a piece of it and it hurts so much . I sit here alone and still say to my self, How can this be? It's still so hard to comprehend that you will never be back with us. It hurts so much knowing (you) my daughter will never be with me again on this earth and sharing your future with us. The tears still flow down my cheek.
Love you so my sweet Angel.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/sosad.gif ]

  

June 1st 201005:39:07 PM

Name:

Laura Harris

Location:

Bethany Beach, DE

Comments:

Stephanie you have become a part of my heart through your Mom... Oh how she loves you and misses you with her whole being...
I started an Angel garden and have you as a part of if. I love to imagine you, Katie and all the angels I have come to known together having the time of your lives... Send us angels kisses in the wind and we will feel the warmth of your love in the sunshine, the beauty you are in nature...
 

http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i109/lharris1026/InMemoryofStephanie.jpg

  

May 25th 201011:16:43 AM

Name:

Laura Harris ~Katie's~ Mom

Location:

Bethany Beach, DE

Comments:

A Hole in Our Hearts
 

There is a hole in our hearts
There is a hole in our lives.
A hole that opened when you were taken,
We go on with our lives.
But always with an emptiness, a feeling
that something is wrong and we feel scared
and something is really missing.
Something is wrong.
Others don't understand.
 

Have they lost a child?
They give advise, we don't want to hear.
It doesn't help us.
You see the hole will always be here.
 

You made us whole, Your life and ours entwined,
All our parts were whole.
We talk to you, we talk about you.
But it's not the same, it"s not what we wanted.
There is a hole in our hearts.
There is a hole in our lives.
We have memories, picture albums, and mementos.
All of these will never heal our hearts.
Our hearts skips a beat, the beat that we had,
when you were here.
That beat is now gone, gone with you,
gone to heaven.
Leaving us with this hole and empty feeling.
 

A cloud that lies over us and darkens
even the sunniest days.
The hole is the love we lost, the love we can't replace.
The hole in our hearts you had filled.
There is a hole in our hearts a hole in our lives.
 

Missing and remembering ~Stephanie~ & ~Katie~ always...

  

May 3rd 201002:21:36 PM

Name:

Mom (Moochie)

Location:

Greece, Ny

Comments:

Today we were talking about Disney World. Your favorite place.A lady at my rehab that I go to for my shoulder brought up the Carousel Of Progress. How it's not open all the time. I had to tell her it was your favorite ride at Disney. "The Carousel Of Progress" I love that you chose that ride as your favorite. Miss you my sweet baby girl.
Hugs and love sent to you every day 24/7.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif
 

Your Moochie, Love you!!!! xxxoo

  

April 22nd 201006:31:08 PM

Name:

John- The Guy on the Bike

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

For Stephanie's mom -I'm the guy on the bike you talked to this week. I just wanted you to know I came here to see Stephanie's page after I talked to you. She is such a lovely girl - I wish I had known her. Her memorial page is so nice .I liked seeing all of her pictures....Maybe I'll run into you there again some time ....From the Guy on the Bike

  

April 12th 201005:13:02 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - i am late in saying happy birthday but you know you were on my mind and in my heart all day. i wish we could have celebrated it with you with a cake or whatever you would want. maybe chips and dip??? 23 - gosh, i can just imagine what a young lady you would be. kelly and mallory and cynthia were talking about u the other nite - laughing about all the fun things you guys used to do. Kelly has that little bear that Mile's mother made dressed in your shirt, and lately the shoulder of the shirt has come down off the shoulder - kelly thought that was you being stylish!!! so she left it down :)
 

we all miss you cutie and will always keep you in our hearts
 

all our love to you http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 8th 201006:07:37 PM

Name:

Location:

Greece, NyY

Comments:

Hey Girl, Who is my birthday girl today, April 9th. How I miss you for this special occasion and watching your eyes twinkle and get so big with excitement. Watching you open all your presents. Clothes and Jewelry and all that girl stuff. Boy, Do I miss buying you these things even the little surprises I would leave on your bed weekly. You are the sunshine of my life. Now I don't have that sunshine any more. Just gloomy days. but still I need to send you a Happy Birthday and to let you know to watch your burning candle that will glow sending you all our love and kisses. You are so ever missed and sadly missing this 23rd birthday with you. You live in my heart and you live in my soul. You never leave my mind and I will always love you with my whole heart and soul. For ever my special GIRL!
Love moochie xxoo

  

March 29th 201007:24:28 PM

Name:

Mooch (Mom)

Location:

Greece

Comments:

My Sweet Baby Girl, Another Easter going right by us again with out you. How hard it is for us not to have you for these special days and everyday. We miss that big smile and your love. I miss buying you your Easter surprises for your basket. You were always so easy to buy for. My love and missing you each and every single minute will never stop till we are together again. It seems like it will be for ever but I know for you it isn't. But for me it is. Please always be by my side and let me feel you near me. Love and miss you more then words can ever say.You are my hero! Love you for ever.
Moochie (Mom) [So sad]

  

March 16th 201011:36:04 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - i'm at work listening to pandora and they just played celine dion - the power of love - and it makes me think and laugh remembering how you would sing that to your chi. you were such a good friend to her - she really hasn't met a friend like you since. we were talking abt you the other nite - how you used to like to smooch with your girlfriends cause you loved them so much! what a silly girl you were, but totally cute!!!!
 

we still miss you every day, honey, and think of you all the time. love you little one!!
 

http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

February 12th 201009:53:42 PM

Name:

Mom

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I miss you baby girl. I miss having Valentines Day, We just don't celebrate it any more since you been gone. I did leave you a few little gifts. Though it's not the same, Just sad.I miss watching you wait to see what Daddy was going to give you. I know he is missing giving you a special bouquet of flowers and jelly bellies. I still look at my Queen bear and I know You have your princess bear with you. It will always remind me of our last Valentines day. I miss you and my heart still breaks and cries each and every day for you. But I still want to say Happy Valentines Day to my special girl. You are so for ever missed more then any thing in this world. Life will never be the same with out you. It's changed for ever.I love and miss you my sweet girl.( My girl at Valentines day with you)
Love,
Mom (Moochie)xxxooo [So sad]

  

February 9th 201008:53:50 PM

Name:

Thom sherwood

Location:

Ga-tes

Comments:

I knew you and I am friends with your family , and wanted to share some thoughts that helped me get through the loss of a loved one years ago . We cannot see you , we cannot hear you , we cannot feel you but you are always there in our fears , our pain and in our prayers . ...always

  

February 6th 201009:20:02 AM

Name:

Dave

Location:

Gates-Chili class of 1973

Comments:

I'm sorry to hear about Stephanie. I found Cindy Oliva on Facebook as a class member from Gates-Chili class of 1973. I'm trying to recall, but I don't remember anyone with a last name of Oliva.
 

God bless Stephanie.
Dave Ennocenti

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January 28th 201003:04:05 PM

Name:

Jill

Comments:

Hello Hunnie, i love and miss you.  Jilly

  

December 25th 200901:16:28 PM

Name:

Samantha Sheridan

Comments:

Miss you Cabbage breath! merry X-mas

  

December 12th 200906:49:03 PM

Name:

bran pogorzelski

Location:

rochester ny

Comments:

I remember her from highschool she was a good friend

  

December 7th 200909:32:33 PM

Name:

Londa

Location:

California

Comments:

Hi Sweetheart, I am so sorry for not being a part of your life, life can be so short without any warnings, I realize now just what an angel you are, when your mom and dad told me your plans to become a hairdresser and how you love style, make-up, and OCD, I knew you were a twin to Tina, your cousin that you never did get to know, OMG maybe it was a good thing because between your mom and dad and us we might of had to auction off our homes to support you girls, lol. I do want you to know that on the night that John IM me of the accident you have never left my heart or mind, my prayers and love goes out to your mom, dad, john, and Nick. I feel and see the hurt, pain and the emptyness that your family have and I wish I can take it away from them to make it all better but that is not possible, but you are an ANGEL and I know you would want them to be happy. Our family got to spend 10 days with your family in October for the first time in 22 years, I miss them and can't wait for them to come back to California to visit my tiny flower doll house, haha, this time I promise not to dust it so I can keep your OCD mom busy, lol. May you RIP my love, until we meet, my prayers are with you. Love your auntie

  

November 28th 200908:29:46 PM

Name:

Matthew Winterkorn

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I remember Stephanie from baseball games at GCB for Nick and John. The Oliva's always came to support every game there and I'm glad to see others to now support them! Such a beautiful family and I was very saddened to hear the terrible news on that day. The fourth of november has always been a day to remember for a different reason for me (my bday), but my thoughts and prayers every yr on that day will be with the Oliva's- God Bless!

  

November 22nd 200910:17:57 PM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

Cindy O

Location:

Greece

Comments:

The holidays are coming and already feeling sad with out you. I wish I can sleep till Jan. 2nd But another year with out you by precious girl. You are missed so much. Nothing feels the same any more. As the years go by the missing gets stronger and just wondering what you would be doing at these times?. We miss you baby girl. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 18th 200912:29:21 AM

Name:

Chris Schuck

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Nick, John, Mr.+Mrs. Oliva:
 

I'm sorry I didn't post here sooner. I always had a great time with you all, and I feel bad that I haven't been around in a long time. I will always miss Steph, and I hope you are all doing as best as you can.
 

In february 2005 my family was in a car accident, my grandma was killed and my mom was nearly killed, and she still has health problems from it. I know it is way different because Steph was so young, but maybe in a small way I know how you feel.
 

The best time in my life was when I was with you guys, I haven't really had a good day in the past 5 years. I hope you are still able to find some happiness in your lives.
 

Chris

  

November 4th 200908:46:50 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph,
I cannot believe that it has been four years since you have been taken from us. I wish that things were different and you were still here with us. I think about you every day and I hope that you here my prayers, I know you are watching over ushttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif i love you soo much and words can't describe how much I miss you, rest in peace my angel <3
*ring sisters*
*SO*MR*AN*

  

November 4th 200907:56:51 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Hi Steph! I miss you so so so so so so much! It's still so unbelievable. I cant believe it's 4 years. My heart just breaks. I wish you were here! It is so unfair!!! You were always such an incredible friend to me and I am so grateful for the friendship we had! You have been an amazing angel! I love you!!!!

  

November 4th 200907:36:41 PM

Name:

Jamie

Comments:

hey steph-
Cant believe its been four years.. id give anything to go back to shear ego.. no matter how much we said we hated it and liked to skip it.. we could always go up n take naps haha! i miss u soo much!!! seems like just the other day we were drivin around to get sum food!
i love uu!!! miss u lotssssss!!! xoxox
Jamie

  

November 4th 200906:24:11 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

PRESH! we are all missing you more than ever, i wish you were here with us. But i am sure you are looking down at all the craziness, lol. only the good die young, you were really something special and used the world as your stage. that is what i love about you. always in my heart hunnie. until we meet again, jilly*

  

November 4th 200909:13:09 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

oh steph, we all miss you so much. today is a very hard day. i wish SO much we could all go back and things would change - i would make you break up with that loser and not let you see him. if i only could go back honey i would try so hard to get you to stay away from him. how did we know this is how things would end up? it makes me so sad. i remember how cute you were and how much fun you and kelly and mal and mike all used to have. i will never forget those times. i love you honey and miss you so very much. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

October 7th 200912:06:46 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - thinking of you. your chi just had her b-day. it's still not the same w/o you around. miss you more than you knowhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

August 28th 200905:30:00 AM

Name:

Marusca

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Just wanted to leave a note to tell you all that we think of you so often and remember Stephanie and her beautiful smile so lovingly. We're wishing you strength in light of recent events and praying for resolution. Your family is in our hears always. With love, the Gatto's

  

August 27th 200906:45:51 PM

Name:

Quinn

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Even after these last several years I do not think anyone has recovered from this loss. The website you have is a great means to remind all that visit here just how much you guys really love her.
Time does go by, but the memories you have and share will last forever.

  

August 26th 200904:09:09 PM

Name:

Mackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

Hey girl. i miss you very much.. no words will ever tell you and ur family how much you meant to all of us. sorry i havnt seen you in a couple weeks. its been alittle busy around here latley. i love you. see you soon
 

to the oliva's i hope everyone is hanging in there theses days, and your doing a great job on helping steph finally rest in peace. stay strong eveyone. love you

  

August 25th 200906:37:11 AM

Name:

Mike Parker

Location:

Greece

Comments:

The recent events have definitely brought Steph back to the forefront of our memories (not that she had gone far from it). We all miss her sooooo much; my mom, sisters, and myself can never forget how truly awesome Stephanie was.
 

Love ya Steph!!!!
 

-Michael Snot

  

August 24th 200910:58:09 PM

Name:

Karen

Location:

Webster

Comments:

I just went through your daughters web site, what a wonderful tribute to your beautiful daughter, I never knew your daughter but I sat here and cried like it was my own. I do have a daughter who was also born in 1987 and I can't imagine your pain. After going through this web site I feel like I know your family, you are all wonderful and loving people and your daughter was very special to many, May God Bless you all and know that people do care even if they never met her.

  

August 24th 200908:17:58 PM

Name:

Stacey Pike

Location:

Arcadia

Comments:

Cindy and Nick~ I want you to know that I think of you often. I watched YNN news tonight and saw the story about Steph. It brought tears to my eyes. I enjoyed every minute of coaching Stephanie! Those memories (and seeing the picture of her in her uniform) are priceless. Continue to stay strong...Steph wouldn't want to see you any other way! Be sure to get justice!

  

August 24th 200907:50:12 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

miss you love 

  

August 24th 200904:26:13 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I never stop thinking about you Steph, sorry I havnt written in a while. I saw your picture pop up on one of the T.V's at the gym today and after practically falling off the tredmill I started crying thinking about all this craziness. I miss you and I hope im making you proud babydoll. Almost 5 years and its still not fairhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/5_sad.gif

  

August 24th 200902:22:02 PM

Name:

Noelle

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I just heard about the story from an update on the news-I have been living out of town. I knew that name sounded familiar and I looked it up online, which brought me to this page. I recognize Stephanie because I believe I was one of her cheerleading coaches for the Greece Cardinals? I was only in 9th grade when I assisted the team and now I am almost 30 but I remember little Stephanie on the C-team. Her short blonde hair, she was quite the character to stand out in my mind all these years later. I am so sorry for your loss, I am shocked to find out that one of these "little girls" from my adorable squad is gone. Thinking of your family, Noelle

  

August 20th 200909:51:22 PM

Name:

Moochie, (Mom)

Location:

Greece

Comments:

My daughter, You are in my heart and soul 24/7. I miss you so much and doing our nails together and shopping and just buying you little surprise gifts left at the end of your bed that would get you so excited and thankful. We all miss your little funny personality. Always made people laugh. I also have trouble still going into the pool now you are gone. It's very lonely with out sun bathing with me in the water. Your smile and love is in-graved in my heart. I am so lonely with out my girl and the girl stuff we do and talk about stuff or argue about what eve!. Not to mention not hearing you scream every time your brothers touched you. You needed to get your little princess fix from daddy to yell at one of them. All it had to be was a finger or foot on you. (Our drama queen) Those days are now for ever gone till I see you again.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/12_smile.gif Watch over your brothers. I love them very much also and your daddy, You are Daddy's little girl for ever.
Much love and prayers sent to you my beautiful daughter.
Love and miss you 24/7
 

Moochie (aka mom) Cind.. I will always remember you telling every one at Sheer Ego you were the younger version of Cind. That made me feel good as a mom to you.So much love and prayers to you.

  

August 12th 200912:30:02 PM

Name:

Ashley Blazina

Location:

Kissimmee, FL

Comments:

Think of you and your family...you will forever be missed.
 

Love always, Ashley (and Jojo)
from our vacations at Disney Resort Vero Beach Florida

  

August 2nd 200912:24:58 AM

Name:

Lauren Nicoletti

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I liked steph. she was the popular one in my homeroom. it was nice hanging with u in homeroom and i also graduated with u too..... RIP http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/sosad.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/sosad.gif

  

May 6th 200904:38:28 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hey little steph - sorry i have been absent for too long - but you know i'm always thinking of you. every time i look in kelly and mall's face, you are there. lots of happy memories of you - you were always so happy and smiling. you will be proud of kelly, she actually cleaned up her room yesterday. all your hard work on getting her to be neat was not a total waste!!
 

miss you every day cutie http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

lots of love to you

   

  

April 11th 2009 09:03:56 PM

Name:

Jamie Bernhard

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph.
Sorry its late. I was in Florida this past week.
I miss you lots- Im always thinkin of you. I past Tim Horts almost everyday and always think of ev.bages with ex-cream. haha i miss you girlie. love ya..happy 22nd..
Jamie

  

April 9th 200906:02:34 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

Happy Birthday Angel*http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

love and miss you very much!!!
not a day goes by without you in our thoughts

 

  

April 9th 200904:15:51 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEPH!!! Hope you are having a great birthday celebration in heaven! I miss you so much, it still seems so unreal! I am always thinking about you. You will always be like a sister to me!!!

  

April 9th 200910:26:41 AM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday Steph - I still think about you...

  

April 9th 200909:37:25 AM

Name:

Meghan Riley

Comments:

Happy Birthday Beautiful!! You are constantly on my mind and any second I get to talk about you I take. People love hearing the silly memories of us and all of the fun times we shared. I wish we could have had more, but the ones we made with forever be with me. I love you Stephanie, and I wish we were celebrating here on earth, but I know you are having a pretty pink and sparkly party in heaven!! I miss you, best friend. Forever and always,
 

Chap 

  

February 22nd 200908:26:09 PM

Name:

Jill

Comments:

always on my mind.
 

love you steph<3

  

January 22nd 200907:57:49 PM

Name:

Donna Bertolone

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephanie,
Every night I think of you and your family and continue to pray for all of you. Even though we only really knew each other through Chorus, I knew you were such a special and sweet girl! We all miss you so much 

  

January 21st 200911:49:01 AM

Name:

Mooch

Aim Screen Name

CindyO

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Oh, "My Baby Girl" How I miss you so much. sometime I just don't know if I can handle the missing of you. Muffin always keeps a smile on our face. She had no idea when she was born what her job was going to be. I feel you work through her. She sure loves any Italian cheeses. Her loves just pours out to us. I miss you each and every second of my life that I am living.The missing and pain will NEVER END! I love and miss you so much.
 

Love,
Moochhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

January 14th 200911:26:33 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi angel - missing you and think of you everyday http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

January 10th 200911:54:37 AM

Name:

Kacie

Comments:

I haven't had the opportunity to write on this page in a very long time...but I visit all the time and it breaks my heart to know that she isn't here with us anymore. Your family is a second family to me, and I wish she was here to grow up with us, but life isn't always fair. Muffin is a true blessing for you guys, she is presh and loves you guys very much...she shows through her wiggleshttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif ...truly has some of Stephs attitude haha
 

I love you guys and know that she is watching over you and with you every single day
Love and miss you Stephanie Anne

  

December 3rd 200804:36:16 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - miss you and like has been said, it's still hard to believe u r not here. i wish so much the old days were back and it was still you and chi and mall & mike hanging out. i will always remember those fun times. i am so sad that you aren't here to watch you grow into what you could have been. you are my angel steph - thank you for always listening to me!! miss you very much cutie. mother j http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 24th 200810:53:45 PM

Name:

Anthony La Tona

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

I keep a picture of you by my bed. That will never change. I still wake up when you nudge me in health class. You keep me from drooling on the desk.

  

November 10th 200811:11:59 AM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

I know its been a while but I think about you everyday. I wake up and see your picture every morning while I get ready for class and always make sure my make-up looks perf before I leave the apartment http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/4_wink.gif After 3 years I still miss you more then ever. Things have changed so much I just wish you could be here to enjoy this with me, I feel selfish knowing im growing up without you. I loveeeeee you Princess Stephanie our memories will be with me forever. xoxoxo

  

November 6th 200801:29:09 PM

Name:

Marian

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I know that there are no words that can be said... Stephanie was a special beautiful girl...I didn't know her long but she certainly made everyone who ever met her fall in love with her humor, smile and carisma...
 

Cindy & Nick, She is always with you and she will give you the strength you need. She was an amazing person.

  

November 4th 200807:37:38 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph I miss you soo much I can't believe its been three years since I have seen or talked to you http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/5_sad.gif I think about you every day and even though you are no longer here, I will never forget you. I hope you hear my prayers and someday I will see you again.
Rest In Peace my angel love you always and forever http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 200810:20:02 AM

Name:

jackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

steph - i can't believe it's 3 years today. mall, kelly and i still think and talk of you often. we'll never forget you honey. sending big hugs and lots of love, mother j http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 3rd 200810:03:47 PM

Name:

Jacqui

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Steph O, how we all miss you, beautiful lady. It's been 3 years, I can't even believe it...
 

Just listening to the song, "She'll Always Be There With You" still brings me to tears when it comes up on my itunes. I will never forget our ridiculous times spent together... I don't know if I would have made it through the 8th grade without our group of friends and your sense of humor! Your impressions of Carl were absolutely priceless... "Commander Grassi... REPORT to the BRIDGE!... snail trail..." hah! Between the parties at Meghan's and Sam's and having fun getting ready for Homecomings we had some wonderfully silly times together... and then having Harris together twice, but of course we lost him so recently, too. These tragedies seem to just come out of nowhere! Your mom is right... children should never have to die. You were taken way, way too soon. Your photo always smiles at me from my photoboard and I will always keep you in my heart and thoughts darling. Hugs.

  

October 25th 200804:58:17 PM

Name:

Meghan

Comments:

I miss Stephy... some days just get so hard to not be able to call up your bestfriend and chit chat and eat chips and dip with...hope you are at peace in heaven beautiful. Keep watching over us...BFF

  

October 6th 200812:59:46 PM

Name:

Melissa Lewis

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph,
 

I can't believe it's been almost 3 years since you left us. It doesn't seem long ago we were cheering and going to prom. Beautiful girl you are truly missed!
 

To the Olivas,
 

I can't imagine losing someone so close to me. I recently lost a friend and sorority sister, so I hope Steph can show her around up there. I feel blessed to have known your wonderful daughter and sister. I hope you know that not a day goes by I don't think about Steph and what a wonderful person she was. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Melissa

  

October 2nd 200811:23:39 PM

Name:

Cassandra Gonser

Comments:

i didnt know her but looked at her picture quite often on my boyfriend tommy, t.j.'s wall she is so beautiful and im sad that i will only know her through the stories im told may god bless her family and all who knew her

  

September 23rd 200803:17:28 PM

Name:

Jacki

Location:

greece

Comments:

I was just thinkin about you today steph. How when i met you in mrs, fabry's class in 4th grade you were so popular right away that you had to write a list on your desk of who was sitting next to you in lunch that day. and at your birthday party in 7th grade we did the dance to nsync and then our 8th grade washington trip (i still have the pics). I miss you so much

  

September 22nd 200803:16:53 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph - even tho i havent been here in a while, i do think of you everyday. i have your name in pink on my rearview mirror in my car so i see it everyday and think of you. i just read your mom's message and your dad's 1000 day note. everyone is just lost without you. you are an angel but i wish you were still here with us. love you forever little one http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

July 30th 200808:27:39 AM

Name:

Tammy

Location:

Stockton,California

Comments:

Beautiful daughter and the page work is exquisite..God Bless you and yours!

  

July 22nd 200809:41:16 PM

Name:

Mooch

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

My Angel,Best Friend ,Daughter, Baby girl, I miss you so much, it's unbearable. the tears still flow each night and each morning.Life is a struggle each day. Life sucks. They says things happen for a reason. well children should never die for a reason. God should have made that a law. No one will under stand it unless it happens to them. Children should never be used for a reason. You are special because you were something I always wanted all my life and the taken away in such a short time. I wanted you to be in my future and to be the mother to you that I wanted to always be and be the mother that I never had. You were my life!!!!! They say you are in a better place and happy.But I do know I was rich and famous just from having you. No parent should never ever live this life. All we have are the memories and the memories were cut to short. Your Daddy, your brothers and me should never be living this sucky life. The memories hurt also because we miss you so much Stephanie, you were given this beautiful life, a gift but then taken away in such a short time. Parents are given this joy and life, For this Life and a mother to feel and carry this beautiful baby in their body to be given but taken for a reason? Bull Crap!!!!! Any one who knows anything or the ones involved in taking you away from us will also feel pain some way some how or something will fall in their life that will follow them in some kind of pain. Our life with out you here has changed for ever. we have to suffer the rest of our long life and your brothers will be even longer. How this will suck. You will always be in our heart, soul and mind 24/7. Please keep sending signs so I know that your are with us. You are so much loved and missed, their are no words to express it, NO WORDS!!!!! The helpless life we are learning to live with out you SUCKS and VERY PAINFUL!
 

Love MOOCH
Pink Is You
 

http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/15_weeping.gif

  

May 23rd 200808:59:34 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

love you steph<3

  

May 7th 200811:53:49 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi there steph - still missing you. i think of all the times you won't get to have and it makes me sad and angry. i imagine how it would be - you, chi and mal doing hair stuff together and just hanging out in chi town. i wish so bad that you were still with us. miss you honey.

  

April 9th 200803:01:16 PM

Name:

Ashley

Comments:

Stephanie, I wish you were here so that we could celebrate your 21st birthday together. I miss you so much and I can't believe that you've been gone for three of your birthday  I wish I was home so I could go visit you but I am thinking of you today and everyday.. love you my angel keep watching over us*

  

April 9th 200812:13:18 PM

Name:

Mike Parker

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

Happy Bday Steph!! We miss u and think of you a lot.

  

April 9th 200808:36:43 AM

Name:

Meghan Riley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephalicious O,
Today would be your 21st Birthday!! Happy Birthday!! Tonight Ashley and I are going to be celebrating it with you by watching one of your favorite movies- Clueless! I hope you are having a Fab party up in heaven. I miss you terribly and wish I could be with you. I think about you every day and love you so much. BFF!!
Love Always and Forever,
Chap

  

April 9th 200805:59:47 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 21st birthday, steph!! love and miss you 

  

April 9th 200805:06:34 AM

Name:

Jamie bernhard

Location:

ontario ny

Comments:


 

**HOPE YOUR HAVING A GOOD BIRTHDAY UP THERE!! i know you'd be partyin,,, its a big one *21* http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif ilyy..love jamie!

  

March 12th 200802:53:46 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Rochester / Buffalo, New York

Comments:

Dear Stephanie,
Last month my sister and your parents bumped into each other, literally. Nobody got hurt. I feel like you and I have this connection, even though we never actually met. I've been dealing with some stuff over the last several months and it's been really hard. I was having a bad day today then I got your mom's e-mails and it's amazing how something so simple like that can turn my entire day around. It really puts life into perspective. I really wish we could of met, I think we could of been good friends, I'm about as girly as it gets lol. Anyway, just wanted to say hi and that I'm thinking about you.
 

-Samantha

  

February 19th 200812:31:43 PM

Name:

Moochie

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

MY BABY GIRL,
 

You are so missed, the lonely nights and lonely mornings still exist. Going to sleep at night and not seeing you to say good night to and waking up and still not seeing you to say good morning. I still have to figure out how to get through each day with out you. Now it will even be more sadder for a few of us with out Mr.Anderson. He was the best dad,husband, neighbor and friend that any one could have. He helped daddy with many things. Please tell him we all miss him and summer will never be the same with out him. Tell him to let us know that he is around. Everyone loves and misses you both. But for us, life will never be the same. You are loved and missed unconditionally. :(
 

Love,kisses and huggs,
MOOCHIE

  

February 16th 200808:35:54 AM

Name:

Meghan

Comments:

I Love You Pretty Angel! Miss You Very Much! Muah BFF!!

  

February 14th 200802:10:41 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

S2 Happy Valentines Day Pretty Girl xoxo S2

  

February 14th 200806:04:23 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy valentines day, steph! i miss you, little one
 

love, mother j

  

January 10th 200807:23:10 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

ur so cute

  

January 1st 200807:31:34 PM

Name:

chi

Comments:

its still so unreal steph. miss you**http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

December 26th 200708:15:44 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

there are just not the right words to tell you how much you are missed, steph. you were a part of our lives for way too short a time but you will never be forgotten. when i look thru your site it shows me how many people love you and miss you. you were a special part of us and i am thankful for the happy memories i have of you. i miss you steph.
 

all my love, mother j

  

December 17th 200710:06:47 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

happy holiday's beautiful

  

December 14th 200704:02:27 PM

Name:

Jake Toczynski

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

I've been in the Navy now for over two years and I have a picture of Stephanie that I bring with me every time I go out to sea. I've been out for months and months at a time and everytime before i go to sleep i look at that picture. Very few things can cheer me up while i'm at sea. Talking about Stephanie and looking at the picture are a couple. I always make sure that everyone knows exactly how much she means to me. The accident on Ridge Rd. happened just a couple minutes away from my house. I drove by it shortly after it happened, not knowing she was involved. As I drove by it the song "We'll meet again" by Johnny Cash was playing. That same song played when I got the news of my Grandmother passing. I put a lyric from that song on my forearm, "Some Sunny Day", for Stephanie and my Grandmother. I've been put in a tatoo book for the pieces on my body and I requested to have my arm in the shoot with an explanation as of why I have it and to include Stephanie in the reason. I miss you so much Stephy. I'm so sorry, just one dance.

  

November 27th 200709:02:07 PM

Name:

chad

Location:

canada

Comments:

I am very sorry for your loss, I do hope that you and your family make it through these tough times. Just know that you all have an angel watching over your family now. Godd bless.

  

November 11th 200709:03:55 PM

Name:

Mom, Moochie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Two years is to long. What ever we do and where ever we go our life is empty with out you.Our life will never feel the same with out you in it. The sadness follows us in what ever we do. You will for ever be in our hearts, but with tears. We love you our precious princess.
 

Love and kisses for ever,
Your Family http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

November 6th 200703:27:38 PM

Name:

Ashley

Comments:

two years too long

  

November 4th 200708:56:42 PM

Name:

Nicole/GT

Location:

greece

Comments:

hey nicky o, i just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts today. stay strong and know that you have a beautiful angel watching over you http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 200706:37:25 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph, I can't believe its been two years I miss you so much and think of you everyday
even though your not here the memories that we have will never fade. visit me in my dreams stephy
 

I love you so much miss you

  

November 4th 200705:02:26 PM

Name:

Dee

Location:

Roch.

Comments:

I can't believe today marks two years. Still thinking about you and I pray for your family. Keep watching over all of us, angel.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 200703:27:39 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

it's crazy how time passes... 2 freaking years, it still doesn't seem true! i wanted to thank you for what you did today. when Kev and i were driving down 390 towards Greece today some jerk was trying to cut from the far right lane to the off ramp for the 490 split towards buffalo and i thought for sure we were doing right to the guard rails into the woods. Kev who was driving said to me " i don't know how i did that? someone literally took over the wheel because i didn't do that." At first i was in shock but then it hit me. "it was Steph!, she wouldn't let anything happen to us on this day in a car, she took over the car!" It just goes to show, you will always be there even if we cannot see you... and i believe that with all my heart. Love and miss you! 

  

November 4th 200712:08:12 PM

Name:

Trina

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I can't believe today is two years. Oliva's you are in my thoughts and prayers today and always. Please stay strong.

  

November 4th 200709:20:09 AM

Name:

Rosie Oliva

Aim Screen Name

galileo719

Location:

Gates

Comments:

Stephanie,
I can't believe that it has been 2 years already. I think about you every day and miss you more and more as each day passes. I check this site on a daily basis, to remember what a beautiful person you were, to look at all the amazing pictures of you, and to see the wonderful things that your family and friends say about you. You were definitely loved. Keep watching over us and know that we will never stop remembering you.
 

Love,
Rosie

  

November 4th 200709:10:20 AM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

I miss you sooooo much Steph! I can not believe it's two years. It's still so hard. It's so unbelievable that your gone. It's just not fair. I think about you and our crazy, fun memories all the time! love you!!!

  

November 4th 200708:33:42 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph - you are always in my heart. miss you.....
 

love, mother j

  

November 4th 200707:52:52 AM

Name:

lisa I

Location:

greece

Comments:

i cant believe it has been two years since you left us... i miss u more and more every day... i will never forget that loving smile.. in my heart always and forever..

  

November 3rd 200712:23:23 PM

Name:

Jamieeee :)

Comments:

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Hi steph!!!
I cant believe tomorrow is 2 years!!! I miss you so much- I think about you all the time. You were the bestest friend any one could ask for..i miss not seeing you everyday.. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/20_grumpy.gif just wish i got one more chance. Life isn't fair and is def. tooo short!!! I love you& miss you sooo much!!!  Jamie xoxo *cant wait to see you again*
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October 29th 200709:42:00 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

Miss you girly xoxo
"There is no distance too far between best friends, for friendship gives wings to the heart."

  

October 27th 200712:14:38 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

buffalo

Comments:

Just thinking of you

  

October 26th 200707:50:48 PM

Name:

Stephanie Oliva

Aim Screen Name

www.fotolog.com/stephanitaoliva

Location:

Santiago, Chile

Comments:

HI. Steph. I'm Steph, sorry but I don't speak English so much,... well looking around the google I write my name end I find you!!!, I don't know you never before, but its very courious that we are the same name!!! so I think to my self, how many girls call stephanie Oliva too in this world???... we're so different!!! better I write in spanish!!
 

Hola Steph, yo soy Steph!!! es muy curioso que tengamos el mismo nombre, mirando en la web escribí mi nombre y apareciste tú!!!, lamento tu partida tan temprana. Ahora pienso y me pregunto: cuántas Stephanie Oliva, habrán en el mundo??? seremos iguales o diferentes, cuán diferentes? en fin
 

un gran saludo para tí y para tu familia
 

Steph.

  

October 19th 200712:11:42 AM

Name:

jill

Comments:

God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best
there is not a day you are forgotten.
love you always<3

  

October 1st 200709:28:25 PM

Name:

Meghan

Comments:

I miss you Stephy. I think of you everyday of my life. I can't wait to see you again. BFF 

  

September 30th 200705:56:32 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi Steph - i was talking to my niece a bit ago and she was telling me she thought you were so pretty and nice - you had ordered some food and a dr. pepper at bk so from then on that was her favorite drink cause she wanted to be like u!
 

missing you still, honey.
 

all my love, mother j

  

September 7th 200707:14:43 AM

Name:

Ashley Mohr

Comments:

I miss you 

  

August 23rd 200707:28:53 AM

Name:

jamie

Location:

shear ego.

Comments:

hey girl.
i miss you soo much! i never stop thinking of you!!!! my parents just re-did my room and i have all our pictures all hung up :):) wish you could see it. i have an interview today at a hairsalon...hope your watchin down &helpin me:) i miss you soooo much!! ily bfff! <3jamiehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

July 31st 200707:30:02 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi little one - i miss you and your silly little ways, the sound of your voice saying "chi" and "mother j", seeing your beautiful smile and all the ways you lit up this house. i love you steph and miss you very much.

  

July 29th 200707:13:02 AM

Name:

MaryBeth

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hi Steph! I miss you soooooo much! Everything reminds me of you. I wish I could see you and talk to you. And give you the biggest hug on earth. I miss laughing non stop together. And just being absolutely ridiculous. I'm thinking of you always.
Love you Steph!!!

  

July 7th 200711:33:39 PM

Name:

ian m. (minga)

Aim Screen Name

shaft91

Location:

greece

Comments:

i miss lil "S". can't even think about it without balling my eyes. i'm sorry "O" and lil "O". haha i still remember the time me and the guys were at the mall and we seen a bunch of girls together, and we were like ****n, whose that blonde, and then the blonde turned around and it was lil S!!! haha we all felt like we crossed that line cause it ended up being Steph, haha i remember one of us was like "omg, that girl is nicky o's sis, haha we all quickly looked away in respect! she's beautiful. - god bless....

  

June 24th 200711:26:56 AM

Name:

No Name

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hey Steph,
I didn't personally know you, I only knew of you, and I know you certainly didn't know me. I do however know that you were one amazing person. I remember watching you cheer while I was JV, wishing I could have the same amazing skills and excitement as you. You were the beautiful blond bombshell, always smiling. I only wish I hadn't been so shy and had been able to introduce myself to you that one year that I watched and admired you during cheerleading. You are greatly missed Stephanie...

  

June 13th 200706:41:59 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hey steph - gosh, honey, i just miss you so much. i hate the fact that you aren't here with us. life has been going good for me and it makes me sad to know of all the times you won't get to have. it just shouldn't have happened and it's hard to know there isn't any way to fix it. i think of you everyday honey and take you everywhere i go. you are always in my heart, stephanie. all my love, mother j

  

June 2nd 200705:13:44 PM

Name:

no name

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph,
You dont know me and i dont exactly know you. but i do know that u were an amazing person. i went to the same school as you and you were always the person i wanted to be like. blonde beautiful and always so happy. whenever is saw in in school you were always all smiles. i wish i could have met you because what i do know about u i love. you were an amazing person stephanie. you are surely missed

  

June 1st 200710:13:54 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

Hi Lil One, I still think about you constantly, time helps a little but definitely doesnt heal, there are so many things I wish I could talk to you about, everything has changed a lot and things are really diffent, it took a while for me to realize the important people in my life and who was holding me back. You were always SO important to me and we always helped eachother out, we understood eachother and not only did we think we were better then those people but we KNEW that we were! I love you and miss you more than ever xoxoxo

  

May 27th 200711:10:58 PM

Name:

Ashley Mohr

Location:

G-town

Comments:

Little Stephy, its nites like tonite that I miss your laugh and smile the most. The nites we all sit around a campfire n have fun... I hope your enjoying your summer nites up in heaven with my big sister Angela... I love you and miss you so much lil stephO... NEV forgotten and loved always...  Ashley http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/28_spin.gif

  

May 22nd 200711:36:49 AM

Name:

manda

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

  

April 29th 200710:30:34 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph - just wanted you to know i'm thinking of you. will definitely be there at the dedication at arcadia for you! miss you lots, little one!
 

love, mother j

  

April 18th 200707:40:30 PM

Name:

Amanda, Debby Nusz and Mike Devlin

Location:

greece

Comments:

we love you and still think about you. we hope u and jason are together getting into trouble and looking down on both families with love, u were both too young and taken too soon. stephy give jason a kiss and hug from us.... we love you.. xoxoxo 

  

April 11th 200706:30:58 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Aim Screen Name

dmathewsband73

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Hi Steph! Happy 20th birthday! [I know I'm a few days late]. I cant express how much I miss you. I think of you all the time and I always will. I hope you had a great birthday in heaven. I love you!!!!

  

April 9th 200708:15:12 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

happy birthday steph!! i miss you presh its been soooo long. i was thinking about you all day, hope you had a good one sweetie!
jill

  

April 9th 200707:13:39 PM

Name:

Rosie

Aim Screen Name

galileo719

Location:

Gates

Comments:

It's days like this that I miss you even more than normal. Happy Birthday, Steph.

  

April 9th 200704:53:02 PM

Name:

Meghan

Comments:

Happy Birthday Stephalicious. I wish we could be together to celebrate right now. I miss how we would always call each other and be together celebrating these fun days. I miss you so much. I hope you are celebrating with the angels today! I love you forever presh
-always-
chap

  

April 9th 200704:34:19 PM

Name:

Amanda Donovan

Location:

Greece

Comments:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEPHY! LOVE AND MISS YOU!

  

April 9th 200710:32:34 AM

Name:

steph

Aim Screen Name

sepherhunkers

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy birthday!

  

April 9th 200709:14:18 AM

Name:

Ashley Mohr

Location:

greeceeeee

Comments:

Happy 20th Birthday Babygirl!!!! I miss your presh smile always! Have fun with my big sister up in heaven on your birthday!! love you!

  

April 9th 200705:28:50 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 20th birthday, stephanie! sending you a big hug today. lots of love, mother j

  

March 21st 200708:32:13 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

Hi Steph - miss you always
 

love, mother j

  

March 18th 200708:13:36 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

hey steph just stopping by to say hi
i finally met muffin yesterday she is soooo cute and has tons of energy! Nick is working with me now its awesome im pretty sure he likes it, i just wish our desks were closer to each other. well my homework needs to be submitted by midnight, so i gotta run. thanks for watching over us presh, ur an angel.

  

March 15th 200706:21:13 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

Think about you every day, Steph. There are so many times I wish you could still be here for. It's just been too long and life goes on but without you it's just not the same. You left quite a big hole for such a little thing!
 

miss and love you always, mother j

  

March 6th 200708:42:38 PM

Name:

Drew Bailey

Comments:

To the Olivas if you need anything at all you can get a hold of me the new number is 716 604 2916 i would love to hear from you.
 

remember if you need ANYTHING

  

March 4th 200703:47:10 PM

Name:

lisa

Location:

greece

Comments:

i miss that beautiful smile... not a day goes by that i dont think about you steph..

  

February 26th 200709:38:12 AM

Name:

Jamie

Comments:

myspace layouts, myspace codes, glitter graphics
Miss you Steph..ily

  

February 24th 200711:16:13 PM

Name:

Brittany

Comments:

Hi, I happened to click this link that was in someone’s AIM profile. I wanted to say that I think this website is beautiful. Its a great wasy to keep stephanie alive, and with everyone. Though I did not know stephanie she was a beautiful person, I can tell.
As soon as I read the main page I started bursting into tears.
 

You have done a beautiful job raising a beautiful Young lady, and creating this beautiful page.
God bless you.
 

R.I.P stephanie.

  

February 14th 200707:55:30 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

Happy Valentines Day Lil One...Im sending you a huge bag of jellybelly jellybeans because I know they were your favorite! Love you and Miss you xoxoxo

  

February 14th 200705:10:05 AM

Name:

Kristin Thompkins

Aim Screen Name

CandiesGirly139

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy Valentines Day Stephanie! I love you Angel!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

February 5th 200705:38:35 PM

Name:

Drew Bailey

Comments:

There is not a day that goes by in my life that Steph didn't effect. And that is only in the best ways imaginable. The man I am today is because of not only Stephanie but her whole family . I love you all, see you soon Oliva's.

  

February 5th 200711:23:59 AM

Name:

Meghan

Comments:

I miss you Stephy http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/19_indifferent.gif

  

January 28th 200706:59:53 PM

Name:

Jamie

Location:

ontario

Comments:

Hey Stephanie. I miss you so much!!I had my 1st funeral since yours on saturday.. it was pretty hard but I know you helped me get through it. Now my grandma up in heaven with you and I know I have the best angels in heaven!! I cant wait to see you guys again... Give her a big hug for me.. love you steph!!! Rip  Jamie http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

January 23rd 200703:38:01 PM

Name:

jill

Comments:

our presh stephanie*...
I still cannot believe how time has passed, and you are really not comming back. I used to tell myself, you ran away but you would be comming home soon. But, that just isnt the case... Things are soooo different now, I wish you were here to see how everyone has changed! I barely see any of the girls anymore, everyone is always busy with school and work..
 

And speaking of work, Nick applied at adt! I am really hoping he gets the job, it would be soo cool to chill with him, considering you were "twins" and all! Hmmm, what else... i also would love your suggestion hair colors, i want to redo my highlights, i just cant figure out what i want this time! and yours always looked so good!
anywho, I have some homework to do, boooo!
love you presh!
nev forgotten
 

i'm sure the view from heaven
... beats the hell out of mine here.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

January 22nd 200709:45:32 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hey steph, just another sign from you that you are here watching out for us. the other day i was rushing and threw my 3 pills in my mouth as i do everyday and this time one got stuck right in my windpipe and i started panicking and then this voice came in my head and said, it's ok, just drink your water and it calmed me down and i drank and was fine. i know it was you taking care of mother j again. gosh, hon, thanks. you are never far from my thoughts stephanie. miss you
 

mother j
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January 9th 200710:34:37 AM

Name:

jill

Comments:

i cant believe how long it has been... miss you steph.

   

  

January 1st 200703:42:03 PM

Name:

Kristin

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy New Year Stephanie! Rest in peace ANGEL<3http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

Love Always,
~*~Kristin~*~

  

December 25th 200607:58:15 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

merry christmas stephanie, http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

lots of love, mother j

  

December 25th 200605:04:51 PM

Name:

Jamie Bernhard

Aim Screen Name

Sparklinangel615

Location:

Ontario

Comments:

Merry Christmas Stephanie... Miss you LOTS!!!
 

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December 25th 200604:51:17 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Merry Christmas Steph. I miss you so so so much. It's not the same w/out you here. Thanks for looking out for me! Love you always.

  

December 24th 200611:35:31 PM

Name:

Kristin

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Merry Christmas Stephanie!!! I am sure heaven is beautiful on Christmas with all the angels up there including you!!! Rest in peace sweetie.
 

Love Always,
~*~Kristin~*~
Merry Christmas Olivashttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

December 18th 200603:27:38 PM

Name:

Jay

Location:

greece

Comments:

i have never met Stephanie, but i did meet her brother john once or twice at his girlfriends house. also, i drove by the accident that night, and even though i did not know her, i have been touched by this website. i couldnt imagine how hard it would be to lose one of my little sisters. may God bless the family and friends of Stephanie Oliva, i will be keeping you all in prayer. God Bless!

  

December 17th 200610:40:45 PM

Name:

Joshua

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

I just want to say that Nick has always been a good guy to me, and that as someone who has a little sister that I'm so close with... I know the cliche things like "I'm sorry" and "It will be okay" could never be enough to bring me to heal if I lost her. Instead I just wanted to say that I think it is a beautiful thing that your family has done this to focus on anything positive by CELEBRATING the life of a departed loved one. It is obvious that you guys have decided to always remember everything you loved about her, and she can never be completely ripped away from you that way. I never knew Stephanie... Not sure if I ever met her... But I can see here that I missed out on knowing a fantastic person. Take care of yourselves, and Nick I'll see you around I'm sure!
 

-Josh

  

December 14th 200607:49:08 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph - i know you're watching out for me. a couple weeks back i was driving home from way out on the parkway and i realized i was on fumes way out before kendall and of course there was no one else on the parkway and it was snowing real bad and i was praying to you the whole way to get me back to greece w/o running out of gas - and you did! then i was stuck at a red lite so i said "pls make it turn green, steph" and right after i said it, it turned green. so i got to the gas station ok!! thanks. and then the other nite i'm driving home from work and i was thinking about you and i kept hearing this beep - i didn't know what it was but i thought of a fire beep. i get home and i have this heater in my room and lately it's been acting weird. i finally took a good look and noticed that the outlet where i plug it in was all burned up. i know that was you giving me a warning!
 

i miss you, honey, and think of you so many times. thanks for taking care of us all!!
 

mother j

  

November 30th 200611:18:21 PM

Name:

Cory Davis-- cousin to the olivas

Location:

Houston, TX--

Comments:

I know that we were never that close but i will never forget the trips meeting with you and your wonderful family. It has been so long since I have seen yall in so long and that is def. not a good thing. I love you steph.
 

My prayers go to the Olivas and just remember to keep your hopes and dreams high because she is looking down on yall

  

November 23rd 200605:57:41 PM

Name:

Kristin

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy Thanksgivng Oliva's, you are in my prayers! Rest in peace Stephanie I know you watchin down on everyone angel!!!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 14th 200609:26:57 PM

Name:

Mom,

Comments:

This wasn't the way it suppose to be, In Loving Memory. Now torn in misery, This wan't the way it suppose to be. Where are you? I miss you, I need you here, not just in my heart. Now torn in misery it won't go away. Now this is the way it has to be, and I will always be misery. Why did it have to end. This wasn't the way it suppose to be. In Loving Memory that won't ever go away. Love and miss you till I see you again one day. My Heart will always ache.

  

November 8th 200607:53:28 PM

Name:

Amanda

Location:

ny

Comments:

I can't believe a year has came and gone. There's not a day that passes i dont think of you all & Stephanie. =( Olivas, you will ALWAYS be in my prayers.  & God Bless you & Stephanie. -Manda.

  

November 8th 200607:46:09 PM

Name:

Amanda

Location:

ny

Comments:

"It's Hard to Say Goodbye"
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Through the mist of heartfelt sorrow
One can catch a glimpse of hopeful promise
That tomorrow the pain will be a little less.
 

And though a void will remain,
We must learn to fill it with joyful memories
Of the one who has blessed our lives for so many years But whose time to leave this world has come.
 

To those of us left behind,
it seems their time was much too short.
And we feel robbed and angry, and maybe even a little guilty That we never did enough for them while they were here.
 

But in their heart,they knew we loved them;
And we will always carry a part of them with us,For they are a part of who we are.
-Author Unknown

  

November 6th 200603:28:35 PM

Name:

meredith (jamie bernhards cousin)

Location:

whitesboro

Comments:

im so sorry she was probally a great person and a beautiful girl http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 6th 200609:27:52 AM

Name:

Marusca Gatto

Location:

Greece - Neighbor

Comments:

Just wanted to leave you some love at this incredibly difficult anniversary of the loss of Stephanie... and just let you know that the Gatto's are thinking of you all. We know there are no words but want to share that we think of you and Stephanie so often and visit her at the mausoleum from time to time. She lives on in all of you and also all of us because her light touched us all. With love, Marusca, Joe, Adriano and Julie Gatto

  

November 4th 200609:28:44 PM

Name:

Kristin

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephanie Rest In Peace Angel you are always in my prayers<3 Olivas stay strong I love you<333
 

Love,
~*~Kristin~*~

  

November 4th 200608:59:48 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

...No words...
I miss you so much stephy just keep helping me stay strong xoxoxo

  

November 4th 200608:38:08 PM

Name:

Ashley

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I can't believe it's been a year since you've been gone. It seems like yesterday I was training you at ecks and picking on you for always wearing high heels to work. When I realized what day today was, I don't think there was a second that you and your family were not in my thoughts. I have never (and will never) meet another person as sweet, giggly, kind or as adorable as you. My life became a little brighter the day I met you, and will remain that way till we meet again. I think of you often, and your family is always in my prayers. Heaven is undoubtably a better place because you are there, but the world down here will never be the same. I will never forget you.

  

November 4th 200602:39:13 PM

Name:

Devon

Aim Screen Name

xxdev7shortyxx

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

I cannot believe it's been a year without seeing your beautiful face. I will always remember those nights we'd sneak out of our houses and just go for walks around the neighborhood. I'll never forget you Steph, or our little conversations, never. I hope your family is doing ok. I love you Steph. Keep watching over us allhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 200602:19:41 PM

Name:

Rosie Oliva

Location:

Gates

Comments:

I can't believe that it has been a year already. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you, Steph. You will always be in my heart and I will forever remember the little girl who used to love to check out my bedroom and let me braid her hair.
 

Uncle Nick, Aunt Cindy, Nicholas & John - I love you all. Though you haven't seen me a lot, I think of you all the time and hope that you are alright. Please know that I am always here for you.

  

November 4th 200611:32:22 AM

Name:

Timmy

Location:

Greece

Comments:

To the O family, I hope you are all doing well. My thoughts are with you on this day. I can't believe it's been a year. Keep your heads up.

  

November 4th 200611:08:07 AM

Name:

Ashley

Comments:

Steph, I can't believe its been one year. I think about you everyday and its so hard, I wish I could just call you and talk to you. You are missed dearly and I will always love you. Rest in Peace my beautiful angelhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
Ring Sisters Forever

  

November 4th 200610:29:53 AM

Name:

Trina

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stay Strong Oliva's, You are always in my thoughts and prayers! Stephanie you are missed so much by everyone!

  

November 4th 200607:46:02 AM

Name:

Kate

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Such a touching page with so much love. Stephanie sounds like an amazing girl and your all in my thoughts and prayers now and always. God Bless.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 4th 200607:00:34 AM

Name:

Tricia Murray

Aim Screen Name

legs1xo

Location:

arcadia

Comments:

Rest In Peace Gorgeous
still can't believe its been a year, my heart goes out to you and your family!!
God Bless You Steph

  

November 4th 200606:20:56 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

steph, it's one year now - it seems unreal. i can still see you on the couch here and still hear your voice saying "mother j". you were such a good friend to Chi and Mallory and i'm glad that you guys all found each other. i know you're watching out for them and that means a lot to me - i just hope they aren't giving you too much work!!
 

to the olivas - there aren't any words i can say that seem adequate. stephanie will forever be with us here in our hearts. you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
 

love, mother j

  

November 3rd 200611:44:35 PM

Name:

Ann

Comments:

A heart of gold stopped beating
Two willing hands at rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best
 

Stephanie it is hard to believe it has been one year already. I still remember the first day I met you, you were so beautiful and easy to talk to. As time passed we connected with little things, and you had such a love for your family. I admired that from the day I met you, you spoke so highly of them, even in the first few hours I had known you. I only wish I could speak to you in person Stephanie, but I know you are fine up in heaven, shining as beautifully as you did here on earth. I will never forget you Princess. Until we meet again, keep watching down and RIP angel.
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November 3rd 200610:53:59 PM

Name:

erica

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I cant believe it's been a year already, i will never forget how i felt when i was told about the accident...My love and prayers are with your family this week. We can feel you watching over us preshhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/12_smile.gif

  

November 3rd 200609:48:18 PM

Name:

Katie

Comments:

Stephanie..it's been a year since you've been gone. I can't stop thinking about you and how much i miss you. What i'd give to go back to the days where we'd sit in your basement and eat those pizza's. i'd give anything..i miss you so much. you'll forever be my hustla. love you beautiful<3http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 3rd 200609:57:41 AM

Name:

Lisa

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephanie, its been a year since you passed but i can still see in my mind that smiling face standing across from me in gym class,making me laugh.. I miss u sooo much Angel.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 2nd 200608:37:34 PM

Name:

Ashley Mohr

Aim Screen Name

lilmohr86

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I came across some old pictures today of me marybeth and you!!! I miss you so much Steph, it just isn't right! Keep smiling and watching over everyone!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

November 2nd 200606:14:14 PM

Name:

Terry

Aim Screen Name

taluth

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I miss you too Steph. As always, I get caught up in my own world ... my full speed ahead life. Today MY Keely reminded me that one year has flown by. I will include you, your family, my own beloved daughters and of course all the young people we have commonly loved in my prayers this week. Steph, at the same time I know you hear my prayers and continue to send your joy to all of your loved ones. The memory of your smile, your twinkling eyes, your strong presence does restore our spirit. Keep singing and dancing and we will keep that picture in our minds as we celebrate the memories of our time together. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/tilt.gif

  

November 1st 200611:01:56 AM

Name:

Greg

Comments:

My thoughts are with the Oliva family at this time of the year. My sincerest regards and wishes to Nick, his parents, and his brother John. There is so much to learn about ourselves and the world; you will always remember.

  

October 31st 200604:02:23 AM

Name:

ann.

Location:

greece, NY

Comments:

it's been almost a year. I still cant belive your gone. i think about you everyday, we werent that close but it still hurts that your gone. and it just goes to show that it can happen to anyone even the best of people.
 

love and miss you Steph.

  

October 29th 200606:51:34 PM

Name:

Samantha

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

God bless you, Stephanie and your family and your friends! You're all in my prayers.

  

October 28th 200605:03:26 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

its been sooooooo long steph....http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/19_indifferent.gif

  

October 28th 200602:57:43 PM

Name:

chi

Comments:

steph i truly believe that you are up in heaven watching out for everyone that loved you.. there has been so many little things that make me think this.. i was at my friends house and i bend down to tie my shoe and i see a small piece of felt with an S on it and a pink star right above it, come on now i know that wasnt a coincidence, and one day while i was at school i looked over on the ground and this shiny thing caught my eye, i bent down to pick it up and it was a gold ring with an S on it and at work the other day i looked at this memo type thing posted on the wall which ive looked at almost everytime i work but never noticed till today that at the bottem of it there are 3 random capital S's...thank u for letting me know ur okay steph lol however it is that you want to do it:) i hope u keep sending me ur little S's! i love and miss you soooooo much! happy early halloween by the way presh* always in my heart steph..
love, chi

  

October 25th 200609:52:34 PM

Name:

erica

Location:

Greece

Comments:

wow, hard to believe that shes been gone for almost a year already...but i just read Chi's note and i think that it is by far the best description of a friendship i have heard about. i felt like i was part of their friendship and im just so glad that she was able to share it with stephs friends and fam.

  

October 24th 200608:52:45 PM

Name:

Ger

Location:

Rochester (Greece)

Comments:

We lost contact senior year, but I never forgot you. I'll see you again someday kido!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

October 20th 200602:12:59 PM

Name:

Meghan (aka. Chap)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

aaahhh i miss you so much. constantly thinking of you...
 

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October 18th 200608:31:07 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hey steph, miss you and think of you all the time. you will always have a special place in my heart. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

October 16th 200609:17:50 PM

Name:

jilly

Aim Screen Name

jilly2587

Comments:

were did you go, i miss you so...
seems like it's been forever since you've been gone.
 

never forgotten steph, nev*

  

October 11th 200611:17:50 AM

Name:

Valerie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

WOW! I found this website under Lisa Snows Profile. I cant belive how beautiful it is. I have known Steph for a few years now, from soccer, when my mom coached, and cheerleading also work. She was such a funny person. She never had a bad day.(from what i could see) I just cant explain the feeling i had when i heard about this tragic incident. I was indenile. I dont even know what to say right now.....I was not surprized at all, at how meny people showed up the her wake it was amazing, how much support your friends and family have givin you....Now that i have found this site i will be visiting alot more often. I love ya steph. Take care Oliva family.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/pray.gif

  

October 5th 200607:18:13 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Just wanted to say hi Steph. I'm always thinking of you. And always will. You are missed so so so much. I love you always...

  

September 26th 200608:04:19 PM

Name:

Heather

Location:

rochester/charlotte and greece

Comments:

hey i was looking at your page and was talking to my best friend who use to got to school with you steph. and it comes to find out one of the guys we knew was in the car with you. atleast thats what he said and im very sorry . and sorry that you passed. and i give my prayers to you. and i pray for your family. because you and your family looks sweet and innocent good people. i hope your family is doing alright.

  

September 26th 200610:28:09 AM

Name:

mal

Location:

CHITOWN

Comments:

Passing time with you in mind
It’s another quiet night
Feel the ground against my back
Count the stars against the black
 

Think about another day
Wishing I was far away
Wherever I dreamed I was
You were there with me
 

(Chorus)
Sister, I hear you laugh
My heart fills full up
Keep me please
Sister, when you cry
I feel your tears
Running down my face
Sister, sister, keep me
 

I hope you always know it’s true
I would never make it through
You could make the sun go dark
Just by walking away
 

Playing like we used to play
Like it would never go away
I feel you beating in my chest
I’d be dead without
 

(Chorus)
Sister, I hear you laugh
My heart fills full up
Keep me please
Sister, when you cry
I feel your tears
Running down my face
Sister, sister, you keep me
 

I hope you always know it’s true
I would never make it through
You could make the heavens fall
Just by walking away
 

(Chorus)
Sister, I hear you laugh
My heart fills full up
Keep me please
Sister, when you cry
I feel your tears
Running down my face
Sister, sister, you keep me- dmb sister
 

when i heard this i thought of nothing but stephanie
i miss u mudd.....

  

September 18th 200606:39:18 PM

Name:

Mackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

Steph i for got to tell you.. that ill folling in your foot steps, im going to wemoco for cosmetology an im doing really good and the thing thats really pushing me to do good is YOU!! i wanna be able to try to live your dream out as a hair dresser.. But i know your up there helping me out Steph though step.. were doing together
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i love you**

  

September 18th 200606:19:57 PM

Name:

Mackie

Location:

greece

Comments:

Steph.. i guess it time to leave a message to you and your family.. but i dont really wanna, because i dont wanna face the fake that your gone..everyone thinks & misses you soo much.. i think about you mostley everyday,because i have a quote of my folders at school about you soo you dont think i have forgot about youhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif To the Oliva's words cant explain how sorry i feel for you guys..no one should ever have to go though the pain you guys have..i just wish someone or something could of changed what happen. She was such a beautiful girl, and anyone who has meet steph knows that she was a sweetheart inside and out. But everything that has happend in the past year has had a big impacted on my life.. and i just wanted to let you know that everyone's here for you guys,and everyone loves and misses her soo much..
 

*Steph until we meet again*
will be the best day of my lifehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/12_smile.gif
 

i love you with
all my heart
forever & ever
 

Mackster

  

September 18th 200605:47:56 PM

Name:

mal

Location:

chitown

Comments:

the other day i was driving down by the beach, i was thinking how its almost ben a year since it happened and i lost it, i couldnt stop crying. it will never seem real and the one thing ive learned is that no matter how much time has gone by, it still hits just as hard when i think about her, which is everyday. i thought to myself, just let me no ur ok steph, anything, just let me no ur watchin out for us. at that moment a car pulled out infront of me and in the back window there was the name stephanie in big pink letters written across the back of this car. After i saw that i felt so much better, maybe that was her little way of letting me no that shes still with us. that same day chi came home with a ring she found on the ground with a giant S on it. i miss her so much it hurts to breathe sometimes. but at least ik that shes watchin out for us because god knows we need it.
 

missin u terrible mudd...

  

September 14th 200601:12:33 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

chi chi!! i loved ur page!
i think the part that made me laugh the most was the windex... that girl loved windex, and as we layed on ur bed as she cleaned up your whole room is priceless. it brings back such good times sitting in chi town... preaching to johnny!
 

steph you were priceless and so missed.

  

September 11th 200609:07:59 AM

Name:

Drew Bailey

Comments:

To all the Oliva's
I LOVE YOU ALL.
Nothing more can be said, the pain of loss is to great. Only one thing in the whole world will fill that lost, never fully, only as much as posible because we cant see or hug her anymore. Her love still shines down to us we can still feel that love, it is overwhelming, we can still hold and cherish that love. However knowing that she is happy looking down apon us and hoping for our happiness. That love starts to fill holes.
 

If any of the Oliva's need anything at all, AT ALL, let me know.

  

September 8th 200602:30:30 PM

Name:

Sarah

Comments:

I have found myself avoiding reading through these pages for so long. Today I felt like it was time for me to sit down and read through everything. Sitting here now crying my eyes out about how much everyone misses you, did not surprise me as the reaction I would have. Everytime I think about you Steph, I think about you dubbing a certain someone "sardines" for no real reason, but it still makes me laugh thinking about you and I giggling as we refered to her.
I have been very lucky to become friends with Kacie and found it very funny when she was on the phone with her mom saying how she had to leave the Mackin's early "because muffin is crying for me to sleep with her in my bed." It reminded me of one of the times I had driven Stephanie home early because "Cind" would be mad if she came home too late. We talked the whole ride home and when she got out I smiled thinking "wow she really is easy to talk to" seeing as we shared some things we hadn't told others about.
I think about how lucky I am to still have my little sister and how lost I would be without her.
I can't imagine the heartache that Nick, John and your parents are going through, but I can imagine you looking down on them and everyone else you care about from heaven right now.
I was lucky enough to know you through my sister, Jamie. I didn't get to know you as well as many others did, but I did get to know the sweet, funny, charismatic girl you were through stories my sister and her friends have told me and did tell me when coming home from a night havock.
Stephanie You are very missed and very loved.
I offer my deepest sympathy to Nick, John, Mr. and Mrs. Oliva and if there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Stephanie, I know you are the most beautiful angel God has ever seen.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

September 7th 200609:53:13 AM

Name:

Tracy

Location:

Highland,NY

Comments:

http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/19_indifferent.gif I was browsing the internet and i came accross this site and even though i didnt kno stephanie i truly do feel for her family..i know how it feels to lose someone so close...i just recently lost my Best Friend of 18 years {my whole life} in a car accident i know how it feels to miss someone so much and i am really sorry to hear about such a lose IM SORRY...i wish i knew her and the family you all seem like wonderful people...again i am sorry...
 

Love Always,
Tracy
 

R.I.P
Stephaniehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

“Missing someone gets easier everyday, because even though it’s one day farther from the last time you saw each other, it’s one day closer to the next time you will…”
 

THIS IS A QUOTE I SAW AND THOUGHT IT WAS PERFECT FOR HER:
 

Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am a diamond glistening on the snow, I am the ripened sunlight on grain, I am the gentle Autumns rain.
 

When you awaken In the morning’s hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night.
 

Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there… I did not die.
 

~Robert Hepburn

  

September 7th 200606:31:53 AM

Name:

Jamie

Location:

OntariO//sheaR eGO

Comments:

Hi Steph.
It still doesnt seem real... I cant believe its almost been a year. I can remember driving around for fun just laughin the whole time. I miss you so much. Theres not a day that goes by I dont think of you. Everything I do reminds me of you. You will always be remembered down here. I miss and love you girlie.BfF.  Jamie
 

Hope your doing well Oliva fam.
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August 25th 200610:02:10 PM

Name:

Tricia Murray

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Ever since you've passed and your family and friends came up with this website, I've been trying to find the words to say...but nothing comes out cause I cant even begin to imagine what its like for your family and closest friends to go through something so tragic like this!! but my heart goes out to everyone that was ever close to you...or ever knew you!! Stephanie...you have had effect on not only my life, but basically everyone who ever knew you!! you were an amazing talented and beautiful girl who will never be forgotten!!..we werent really close but we talked here & there in the halls or the bathroom of course!!(getting all dolled up) but i still always remember when i cheered with you and how i always made you do my makeup and those lil moments i shared with you will always stay with me forever!! i miss you steph, and ik your and angel up there somwhere, you were born an angel!!
MAY GOD BLESS YOU xoxoxoxo
 

Rest In Peace Gorgeous
" your smile made the world jealous"

  

August 24th 200602:22:39 PM

Name:

Dominique

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I didnt know Stephanie personally, but from what I've read and can see she was truely a beautiful young girl, who was taken from this Earth prematurely. My condolences go out to her family and friends and also to everyone who knew her..

  

August 23rd 200610:02:44 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

its been a while....
rest in peace princess.

  

August 18th 200610:12:39 PM

Name:

Megan Scarbrough

Comments:

I dont even know where to start, Stephanie was such a beautiful gorgeous and talented girl, i just cant believe shes gone. i remember playing together when we were little, i was so jealous because she had the coolest toys ( barbies dolls etc.) We always loved playing in your pool, pretending we were mermaids, and just having a grand old time! i remember thinking that Steph was so cool because she knew everything about how to do makeup and hair...i remember she would paint her nails a different color every night to match her outfit for the next day. I know that we grew apart but i just wanted to share the memories, and my heart goes out to the Olivas, i cant even imagine. its a daily reminder just driving by your house, it is for every1 in my family. this website is beautiful and the time you took/take to make it and update it shows just how much you love and miss her. God bless all of you and Steph

  

August 15th 200608:52:52 AM

Name:

Amanda

Location:

Syracuse, NY

Comments:

Upon browsing myspace.com last night with my best friend, we couldn't fall asleep.. we were looking at Jamie's profile where we seen this website. Stephanie was so beautiful, every single one of her pictures sheds a light, she truly looks like an angel. I could never imagine going on after losing my daughter, sister, best friend.. lately while searching the internet i've found 2 cases of young girls who have tragically died and day after day visit the websites family/friends have made for them Stephanies & a girl named Anna, it's amazing to see what kind of impact they made. I'm 19 years old and I pat every one of you on the back for giving me a chance to take a moment and learn about such an awesome girl, I would not know what to do if something like this happened to me. Steph's family & friends did an amazing job...
 

Stephanie truly seemed like the ultimate show stopper- not only was she beautiful, she was talented with hair and makeup, smart, and from what i've read..pretty funny.
 

May angels lead her way & one day bring you all together again. R.I.P.
 

amanda.

  

August 9th 200606:32:31 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph - saw the pix of muff! how cute!! and of course a little pink bow! and from what your mom writes, your spirit is in her, of course!
 

i think of you all the time, steph. i really miss having you at our house. chi and mallory had so many good times with you - they talk about you and you are so missed here. i keep trying to understand why this had to happen to you. there is no understanding i've come to yet. my faith in God tells me that sometimes there are no reasons that we know here and now. that doesn't help but if anything, i truly try to appreciate my life and enjoy every minute i have. i think of you every time i hug my girls and thank God that i can do that. i wish i could give you a big hug too. you know mother j will always love you!! http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

August 4th 200612:38:02 PM

Name:

Jeffrey Marlatt

Aim Screen Name

jubei585

Location:

Brockport

Comments:

Hey I guessing non of you know me but I know Stephanies friend Jamie and they way I met her was online when she wrote me a very nice message after my girlfriend passed away on April 15, 2006 and we've talked here and there and after seeing Stephanies pictures on Jamie's web page and talking to Jamie it seems like Stephanie was an incredible being and I talk to Shawna who was the love of my life and ask her to hang out with Stephanie and do what angels do to keep eachother company until we get there. I never believed in angels and stuff before but I get these feelings every now and then that I could just feel my love right next to me I know she is there and so Stephanie has to be there too. You've probably heard every sincere comment that exists so I will take up all of your time. You will see her again, we all will just keep love in your hearts and your dreams will come true.

  

July 26th 200607:15:57 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

stephanie*
you have changed my life so much since you have past. I cherish everyone and everything because i have learned there may not be a tommorrow and not to be with someone that doesnt make me truly happy and that doesnt give me everything i deserve because WE REALLY DONT HAVE FOREVER TO WAIT . there is not a day i go by without thinking about what you would be doing right this minute if you were here, and that is the worst part. But i KNOW you are watching over your family and friends where ever they go, and there is not a better person to do the job. i left you a note at the cemetary the other day and i appologize it was not cute! lol. but i truly believe u were holding my hand the other day to work when my car was doing 360's thru 4 lanes of traffic on 390. when my car finally stopped i had chills down my back and i looked straight at the picture of you in my car and said thank you S. Thank you for being the caring and loving person that you are!!!! You are so missed.
THANK YOU STEPH. IlovEyou

  

July 20th 200605:24:37 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

Lil, heres a quote I found that reminds me so much of you and when i read it i can pick a time and a place where each line compares to your life:
 

To laugh often and much;
to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, a garden patch or redeemed social condition;
to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.
 

Stephy if this is true you may be the most successful person I will ever meet!! love you and miss you lots

  

July 19th 200611:18:32 AM

Name:

Trung Bui

Location:

Long Khanh, Vietnam

Comments:

Dear 's family,
My name is Trung Bui. I am 17 years old. I am going to be a senior at Greece Arcadia High School in September. I also go to her school. Ever since I heard that Stephanie died during the announcement at school, I felt so awful for her. I still feel really bad right now for her dying and for you guys. Ever since I told my family, they all felt bad for her also.I just wished that there was something could do to bring her back. I really understand what it feels like to lose a family member and how your lives will change when that happens. I know how hard it is because ever since I've read her Parent Ad in the yearbook, I saw you guys saying how proud you guys were of her and how you told her to follow her dreams and suddenly a few months later, her life just ended and you guys just lost her. Every time I think about that, I just feel so sorry for her and for you guys. I also really wished I got to meet Stephanie. She seems like such a nice, beautiful, sweet girl. Well, anyway Stephanie, since you passed away, I really hoped that you get to go to heaven and be with God and be able to rest in peace.

  

July 13th 200604:13:53 PM

Name:

Marjorie Bates

Comments:

I've been at this page pretty frequently and I have yet to be on it without crying my eyes out.
I'm good friends with John and I know how devastating this has been and it kills me to read stories about Stephanie and see what an amazing person she was. We were never formally introduced but I remember being on the phone with John every night in 11th grade and Stephanie would be in the background joining in on the conversation and the two of them would go back and forth with witty remarks... it would really make me laugh because I'm the baby of my family and I have 2 older brothers, with the same age differences too, and Stephanie and John reminded me so much of me and my brothers.
I just wanted to let you know that your family is in my thoughts every day and I hope you're all doing well.

  

July 13th 200604:13:28 PM

Name:

Chi

Comments:

I visit this website everyday and I have always avoided the mom and dad's pages because I knew that i wouldnt be able to even read what they have been going thru and i finally just read them all and im crying so hard right now. their lives were sooo unfair to them. stephanie you dont know how much of an impact you have made on everyone that had the chance to meet you. i think of you all the time. i remember when your family took me on vacation with you..we always referred to it as "the BEST vaca of our livesss" and it really was bcuz it was with you. i remember you were yelling at cind saying she never buys things for u that its always for john and nicholas(which u knew was a lie lol) and then she walks out and plops down a brand new pair of sandals for you. and when you would tell me about the little things that she would buy and leave in your room for you and thinking how cute i wish my mom would do that!! i remember you laying in bed yelling out "moochieeeeeee!!" in that little voice.. i miss your voice so much. i miss the way you smelled i miss hugging you i miss taking pointless drives with you i miss everything about you. i wasnt ready for you to go and im still not ready to accept that you are gone. looking at pictures of us together is so bittersweet because i love to think about the fun we used to have but it makes me so sad knowing that i cant have that anymore!!
 

i hope heaven is as beautiful as you were mudder. you will always be on my mind and in my heart stephaniehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

love, your chi

  

July 12th 200609:31:31 PM

Name:

anonymous

Comments:

i have read this whole site and have been sitting here crying my eyes out. i have never met you before but after reading this i feel like i know you so well. words cant describe the feeling of losing a loved one. I am so sorry. God bless you Stephanie and your family. please watch down on us

  

July 11th 200608:31:59 PM

Name:

Shauna

Comments:

Stephanie my Lil One, I first want to say that I feel horrible that it has taken me so long to write something and im sorry for being so selfish. Im guilty of visting your site almost everyday and never actually saying anything. I visit at the cemetery sometimes with my mom and she always tells me that I should stop by and see your parents but I always say that would be too hard. I cant even begin to imagine how your family feels everyday because I know how much it hurts me to want to see you and talk to you but knowing that I cant, and some days are definitely harder than others. I miss you screaming "CANTS!" at me when you would answer my calls or hugging me everytime I saw you. I miss going tanning with you and while laying in the beds we'd be talking to eachother on our cell phones. I know you being taken from us was a mistake but I cant be mad at God. Im sure he realizes now that he has his hands full with you!! There's not a day that goes by that I dont think about you or your name doesn't come up in some conversation with the girls, and when I look at your picture, espec the one at chi town my heart starts to hurt and I get so angry at why and how you were taken from us. I miss you sooo much, and Im trying my best to stay strong! Although everyday I wake up its still hard to believe that your gone, its also one day closer to the next time ill get to see you and squeeze you<3 xoxoxo
PS. Stein wanted to say "Yellooo!" && "I caught Santa on video!"
I miss you and love you sooo much

  

July 11th 200609:04:18 AM

Name:

Jamie

Aim Screen Name

Sparklinangel615

Location:

OntariO//sheaR eGO

Comments:

Hi my beautiful angel... i miss you soooo much and I was just thinking about how we met.. it was July 11 2005 a year ago from today. Seems like just yeterday, but then again it seems like you have been gone for ever!!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/19_indifferent.gif Some days are soo hard. There is a huge hole in my heart. I went to you house the other day, and saw your beautiful garden and puppy. She is one crazy lil pup. haha I think your mom is right that she has some of your spirit in her.
I also went out to eat with your mom and dad.. and they showed me all around your town...and YOU SURE HAVE SOME FARM LAND in greece hahha.There was not a day that went by that you did not make me laugh. I love you so much and hope heaven is beautiful. I miss you!!! Can't wait to see you again. RiP.. Love Jamie.

  

July 9th 200608:10:12 AM

Name:

chi

Comments:

I was thinkin about steph last nite and it made me laugh..we were talking about how she always used to get bloody noses. and can u imagine perfect little steph O. getting a bloody nose hahah her going "ooooh NOOO... OHHH noo, i need NAPS!!!" she got one going thru the drive thru once and even though bloody noses arent something that you would think is really funny...she made it hilarious of course. i miss u so much steph and all the little ways u used to make me laugh soo hard. we all miss and love you so much presh* http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/pray.gif
luv, chi

  

July 8th 200608:58:30 AM

Name:

jill

Comments:

its been too long steph, way too long....
 

*wish you were here*http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

July 6th 200612:42:29 PM

Name:

Alicia Trieste

Location:

Hilton

Comments:

I just wanted to say how sorry i am that this geourgious girl has been taken . I myself have had tragic accsidents take the life of the one i loved. just remember you have a guardian angel on your side. and shes most likely sitting right next to you for your every move. Again i am very sorry and my prayers go out to your family...http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif

  

July 4th 200607:12:16 PM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

happy 4th of july steph! hope all the fireworks are 10X as great for you up in heaven!
 

http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/firecracker.gif
 

we all miss you so much and think of you all the time.

  

July 1st 200607:10:37 PM

Name:

MaryBeth

Location:

greece

Comments:

Hey Steph! I met your puppy the other nite! She's so cute and has quite the personality! I know she would've been your little buddy  I saw your garden too, it's so beautiful. I'm leaving for camp tomorrow and I put your picture on the back of my clipboard so you'll be with me the whole summer. I remember I used to try to get you to come to camp with me when I was a camper but you were too afraid that you wouldnt have enough time to do your hair or use a hairdryer! Haha. Oh and recently I found all the cards you made me for my birthdays. You always gave me homemade ones. And you had the nicest things to say. You were always so thoughtful. I miss you alot, you were always such a good friend! I think about you all the time. Love you always!!!
 

And to the Oliva's-- it was so nice to see you! I love hearing your stories.  Stay strong!

  

June 27th 200608:39:26 PM

Name:

Kristin

Aim Screen Name

CandiesGirly139

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Just writing to say that I hope the Oliva's are doing as well as possible and Stephanie whenever I am at Holy Sepulchre I always go into see you and Pray for you. Your grave is so pretty I love the angels on it because it's totally you, an angel. Keep watching over all of us hun! I miss when we always chatted in the bathroom at school! God Bless!
 

Love Always,
~*~Kristin~*~http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

June 25th 200612:34:46 PM

Name:

Charles

Aim Screen Name

Toxicpudding151

Location:

greece

Comments:

i remember how we always talked about when we were famous how i would design you the perfect dress. you always made me smile, and you still do, whenever i look into the sky, or at a nice pair of designer shoes  i loved the fact that you did not care what people thought of you and expressed yourself always. you are a beautiful person, both inside and out and will always be. like everyone else, i miss you tons. Thank you for all the fashion tips, and the fantastic runway show in italian 

  

June 22nd 200611:20:53 PM

Name:

RIP

Comments:

I truely cant believe that its been a year since we graduated. I remember graduation day I was sitting next to you waiting to get our row called up and I forgot what you said but it made me laugh. Even tho I really didnt know you that well, from the messages I read in here in the guestbook, it seems that your use to making people laugh and im glad I got to experience that even if it was for only 5 seconds. RIP Steph

  

June 22nd 200603:00:10 PM

Name:

Chap

Location:

greece

Comments:

Aahhh Steph... I miss you so much... everything at home reminds me of you and I, and all the rediculous things we used to do/say. I find myself shortening words constantly to abbreves! And whenever I go outside to tan I think of us on vacation and you with your baby oil! ALWAYS kept me laughing... you are priceless.
 

The world just doesn't seem whole without you. Everyone misses you soooo soo much.
 

*The Olivas- I miss you guys too! I'll see you soon to hang out with you guys and the lil' Muff!!
 

Meggie

  

June 19th 200607:02:22 AM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

i came across this quote.... it reminds me so much of you steph..
 

*The only rule is don't be boring.
Dress cute wherever you go,
Life is too short to blend in*
 

miss you presh

  

June 18th 200603:27:12 PM

Name:

RIP

Location:

greece

Comments:

I miss and Love you SOOO much Stephy.. it's still so unreal that you're gone.. Happy Fathers Day to Mr. Oliva I know Stephanie is sitting up there looking down on you wishing she could share this special day with youhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

June 13th 200608:51:33 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

hi steph - mallory was telling me about your new little puppy and how much like you it is. so loving and wanting lots of attention! i think of you a lot steph, everytime i open my wallet, there's your picture your mom gave me. we all miss you so much. i still can't really believe you're gone. i remember the last time i saw you - you were on the couch with your little legs tucked under you - it was the nite mallory got her hair extensions. it bothers me because i don't even really remember if i said cya to you. it's just not right what happened. i wish i would have talked to you more to try to convince you what you were really worth. but i never thought it would end that way. i'm sorry for that, steph.
 

i remember one time picking you and chi up at arcadia - you were both all excited about some mac and cheese thing you guys had made in your food class! i never pass by the ez mac at wegs w/o thinking of you.
 

miss you and love u lots, mother j

  

June 12th 200601:45:44 PM

Name:

Jersey-Angie

Location:

New Jersey

Comments:

wow i dont even know where to start this has to be one of the best ways to express how your feeling about a lost one. although i didnt know stephanie, i have some friends that did im very sorry for everyones loss. heaven gained an angel...im very sorry and i hope everyone is pulling through. god bless. Angie

  

June 11th 200606:58:07 PM

Name:

..

Location:

hilton

Comments:

This page continues to break me down, even if i didnt know stephanie. Just the thought of losing someone you love, especially such a young girl. I will continue to pray for your family, as well as my friend who has recently been sent to heaven. This webpage touches me in a such a way, too everyone who knew her, hold onto her forever.

  

June 9th 200610:14:20 PM

Name:

anonymous

Comments:

i never knew stephanie, but my some of my and friends were friends w her from school. and when i hurd about what happend ( from the newspaper articles to the news and jus the talk of the accident) it broke my heart. she was a very beautiful girl.Not even like regular girl beautiful, but more along the lines of angel beautiful.and jus going thru this site and hearing everything she accomplished in life and seeing her pictures i felt like i knew her. even though i was not blessed enuff to be her friend. i jus wanted to leave a comment saying that.. God has a way of letting everything work out. and you might not know what happened with the accident but god does, and he will punish those who have taken such a beautiful life. nothing is more powerful then the strength of god beside you i want the oliva family to know that even tho they may not know who iam, that i still pray for your strength. loosing a child .. or loosing anyone you care about for that matter is hard. and i commend all of the oliva family. esp. her brother who made this beautiful site for his little sister it's something that i think alot of people would not be able to do, because of the fact of usually in this case ( the loss of a loved one ) dont want to face the fact, of the loss. some try to shun it, because of the pain. But you have embraced it, and i think that this site is a very good way to grieve. and let it all out. Please keep strong. for she is right there with you, she is watching over all of you. protectiong you from bad, Heaven has gained not gained "another angel" he was granted THEE angel. I will pray for you all. God bless you's and God bless Stephanie. May all your days, be bright and better.

  

June 7th 200606:15:17 PM

Name:

Tony La Tona

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

I remember when I used to sleep all the time in Health class and everytime I would, Steph would either tap my shoulder or start to push me and say, "Tony.... Tony.... Wake up. Tonnnnyyyyyyyyy. Wakeeeeee upppppppppppp" I just thought that was always funny cause I dont think I would have passed that class if she didn't always wake me up. Thanks Steph O

  

June 6th 200606:28:57 PM

Name:

Jamie

Location:

Shear Ego

Comments:

"Sometimes the time just slips away
And your left with yesterday
Left with the memories
I, Ill always think of you and smile
And be happy for the time
I had you with me" Stephanie I miss you so much. I can't believe you have been gone 7 month's, it seems like forever, but at the same time I can remember eating the "NEW FLAV" salt n vins and runing down the hall that friday so clear. I miss getting ready for one doing each others hair so it fit perfect on the top on our heads with the ugly visors we had to wear. I miss just driving around and gettin lost on our breaks...trying to get lil kids in our car ((as a joke!)) I miss painting our nails putting soo many coats of polish on it http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif One of the funniest things i'll remember is when we had to go to the police station after my car accident to get the papers and we were so scared some crazy guy would break outta jail and attack us,,and when we went in there wasnt even a jail in there. we were freaking out about nothing. and... NO one does my hair like you did... you did it perfect.... the more condish and prods the better!!! You were the bestest friend anyone could ask for. I hate knowing our dreams will never come true of ownin our salon together and being each others maid of honors in our weddings and having our lil baby girls be best friends just like us!! http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/20_grumpy.gif http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/20_grumpy.gif I miss you more and more each day...there is a HUGE hole in my heart, some days the pain is sooo bad I don't know how I make it. I can't even Imagine how your family feels. No one understands until it they lose someone they love. I MISS YOU SO much Steph. Love Jamie
....I saw your lil puppy muff she has blonde hair, and a pink sparkle colar and acts sooo crazy just like you http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/2_smile.gif she followed me everywehere... I cant wait till the day when I can see that perfect smile...gorgeous eyes..and that long beautiful blonde hair,,,your always in my heart presh. i love you!!!
 

***And to the people have nothing better to do with your life but write nasty commments about the Oliva's and Stephanie , She loved them ALOT even when they did get in there lil fights she would laugh about it and say how much she loved them, but what child doesnt fight with there parent at some point??? She LOVED HER BROTHERS so much,,,she always said she would marry them if she wasn't related to them. Stephanie had a dream...her heart was sooo big, she wanted to take over the world...she only got to complete 2 1/2 part of her dream... to be a great friend, to make her parents proud and to be the BEST HAIR DRESSER!! she had dreams to be the PERFECT wife and mother to her husband and kids JUST LIKE HER MOM...she looked up to Cind so much!!! She was on her way to find the perfect man... her life was cut sooo short....It's so sad to see a girls life taken the way it was. I miss her SOOO MUCH and her family is handlin it real well I think...if I couldn't even imangine what I would do if I had a child and lost it....
STEPHANIE you will ALWAYS be LOVED down here...http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif Rest in Peace http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

June 6th 200606:10:45 PM

Name:

chi

Comments:

stephanie all i can say is that every single person that knew who you really are cant say anything about you except how beautiful you are and what a great person you are. im sorry that other ppl feel the need to make themselves feel better about themselves by downing you and your family but that shows exactly what kind of person they are. im so glad that your family is able to look past what people say and know that you were the best daughter that you could be. nothing will ever change that in my mind. you were the most family oriented person i know and thats one of the major things that i respect about you steph. i love you! love chi:)

  

June 6th 200609:47:27 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

to the Oliva's - just to let you know that you are all so loved and thought about every day. your beautiful daughter and sister, Stephanie, touched me, mallory and kelly and we will always have her in our hearts.
 

there are so many good people who care about you and share in your pain. we all miss her so much.

  

June 5th 200610:06:03 PM

Name:

anonymous

Comments:

i still cant believe your gone...

  

June 5th 200603:22:35 PM

Name:

Meghan

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephyy... little munch'.. i miss you =(
 

i met your puppy last week! Muff! how cute is she! deff. a diva already. that pink colar is so hip. deffinitely good taste right there!
 

not a day goes by where i dont think of you or talk about you and how funny and lovely you are. i love you BFF *  Chap
 

..it wont go away... http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/19_indifferent.gif this wasnt how its supposed to be...

  

June 4th 200612:23:12 PM

Name:

Chi

Comments:

I think of you everyday mudder. this is so unfair! i wish i tried so much harder. ill never forget you presh! i heart u.
luv ur chihttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

June 3rd 200601:08:49 PM

Name:

Jamie

Comments:

"The truth is you dont know
what is going to happen tomorrow.
Life is a Crazy ride,
and NOTHING is guaranteed."-eminem
 

Stephanie I found this and thought of you  and it's by your favorite singer EM!!! i miss you soo much! I hate not having you around. I would do anything to see you again!!!! love and miss you soo much!!!!! love Jamie xoxoxo

  

June 1st 200610:43:28 PM

Name:

Cindy

Location:

Greece

Comments:

It's Friday morning at 1:30 am,Stephanie. I'm dieing inside, I am really dieing. I can't stop my crying. How does a mother live with out her child? You are a part of me that is gone. I know deep down there is more to this accident then what was ever revield. Between drivers and witnesses. If truth never comes, "will Karma follow all who was involved in the whole process". You took my life away from me and my famly. All your days will come.

  

May 31st 200608:18:29 AM

Name:

Jamie

Location:

Ontario

Comments:
 

I miss you so much Stephanie!xoxo

  

May 30th 200604:13:24 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

hey presh,
It has been so sunny and hot out the past few days! But soooo humid, my hair just puffs back up after i straighten it, ughh! I wish you were here to enjoy the sunshinehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/25_coolguy.gif . And see you driving around in your colbs, with ur hands in the exact right spots and your posture perfectly straight up. haha you were so cute.
 

"..but if i had a shotgun
you know what i'd do?
i'd point that s**t straight at the sky
and shoot heaven on down for you"- bradley
 

I was looking through our senior yearbook when i came across the page with your picture one it. I cried for so long, to this day it doesnt seem real that we will never see you again.
 

but on a funnier note, i was listening to the sublime 40oz cd, and it came all the way to the end with the thank you song. the song most people realize its time for a new cd, not steph who loved it. So i sat and listened to the whole thing, and its really not that great just a whole bunch of thank you's to people we dont even know. But for steph i think she was just such a greatful person that she must have loved the idea of thanking those who she cherished most.
 

i miss you and that attitude way bigger than your body.

  

May 27th 200611:45:43 AM

Name:

Dad

Comments:

It's been 204 days since we lost our angel. It doesn't seem to get any better. Our lives will forever be divided into with and without Stephanie.
 

This should never have happened!!!
 

I miss my little girl and I feel cheated that I won't get to see her blossom into the spectacular young lady she was on her way to becoming before this senseless tragedy.

  

May 22nd 200605:19:14 AM

Name:

Stephanie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I never knew Stephanie, I saw her in the halls many times, I could never forget her smile. I graduated in '03 and when I heard the news I couldn't believe this young lady had passed. Everytime I saw her she always had a smile and was surrounded by many friends. It's sad that so many of the Titans have passed away. We will never forget you guys. My son will be celebrating his first birthday this Thursday and I can't imagine anything like this ever happening. Children are supposed to burry their parents, not the other way around.
To the family...stay strong and don't think of the bad times to remember your loved one by, remember how she made you laugh, proud and most of all how she loved you.
 

"When I was born I was crying and everyone around me was smiling...I will live my life so that when I die I wll be smiling and everyone around me will be crying."

  

May 20th 200607:15:47 AM

Name:

Jamie

Location:

Shear Ego

Comments:

Stephanie, I wasn't ready to see you leave, your style,your laugh/smile , your hair,the way we walked(stompin) I miss you so much. You were the bravest girl I knew;you would do anything and have NO regrets. You were only in my life for a short period of time.I will never forget you. I hope your having a blast with all the angels.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif Keep shining down on all of us. I Love and Miss you SOOOOO much....Love Jamie

  

May 19th 200609:43:05 AM

Name:

Chi

Aim Screen Name

kellbell372

Comments:

Every single day it gets harder without you here steph! I'm workin on my friends and family page and its so long already but i have so much more to say about you. i wish you were here to help me revise it, you were always good at that! well while im workin on it i guess i can tell a funny story about steph thats always made me laugh. i wasnt with her when it happend but i heard all about it later. she was with a friend of mine and he was driving and she was in the passenger seat, and he thought he saw a cop flash his lights behind him so steph goes to look behind the truck and smacked her face right in the closed passenger window which im assuming she thought was wide open. hahaha im laughin picturing it now. steph always had the abilitly to laugh at herself and thats one of the things i luv about her. i've got to get to class i just thought id share that story lol. i miss & love you so much steph! wish u were herehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/4_wink.gif
love, chi

  

May 17th 200609:21:17 PM

Name:

Mom

O

Location:

Stephanie's mom

Comments:

Some People don't have a tomarrow, So what ever you are facing, it can't be as bad as that. Jamie, our Sparkle Angel, You could have not said it better. Live your life happy with no complaints.
 

Stephanie's momhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/11_confused.gif

  

May 17th 200607:54:33 PM

Name:

Jillian

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Stephanie,
I didn't know you that well in high school..now that I think back, it's a shame that more of us didn't talk or hang out. When i heard of your passing, i didn't believe it. I thought the person telling me the news had the wrong name.
I remember you and Kelly always talking in PIG class, and Mrs. Roof always ready to blow a gasket. I just remember how hard you worked in that class, always telling Mrs. Roof that you need to pass, and just working away.
This isn't much of a story, just a little reminder. I'm sorry I didn't know you better...loosing one of the '05 Titans was hard...but I saw how much you were loved at the wake, and was glad people came to pay respect. I pray you are happy up in Heaven, and are living your dreams. RIP.

  

May 14th 200608:27:18 PM

Name:

Mom

Comments:

My Precious Baby Girl, How I will miss you on Mothers Day. Not having
you here with me on my 1st Mother's Day since you have left us, Will
never be the same.  It's so hard, Stephanie

  

May 14th 200606:43:20 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

Happy Mother's Day Mrs. Oliva (CIND)!!
 

Stephanie truely adored you and there wasnt a time i didnt hear her say something about you even if it was about some silly fight or the fact that steph was not gunna be home on time and you were calling her, ill never forget the ring she had for you on her phone. You 2 were so cute together because you are were both so tiny and both of you always had such cute hair!! I always used to be soooo jealous of her hair i would stair at it and be like why cant my hair look like stephs!! As summer approaches i think more and more about all the things we did and she wont be here!!! The other night was the i broke down and cried because we were having a dress up party and she couldnt dress up with us!! Mal told me "she is here with us" but i couldnt take the fact that she was there with us and i couldnt see her all dolled up along with us. Well im blabbing now...I just wanted to wish you a happy mothers day and i know steph is still there with you and loves you more than anyone in this world.

  

May 11th 200612:18:32 PM

Name:

RIP

Location:

Hilton

Comments:

This website is amazing. My friend was just killed 3 months ago in an accident. The tragedy is unbearable. This is one of the greatest websites i have seen in dedication of a loved one. Im sorry for you loss, and im sure both of our angels are shining down on all who touched them as we speak.

  

May 9th 200608:46:03 AM

Name:

mother j

Location:

greece

Comments:

I heard this song last nite, steph, and it made me think of you. it's by a guy named tom stahl and it's called "are there angels" - here's some of the lyrics:
 

"Angels don't belong down here on earth, they're gone before you know it and
when they're gone it hurts/So treasure every moment from the moment of their
birth/'cause you know angels don't belong down here on earth. "Where there're
angels, there is hope/So when you feel you just can't cope and the world
around turns cold and gray and your angel's far way/Well don't you cry,
angels don't die."
 

miss you, steph

  

May 8th 200609:40:49 AM

Name:

Chi

Comments:

It's been about 6 months since you left us mudder and i think about you more than ever now.. this worlds just not been right without you in it. since the day i met you in study hall in 11th grade you have done nothing but make me happy. you were exactly what i needed when i met you and i knew i was exactly what you needed when you met me. i remember sitting in chi town with you fantasizing about our senior year at school and how excited you were to "show us off!" lol. the nickname you gave me "chi" will never leave me i dont think.. even people that never met you or people that never saw us together the first thing they say when they see me is "hey chiii!" (but dont worry steph u know that i will always be YOUR chi) i miss so bad the days that i would call u and i could barely hear you even say hello? when u answered because celine dion or something just as lame would be blasting in the background n i could just see u sitting at ur computer singing ur little heart out waving ur hands up in the air like ur mariah carey hahah. nicholas i love coming to this website i go to it any chance i get! 6 months have gone by and it is still so unreal to me that you are gonehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif sometimes i still even call your cell phone hoping to hear what silly voic  uve made this week.. Im sure that i will think of you every day until we meet up in heaven! I LOVE YOU STEPHANIE!
Love, YOUR chihttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

May 7th 200606:53:13 PM

Name:

jilly

Location:

jilly2587

Comments:

i think about you all of the time.
 

this is not right...still.
 

whyyyyy?!?~?!http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

May 5th 200607:34:46 PM

Name:

Erica

Location:

Greece

Comments:

6 months ago yesterday..and its still so hard to believe, you are dearly loved and truely missed Sstephanie Anne..cant wait to see you again

  

May 3rd 200609:57:21 AM

Name:

chi

Comments:

I'm on my break at school now and thought i would stop in and say HI MUDD! i think about u everyday and as much as i would like to have you back i know you're havin fun up there with bradley listening to sublime and doin everyone's hair im sure! I love u and i miss u so much steph! keep watchin out for mehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif iheartu!

  

May 2nd 200603:51:12 PM

Name:

danielle

Location:

hilton

Comments:

wow...i don't even know what to say, i don't know who you are...but i think it's really awesome that you made this website.. i lost a friend of mine this year from a car accident too...it's really hard to lose someone you know or love. i just think it's really nice that u made this site n i wanted to let you know that.

  

May 2nd 200612:03:28 PM

Name:

Lisa

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I cant find the words to say how much i miss you steph..http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif

  

May 2nd 200610:57:23 AM

Name:

MaryBeth

Comments:

Whenever I hear Eddie Money, I THINK OF YOU STEPH! Haha I miss watching you play the air saxophone and laughing about it for hours. It's memories like those that help me get through the day.
 

You must be so busy in heaven, you are so many people's guardian angel [you have ALOT of loved ones!]... but you are doing a great job! Thank you. I know you are looking out for me.
 

I think about you each and every second of the day. I miss you like crazy, not like you didnt already know that. I wish I could see that beautiful smile again. I love you Stephanie!!!

  

April 30th 200603:35:42 PM

Name:

jilly

Comments:

Stephanie you are truly an angel....http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
 

nick, i love that you added her poems and essays, i can just hear here saying all of those things she wrote.

  

April 27th 200609:46:14 AM

Name:

Sven

Location:

Baldwinsville, New York (Syracuse)

Comments:

Stephanie, I did not have the opportunity to know you, but you have changed my life nonetheless. I work with your father, and hearing of your passing touched me deeply. I have a 17 year old daughter, Haley, who was very unhappy about our move here to central New York this last year. With the new job, I rarely saw my family, and my wife and daughter and I were accordingly very unhappy. (Our son Erik adapted wonderfully, but he is a different story...!) My daughter was very depressed, and even quit dreaming. Her unhappiness ate at me every day.
 

When you passed, Stephanie, it made me realize how short life can be for some. It's not the destination - It's the journey. At the time, my focus was on the destination. My motto was always "the secret to life is enjoying the passage of time", and I realized that I had not been following my own advice.
 

So, where is this going?
 

I put my career on hold (resigned my hour-intensive job) and am moving my family to Florida to work 40 hours a week and enjoy the passage of time.
 

I spoke with Nick yesterday, and his love for you is stronger than ever. We talked about your role in my decision to make a life change. If there can be good things resulting from tragedy, then I would offer that the change in direction for me and my family is one that you can add to your list.
 

Thank you, and God bless,
 

Sven
 

PS Since deciding on the move, my special, lovely daughter Haley tells me she has been dreaming every night.

  

April 27th 200607:39:51 AM

Name:

Jamie

Location:

Shear EEEg

Comments:

Hey Muff- really miss you. I have been work at the salon for about three weeks now. I wish you were there to mock the weird people that come in with me.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/27_laughing.gif Its almost been 6 months that you have been gonehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/11_confused.gif I can't believe it!!! I just wish I knew how this really happened. You had so much to live for...http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/19_indifferent.gif Im counting down the days till we meet again.... i love you Stephanie!!!!  Jamie http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif Image Hosted by ImageShack.us for you up there in heaven!!!!

  

April 25th 200611:10:02 AM

Name:

Megan

Location:

Brockport, NY

Comments:

My condolences go out to the Oliva family. A week ago last friday, heaven also received another beautiful angel. One of my best friends Shawna Lea Cyr, of Brockport, NY was killed in a Car Accident, late Friday night - Saturday morning. I wish the best to your family, and will now have both Stephanie and Shawna in my thoughts. Heaven has been blessed with two amazing girls, and from what I have read on Stephanie, her and Shawna will definately make amazing friends up there <3
All my love to the family and friends, and just remember it's not goodbye because that means forever, it's nice knowin' ya because we will be seeing them again someday.
 

<3Megan Mills

  

April 24th 200611:50:11 AM

Name:

Meghan

Comments:

In the rising of the sun and in its going down, we remember them.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter, we remember them.
In the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring, we remember them.
In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer, we remember them.
In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn, we remember them.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends, we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart, we remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share, we remember them.
So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
 

Miss you my Best! How could anyone forget you! Love you so much.

  

April 23rd 200601:05:55 PM

Name:

chi

Comments:

Steph I miss you soo0o0o much!!! You have beeen on my mind so much lately but i can't say that's a bad thing..i love thinking about you!:) I wish so bad that things could have been different but there is nothing I can do now except remember how presh you really were. I hope you're having fun up there..wish i could be with you. Watch over me you know i need it! 'Till we meet again mudder:`(
Love CHI

  

April 21st 200603:26:56 PM

Name:

Carrie Mustaca

Location:

all around

Comments:

I dont even know where to begin! This entire website is amazing. Stephanie truly has an extremely loving family. I pray for all you guys every night before bed. Being Stephanie's hairstylist for almost six years really made me grow to adore her. She was almost like my little sister. I'll never forget the day one of my co-workers broke the horrible news to me about Stephanie. I was floored!!! Instant crocodile tears. "NO" I thought. She's too young, too beautiful, too talented. But after hearing so many stories about Stephanies life growing up I realize she had so much love all around her. Sure, there were some hard times, but I rarely saw Stephanie without a great big, gorgeous smile on her face. In fact, Stephanie made me laugh so hard some times I extended our appointments together because I knew we would talk and crack jokes half the time. She reminded me so much of myself when I was her age. From the goofiness to the rebelliousness. This can happen to anybody, but it's so much harder when it's someone so special. Nick(father), you know I have always told you that you were my favorite customer, but I kind of lied. Your daughter was really "MY FAVORITE" She's the true pimp. When she was about 16 years old she always said she was such a pimp. She was so silly. I loved it. I could have been having a bad day, but if I saw that Stephanie had an apppointment I instantly got excited. She made my day. I miss you so much Steph, but God wanted you with him. I know we will meet again and maybe we can do hair side by side in heaven! Or is everyone's hair perfect there too? I'll love and think of you forever.
Carrie

  

April 21st 200606:07:08 AM

Name:

mike pringle

Location:

fairport

Comments:

mom markie and mike miss steph soooooooooooooo much

  

April 19th 200612:04:01 PM

Name:

Mike

Location:

Webster

Comments:

The Good Die young.
 

RIP

  

April 10th 200608:30:24 PM

Name:

Rosie

Location:

Chili

Comments:

Stephanie,
I still can't believe that you are gone. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and all that you went through, but yesterday was an especially tough day for me. I wish you were here to wish you a Happy 19th Birthday in person and I can't even begin to imagine what it must've been like for Uncle Nick, Aunt Cindy, Nicholas, John and all of your amazing friends. All I can hope is that you are up there smiling down on them and me, and that you know how much you meant to us. You will always be in my heart.
 

Nicholas, this page is absolutely amazing, and I am SO PROUD of you for creating it and sharing so much of yourself. I find myself checking it on a daily basis and usually end up in tears, as I am now. I know how much you loved her, and this page truly shows that love.
 

I never imagined when I "babysat" Steph in Feb, 2005 that it would be the last time that I saw her. I am SO glad that I had the chance to spend time with her and really get to know the woman that she had become. Thank you Uncle Nick & Aunt Cindy for asking me to do that. I only wish I had more time to spend with her now...

  

April 10th 200607:45:04 PM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Aim Screen Name

sammigrl1211

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

I can't seem to stop looking at this website and listening to the song over and over again... I showed it to my mom today and she had to stop looking at it because she started to cry. It sure makes you think. Thanks to Nick and your family for doing this. RIP Steph.

  

April 10th 200611:58:08 AM

Name:

Kris

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy belated Birthday, Steph. I hope the party was good one! We didn't know each other that well, but I get to know you better with every story that gets posted here. I really wish I had the chance to do it in person. Hopefully some day.
Nick, the site really is a great tribute to an amazing, beautiful and unique sister. I really am touched every time I visit.
-kwaks

  

April 10th 200603:31:49 AM

Name:

Samantha Christie

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Hello. I am 19 years old too and I can't even imagine. I never lost anyone close to me like this. I didn't know Stephanie personally, but this site has so much to it that I feel like I do. This site is awesome. You all did amazing with your pages and I love the song! My boyfriend and closest friends graduated with her from Arcadia last June and I was at the graduation. All I can say it I am so sorry for your great loss. Like I said, I didn't know Steph personally, but this site makes me break down and bawl. I am so so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. And if it's not too late... Happy Belated Birthday Steph!!! It is obvious that you are and always will be greatly missed. God Bless!

  

April 9th 200609:07:37 PM

Name:

jamiee

Location:

the farm land

Comments:

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i miss you so much stephanie. i hope heaven had the best birthday party for you, you deserve it!!!i love you....<3 jamiehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 9th 200608:29:10 PM

Name:

Meghan (aka. Chap)

Location:

Greece, NY

Comments:

Dear my little Stephalicious O,
I can remember the day I turned 13 and you told me on the bus that I was "No longer Child's play!" then exactly 5 months later it was your turn! Every year after my birthday you would continue to tell me that I wasn't child's play any longer. Seriously, I don't think we ever would grow up! We are so silly!
Since my birthday is November 9th and yours is April 9th we thought that we shared half birthdays with each other.. but we are definitely a month off with that! I always made a stop at your house for your birthday, and you did the same. Never a day with out one another.
My 19th birthday, this past November, I thought I wouldn't be able to be with you because I am at college.. but I came home for you, and I was deffinitely "with you" that day Steph, even though it was just so hard to do. Now forever we wont have to miss one anothers special day. You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers, along with your entire family.
To the Olivas, I love you all very much! I know Stephanie wants us all to live happily and in good spirits! Today is her day, and I am sure she is dancing and humming in a pretty pink princess outfit! Not a day goes by where I cant get you out of my mind.
BFF Forever and Always munchin! HAPPY BIRTHDAY! "no more childs play steph"
Love,
Chap

  

April 9th 200608:27:25 PM

Name:

Ashley

Aim Screen Name

ashley9713

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy Birthday Stephanie, I still can't believe your really gonehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif I miss you so much!! Meg and I ate chips and dip today for you and we didn't scoop we made sure the dip stayed nice and flat just like you eat it! I miss you so much. I hope you approve of the rings, we thought it was something that you would pick out! Happy Birthday babe
You are always in my heart
until we meet againhttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif
*Love You Beautiful*

  

April 9th 200607:10:56 PM

Name:

MaryBeth Weinmann

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy 19th Birthday Stephanie! I hope you had an amazing day in heaven.
It's insane how much I miss you. Everyday is just so hard. We had the most amazing friendship and I wouldnt trade it for anything in the world. I miss your laugh so much (remember when we laughed over the word "lukewarm" in "Meet the Parents" for a good half hour haha). And your jokes. You were the funniest person ever. You made me laugh so hard that I kicked myself in the face with my knee. I will never forget that. I wish the tears could stop. I know you want all of your loved ones to be happy and not cry but it's so unbelievably hard. The world just isnt the same without you. Everything just reminds me of you. (Real World nites just arent the same!).
I love you so so so much!!!

  

April 9th 200602:13:59 PM

Name:

Jonathan and Michelle

Location:

West Palm Beach, FL...originally Rochester, NY

Comments:

Happy Birthday Stephanie. I wish you could be here celebrating it.
 

Aunt Cindy, Uncle Nick, Nick, and John you are all in our prayers.
 

Jonathan and Michelle

  

April 9th 200607:23:14 AM

Name:

Mother J

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Happy 19th Birthday, Stephanie! It's a beautiful sunny day today, as it should be for you! We all miss you so much, honey. I know that you're free now, angel, but i can't help but be selfish and wish that you could be here with us again. This is your day, Stephanie, and i know all the angels in Heaven are singing and dancing with you! all my love, mother j

  

April 8th 200610:00:46 PM

Name:

jill

Location:

greece

Comments:

<3Happy Birthday Stephaniehttp://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif <3
 

i love and miss you so much. It drives me crazy that we will never be able to celebrate your bithdays WITH YOU again. I hope you are having a great time with out us, you have got all of the best of them up there with you!! I must say you met Bradley before me and im sooooo Jealous!!Im so tired and im going to bed, i just couldnt skip you out on the midnight birthday message. And lastly steph, im so sorry for everything you went through. You deserved someone so much better...someone that would treat you like the princess that you are.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/26_crying.gif
rest in peace princess and happy birthday.<3<3

  

April 3rd 200606:27:43 PM

Name:

Katie

Location:

Greece

Comments:

First off, i would like to say that this website is amazing..and Nick, i really commend you on what you wrote and your section..everything you said had to be stated..Agian, I know you hear this all the time but I am so sorry for your loss. No one should ever have to feel the way your family does. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her and question why this happened. I remember when I first met Steph, it was back when I was in 10th grade. We got talking, and found out that were just alike!..we had the same sense of humor, we love the same things..hair and make up, and loved to look our best...and we also had a fasination of making fun of the people we didn't like..which was a bunch. We started to hang out after that, and had the best times. One night I slept over and we stayed up till all hours of the night drinking lemonaid, eating pizza and cracking jokes. I would give anything to have one more night like that with her. Me being one of many, miss that girl with all my heart, she was so beautiful and talented. she was everything i wanted to be, from fullfilling my dream in hairdressing to being the girl with the great sense of humor that could keep anything laughing for days on end. I may not see her for a while..but i will see her one day..and when i do, I know that we will pick up right where we left off..crackin jokes and having endless converstaions. And agian, this website was a great idea..and i'm so glad that you guys designed it. Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers.
.XOXO.
Katie

  

April 3rd 200604:28:42 PM

Name:

FR Toczynski, Jake

Aim Screen Name

Poser248

Location:

Rochester, NY

Comments:

Stephanie was one of the closest friends I have ever had. Everyday that goes by I think of how much I truly miss her. I had her picture In my locker all through bootcamp and seeing her helped me maintain my sanity as the days went by. Any time I would see Stephy she would always put the biggest smile on my face. She had the most amazing smile and such perfect teeth. She used to make fun of me because I commented on her teeth one day in class. Stephanie and I used to stay up late on the phone to watch the Real World, we always got so into that show. I'll never forget how amazing she looked on Prom day. I couldn't of asked for anyone better to take. I have a picture of Stephanie on prom that was taken without her knowing. She looks so perfect and happy in the picture. She never got to see that picture, even though she never liked pictures of herself I know she'd love it. If anyone would like to see it, you can e-mail me. I love you Stephanie and you will always be in my heart, prayers and dreams. Goodbye.

  

April 3rd 200612:31:35 PM

Name:

Pat

Location:

Penfield

Comments:

I'm proud to say I'm related to stephanie in a roundabout way. Although I'm sad to say I only met her once. My prayers are with the Oliva family everyday. I am a loss for words but Nick this is a beautiful tribute to your sister.

  

April 2nd 200609:00:18 AM

Name:

Devon

Aim Screen Name

xxdev7shortyxx

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I remember the first time I met Steph. My family and I had just moved into the neighborhood and there was a block party being thrown. I remember being very shy and my mother saying "go introduce yourself to those girls over there, they look your age". And I did. For the rest of the summer I believe Steph, Emily (Adams) and I were constantly together. I remember how scared of my dogs she was, she never wanted to come inside, oh the look on her face. I will never forget playing soccer with Steph. She never wanted to be the goalie, for that goalie helmet was absolutely hideous. My father was one of the only people that actually got to touch Steph's hair I believe, but only to make her even more beautiful in the goalie helmet. Steph and I remained friends throughout middle and high school. My best memory with her during school was most def Carl Merc, our science teacher who was the biggest doof. We had some classes together but not many, but still kept our friendship. She really was something else, a very unique and beautiful girl. She was always smiling and laughing, she could have brought me up from any type of mood. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to your family, I am so sorry such amazing people have to go through something like this, no one should. Stephanie Anne I'll never forget you... till we meet again love.http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif

  

April 2nd 200606:38:07 AM

Name:

Sarah and Jeremy Bittel

Location:

Greece and now Wellsville

Comments:

We both worked with Cindy at Sears and in that time we realized how amazing this family is. Cindy told us stories all the time about her family and the love she has for them was amazing to us. We didn't understand that love then, but now that we have a son, we realize how lucky Cindy and Nick are to have three children that they have shared so much with. We are so sorry that you have had to deal with this tragic loss. We will always thinking of Stephanie as your little dancing princess and all of the shopping that you were able to do for her at Sears! She was a beautiful young woman and she was blessed to have such wonderful brothers and parents. We think of you often and you are in our prayers.

  

April 1st 200601:59:22 PM

Name:

Ashley Cleary

Location:

Greece

Comments:

I have heard many good things about the Oliva family, and I finally had the chance to meet Mr. and Mrs. Oliva last night. I am very sorry for your loss, and I cant imagine what it is like to go through something like this, it breaks my heart. You are such an inspiration with your courage, strength and faith.

  

March 29th 200609:06:23 AM

Name:

Valerie

Location:

Rochester

Comments:

stephanie and i were good friends back in the day; we went to st.johns together and were also a part of the same girl scout troop. i knew from the day i met her that she was a smart, beautiful, and talented girl who could achieve anything she set her mind to. it's so sad to sit here and realize that such an amazing girl like her will never be able to achieve what she had wanted for so long.
stephanie, you are in my thoughts constantly and you truly will be missed.
mr. and mrs. oliva, nick, and john...god bless!!

  

March 25th 200605:16:04 PM

Name:

t.muhs

Location:

greece

Comments:

i never knew her but the loss is still heart breaking, im sorry.

  

March 25th 200603:03:08 PM

Name:

Jamie Bernhard

Location:

Shear Ego/ Ontario

Comments:

Steph- i remember the 1st day I met you, you came into school late. You came storming in and sat in the row infront of me, you were so upset about the "STUPID LADY" hit your car i still remember you saying"who pulls out when theres a car behind you" you were so crazy i thougt to myself"she seems alot like me" and then you looked back at me and had the biggest smile on your face- ever since then we were best friends."girlfriends" my last memory of us was friday me and you running to my car screamin "WERE SO HOT" to get us some "prods for our hair" on the way back in skipping hooking arms saying "we are girlfriends and were gonna get married" going in to are class saying "EXCUSE"just to make people mad. then the hug we shared be4 the weekend. little did i know it would be the last time i saw you my last hug. *Muff~ words can't describe how much i miss you. you were truly my best friend. You taught me so much. i will never forget any of our memories. my best times at shear ego were with you, and i wish you were graduating with me thursday.i love and miss you so much, you will forever be in my heart! You will always be my best friend,girlfriend,sister,muff,"MY DILL PICKLE"*toxic twin*and*myANGEL* rest in peace steph.
 

Oliva Fam. ~i wish i got to know you better before steph. passed away. she told me alot about you guys tho.- Nick> She thought you were so smart she always told me "she wished she could be as smart as you." she said you loved to learn and she wished she had that mentality. Cind> she looked up to you sooo much! when she was a mom she wanted to be just like you. she always said how thankful she was to have you to clean up after her and pack her lunch. ((THANKS for the pud packs)) Nick>step always told me about how you were always trying to help her out. and that you were smart with computers cus you got her cosmetology CDrom to work. i know shes so proud of this website. John "Jonathan"> steph looked up to you alot, she told me you 2 were like twins. i remember sitting in the back of the room lookin at you picture she kept in her wallet she was always telling me how wonderful you were and she wished she could marry you b/c to her you were the "PERF. MAN"and that you knew how to treat a girl. I am truly sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful girl, I am so greatful that i had the chance to meet you daughter/sister, i just wish it didn't have to end. Apart of Stephanie will always be with me everywhere I go. http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/30_angel.gif  Jamie xoxo
 

  

March 23rd 200607:51:57 PM

Name:

Kristin

Location:

Greece

Comments:

This poem was read at my friend Sara's funeral and it is really nice to think about. Hope you like it!
 

At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on her tombstone,
From the beginning...to the end.
He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth...
And now only those who loved her,
Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars...the house...the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard...
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel
And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile..
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy's being read
With your life's actions to rehash...
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?
 

Stay strong everyone!
<3Kristin<3

  

March 23rd 200607:38:35 PM

Name:

Jessy

Location:

Greece/Hilton

Comments:

Hey im Jessy, and Im good Friends with Jessie Schlageter (Mackie), I was with her the day/ night all this happend, even though I didn't know Stephanie personally, I feel greatly for all her friends and family. I could never imagine what you are all going through. I just want to say how deeply and passionatly sorry I am for your loss. I could see with all the sorrow and pain in everyones eyes that day at slick's house how much everyone cared for her and loved her. I couldn't help but feel the sorrow and pain as well. I know she was a beautiful and wonderful person. She will be greatly missed, by everyone.

  

March 23rd 200602:03:56 PM

Name:

AMANDA

Location:

ROCH.NY.

Comments:

A LIL' POEM...
 

STEPHANIE WILL ALWAYS BE...
THE MOST LOVING DAUGHTER, THE DEAREST SISTER, THE BEST OF FRIEND, A ROLE MODEL, A GREAT PERFOMER,
AN AMAZING HAIR STYLIST, AN UNFORGETTABLE SMILE, AND NOW HEAVENS MOST BEAUTIFUL ANGEL.
 

WITHOUT A WARNING GOD HAD REACHED OUT FOR STEPHANIES HAND AND BLESSED HER WITH A PAIR OF WINGS.
SHE WAS ALL THAT AND MORE TO US...SHE WAS OUR EVERYTHING.
 

GOD HAD TO SET HER BEAUTIFUL SOUL FREE.
BUT PLEASE DON'T WORRY SHE IS IN HEAVEN NOW, WHERE SHE IS AS SAFE AS CAN BE.
 

STEPHANIE WILL BE WITH YOU WHERE EVER YOU ARE.
NO NEED TO LOOK FAR, LOOK UP AND SEE SHE'S NOW HEAVENS' BRIGHTEST SHINING STAR.
 

LEAN ON GOD AND DON'T FORGET TO PRAY
BECAUSE YOU WILL BE GUIDED TO STEPHANIE AGAIN ONE DAY.
 

UNTIL THAT DAY COMES, STEPHANIE WOULD WANT YOU TO SMILE
AND MAKE EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE WORTH WHILE.
LIFE IS PRECIOUS AND SO SHORT YOU SEE
JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOU CAN BE ANYTHING YOU WANT TO BE.
 

I THINK OF ALL OF STEPHANIES FAMILY AND FRIENDS IN THIS TIME OF SORROW.
ALWAYS PRAYING, HOPING, AND BELIEVING THAT YOU WILL HAVE A MUCH BRIGHTER TOMORROW.
 

STEPHANIE WILL LIVE ON IN ALL OF OUR HEARTS FOREVER!
 

.RIP.
 

...MY DEEPEST THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU OLIVA FAMILY & FRIENDS OF STEPHANIE...

  

March 21st 200605:43:42 PM

Name:

mal

Location:

chitown

Comments:

i can only come to one conclusion as to y u had to leave us mud. everyone up in heaven was jealous. jealous that we had the most beautiful angel with us down here and . my grandma told me once that there are angels placed on this earth disguised as people. i dont think there is any other word u could use to discribe our mudder with. she was truly an angel and she has impacted my life more than she will ever know. i would give nething in the universe to hear her scream is that my CCCHHHIII!!!!!! and grab the phone from my hand, i would give nething to see her in school again runnin down the halls with jamie yelling were hott!
one of the last memories i have of steph was when i went outside at school and sat on the picnic table all by myself, the one we always sat on at "shear eeeg", and u and jamie came bursting through the back doors sreaming "were girlfriends!!!!!" arm in arm litterally skipping to jamies car and on the way back she justlooked at me and smiled and i will never ever forget that smile.
 

or the last time i saw my little *presh*. she was in the classroom looking at the mirror (as usual) lol and i was leaving early, i passed the room and she saw me and turned her head as if to say goodbye and i just left and never said goodbye. i remember thinking o ill see mud on monday.....
but i have to believe that there is a reason y we never got to say goodbye to our angel. it can only mean that we will meet again someday. as mother j always said its not goodbye its see u later.....
 

i couldnt tell u what i would say to steph if i could talk to her once more cuz id be too busy tackling her with chi.

  

March 20th 200610:02:35 PM

Name:

erica

Location:

henrietta new york

Comments:

gosh ive tried so hard not to cry everytime i visit this page ... i use to be in sum of steph's classes at arcadia we always talked and hung out in class...then i moved to henreitta and completly lost touch i never really knew y it would take this happening to remember her but i do she was so funny and always worrying about her hair it was great but she always found a way around it i remember how she ALWAYS had the scrunchy around her wrist i think i even made fun of her for it but we knew i was kidding n she loved it...i miss her very much ...i wish i kept in touch i really do but shes in a better place now looking down on everyone....godbless u guys i pray for u everynight yer in everyones prayers
 

godbless
Erica G.

  

March 20th 200608:29:23 PM

Name:

jilly

Aim Screen Name

jilly2587

Comments:

Oh mother j, your note brought me to tears. You are so right, having Steph around the house was such a good feeling because you knew you were guarenteed to have a smile on your face. The morning we all found out and went to "chi town" as steph would say, is a day i will never forget. The only good thing was everyone who loved steph and spent so much time with her over the years was there, everyone. But why did it take us until we lost steph to get everyone together again and to realize how important our lives really are? I dont know, but for that i thank you steph for making me fully appreciate life and to NEVER take it for granted. I know you are up in heaven having a show up there too!! I can just see you dancing and singing, i'll never forget your gospel singing haha. I love you steph, and i PROMISE i will think of you every day for the rest of my life so that you are "NEV" forgotten.

  

March 20th 200610:18:45 AM

Name:

Mother J

Location:

Greece

Comments:

Steph, what would i say to you if i could talk to you one more time. i'd tell you what a beautiful, fun, amazing young woman you are. how you should truly believe in yourself cause you have so much to offer this world. that i love you.
 

you were like one of my own girls - i remember the times you'd be at our house and how much life you brought to us. seeing you, kelly and mallory (and mike) hanging out in kelly's room are happy memories for me. and how you'd try each time you came over to clean kelly's room and yet it always got back to being a mess! but you never quit trying!!
 

i remember seeing you at shear ego when mallory would be doing my hair and how you got yelled at for not being where you were "supposed" to be! i remember the times mallory would tell me about shear ego and how they used to drive you two crazy and about the lunches your mom would pack for you and how excited you would get about them!